What should love look like at its best?
I think it should be that when you can see each other, you only think about snuggling up to each other, and when you can't see each other, you can't help but miss each other, it is a thought rooted in the depths of your heart, and you don't care for no reason.
For men who think in a straight line, they love a person very directly, and may not express how romantic the love words are, but the people in it must feel the surging emotions.
For men, it may be that in the days when they can't see the other half, missing has already become a disease, and only when it is reflected can they pin their hopes on love.
Psychological research shows that men like to miss women in three moments, and the last one is true love, so make no mistake
First, when you feel tired, I miss you
The third in the TV series "My My Children" stayed in prison for eight years because he replaced the eldest brother, and the prison is mostly a fierce and vicious person, and the old third has a pure personality, so when he first went in, he was bullied, ate badly, and did not sleep well.
No one can imagine how difficult the days of the third elder are, and in that difficult time, it is his beloved girl who has always supported him, making him firm in his faith and bravely holding on.
Many times, the collapse of adults is silent, and they don't even know how to say it, so they can only be cautious.
However, when they meet someone they care about, they will regard the other party as their spiritual pillar, as long as they think of the same sky, there is always a person who breathes with themselves and shares a common destiny, then the inner torment will be reduced a lot.
In the book "Intimate Relationships", the author said: "Your intimate partner is used to help you know yourself better, heal your wounds, and finally find your true self, so it is a bridge to our souls." ”
Men are all macho, in front of others are an indestructible, invincible image, only in front of the closest people, they will show their truest side.
Second, when you encounter good things, think of you
01) When a friend married a poor boy, his parents were very opposed, because they did not want their daughter to suffer with such a person.
However, the friend knew in her heart how good the man she chose was to her, so she persuaded her parents to agree to marry him.
Life after marriage is naturally not rich and expensive, but it is good that men are self-motivated, so the life is also stable.
I remember once the reader was resting at home, only to see her husband come back, panting and sweating, and his friend asked him what was wrong and why he was so anxious and flustered.
I saw my husband holding two ice creams in his hands, and he said breathlessly: "I heard my colleagues say that this kind of ice cream is very expensive, dozens of dollars a piece, I tasted it, it was very delicious, I quickly brought it back for you to taste."
02) That day, it was the first time a friend ate Haagen-Dazs, or rather, a Haagen-Dazs drink, because it had melted.
For women, all the cold eyes in this world are better than the indifferent attitude of men, and for women, all the beauty in this world is better than men's care.
In fact, what women want is very simple, nothing more than love, care and security.
I like a sentence that Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Every woman will fall into the bowl of hot soup that a man brings home from work." ”
What women care about is the man's heart and attitude, even if it is just a box of Haagen-Dazs, it is full of men's care for women and their deep love.
Third, when you feel the warmth of home, I miss you
01), many times, when we come home from work and look at other people's homes full of fireworks, we can't help but think that if it is the person we love who is by our side, will it be so beautiful;
Many times, when we see other couples showing affection, we can't help but think that if the person we love is by our side, will it be so sweet;
Many times, when we see other couples with Qinser and Ming, raising eyebrows, we can't help but think that if we and the person we love enter the marriage hall, then will the married life be so warm.
02) In fact, when we have such an idea, it means that we want to have a home, and the ideal object for starting a family is the person who lives in the depths of our hearts.
For men, the best commitment to a woman is to get married, to give her a future, to tie two people firmly together through a piece of paper, and to spend a lifetime fulfilling this promise.
Zhu Yaoxie once said: "The true love between men and women cannot be achieved by body or spirit, but can only be achieved in the state of mutual physical and spiritual integration." ”
Marriage is a high degree of physical and mental integration, so giving the future is the deepest embodiment of a man's love for a woman.