When love is a thing of the past, how do you treat your former lover?
For most people, even if love is no longer there, but there is still love, can not be friends, but at least will not become an enemy, however, the forest is big, there are birds.
There are always some people who can't be lovers, and even being a good person is too difficult and too difficult.
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Some time ago, I watched such a news:
In 2017, a woman and a boy in Hangzhou fell in love and spent a very sweet little life, and then the boy opened an intimate payment for his girlfriend, and the girl also gave her credit card to her boyfriend.
At the beginning of this year, the two people broke up because of emotional discord, and the boyfriend said that he wanted to settle the account, and the girl ignored it.
Not long after, she was sued by her ex-boyfriend, asking her to return the joint expenses of the two people in love and private loans totaling 290,000 yuan.
Boys said that when they first fell in love, they were very sweet, and they also held the idea of marrying girls.
However, since last year, the attitude of the girl and child has changed, in addition to asking him for money, there is not much communication, he is rushing to get married, but he did not expect that the other party treated him as a long-term meal ticket.
Therefore, he asked the girl to return a large amount of money he had spent for her, including large private loans.
02
Many people may see here and think that the girl is a "sea king" who plays with the boy's feelings and money, but this is not the case.
The girl said that the bill listed by the boy was the common cost of their 4 years of dating, not her own consumption alone, several large transfers, or the boy consumed her credit card in advance before transferring it back to repay the credit card;
Others are used for housing rentals, as well as the common living expenses of the two, not the so-called private loans of boys;
And after 4 years of dating, the girl miscarried 2 times, and some of them were used to spend on her surgery and postoperative body maintenance, which I never expected was also included in this part of the money.
As for the marriage problems mentioned by the ex-boyfriend, the girls also explained that they were just in love and living together, and the boys never expressed this meaning.
In the end, because the boy could not provide further sufficient evidence, the West Lake Court ruled in the first instance to reject the boy's litigation claim.
Looking at 290,000 alone, it is indeed quite intimidating, but this bill can not be looked at carefully, not to mention that there is also cash out in the girl's credit card, just let people tire twice the operation fee must be included, it is infuriating.
True TM is when you take off your pants, you are faster than anyone, and as a result, when you mention your pants, you don't recognize them.
To be a man to do this, it is really not enough.
(Weibo hot review)
Together for 4 years you let the family beat 2 children did not say a word of marriage, this to the time after the breakup to liquidate the bill only to remember that you treated her as a wife, it is a joke, really think that a woman to beat a child and you hit an FJ as simple as?
Do you think that the other party treats you as a long-term meal ticket, plays with your money, and quickly lights a lantern to find it, which game café looking for a meal ticket will be stupid enough to play with his body?
She also falsely questioned the girl in court whether there was someone outside, but she did not think that with a man like you who does not care for her body, the only thing that can persist for 4 years is true love.
03
Women, whether in love or married, please don't look for men in the garbage heap.
There are many people on Weibo who think that this man is dead, not to mention that the girl did not spend his 290,000, even if it was really spent, it can not make up for the harm of 2 miscarriages.
Indeed, whether the pregnancy is accidental or not, the responsibility is certainly both.
If the first pregnancy is an accident, after one experience, it is said that the importance of contraception should be understood.
But there will be a second miscarriage, and I am very surprised, showing that the man feels that the girl's health is not as important as his "feelings".
This kind of man who can make women beat up again and again, to put it bluntly, actually doesn't love you at all.
Often see a girl on the Internet for help, citing a few things to ask netizens whether their boyfriends love themselves, in fact, love is not so difficult to distinguish.
There are many forms of love, some people like to express, some people are born introverted, but no matter what kind of love, the essence is the same, that is, loving you is like loving yourself.
If he really loves you, he won't bear to hurt you, if he really loves you, he won't be stingy with you, if he really loves you, it won't make you always jealous.
So if in a relationship, you don't feel enough security, that is, you don't love or don't love enough, because no matter how introverted you are, you can't hide your love.
Loved ones do not shed tears, happy people do not sleep late, may all girls meet men who truly love and protect themselves.