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Saw a question in the headlines this morning:
"What does it mean that he pays every time he eats with his boyfriend and doesn't pay when he goes shopping?"
Someone answers below "He doesn't love you"
But another friend asked the respondent: "Every time he eats and goes shopping, he pays, so he must love you?"
Attending a schoolgirl's wedding last year, we were left with only one of our closest friends after the guests dispersed.
A friend asked my sister at this time, what did he send you when he was with him?
The student sister said, "Don't mention it, after two years of love, I was given a decent bag", and after saying it, I didn't forget to give the groom a blank stare.
The friends began to laugh and let the groom drink, but then the student sister stood up again and grabbed the groom's glass and said, "I will drink this wine for him."
In fact, the boy's home conditions are not bad, when the boy in Australia to study master's degree results are also very good, so for the student sister, may not be the most needed is not a few clothes a few bags, more need is more attention and more than a few times to meet, in the past few years the boy does not forget to video with the student sister every day, every morning will be the boy's good morning, as long as the holiday will certainly be the first to fly to the student's side.
Xuemei said: "Although she has not given me many decent gifts, he has left me his most precious time, and I think time is more important to him than money." ”
I don't know when it started, it seems that how much that person spends for you is equivalent to the degree of love for you.
Like the famous ad: "If you love her, invite her to eat Häagen-Dazs"
But if I give you a McDonald's cone with all my wealth, which one do you think is more representative of how much I love you than the Haagen-Dazs that you can afford casually?
Seriously, to judge whether a person loves you or not is to see if the person is willing to give you the most valuable things in him.
If the man is rich, then the money may not really matter to him, he is willing to spend a lot of money for you, but not necessarily for time and energy, if he only gives you money and does not give you time and energy, I think he is just spending money to buy you to accompany him.
If there is a person who has time and he has companionship, but he is relatively poor now, but in his poor situation he is willing to spend money for you and give you the most valuable things in his body, I think this is the embodiment of whether he loves you to the maximum.
In love, do not materialize the relationship between each other, occasionally the gift sent by the holiday is called romance, but every time you go shopping to pay, it will definitely make his love for you slowly become cheap.
Everyone likes a better material life, and that's okay.
But the key is whether you have the courage to pursue a more superior substance.
Although love should be implemented in the real life of eating, dressing, sleeping, and counting money, you must also know whether to make yourself rich and stable by your own ability, or to build your sense of security on others.
I think that for the former, you at least have the confidence not to be wronged in the quarrel, while the latter only has the tolerance and compromise of seeking perfection.
Therefore, whether a girl should be "material" or not.
I think so.
It's just that these substances are someone else's or their own.
Don't forget to eat people's mouths soft, take people's hands short, and only your own can make yourself straighten your waist.
I hope that all girls can afford to live in a five-star hotel, can also put down their bodies to eat roadside restaurants, I hope you can afford to carry Hermès, you can also afford to take the canvas bag, you have to be beautiful, you can also make money to support your family, and only if you can, can you make your life full of more choices.
You have to make others look up to you, not listen to others casually say that they don't love you.
Use a small amount of aspirin as an analgesic for your mind.
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