I don't know when it started, in many people's minds, thirty years old is regarded as a watershed.
Instinctively, it is felt that for young people, before the age of thirty, they should hurry to complete the marriage.
It is as if, only before that marriage, is considered normal, otherwise once you pass that age, you will become a different kind in the eyes of others, and it will become more and more difficult to get married.
Out of such a concept, many men and women will really rush to enter marriage before the age of thirty.
Many people even happen to be stuck at the age of twenty-nine, stuck in their thirty, and let themselves complete the marriage thing.
When a person can complete marriage before the age of thirty, in any case, this is indeed gratifying, but not all people can be so lucky that if they want to get married before the age of thirty, they can definitely do it.
There are always many people, even if they are thirty years old, they are still alone, and there is not even a target object around them.
If you happen to be like this, even if you are thirty years old and not married, you don't have to be too anxious, but you shouldn't be in a hurry.
Thirty years old, you can still be single.
There is a rule that a man can get married when he is twenty-two years old and a woman can get married when he is twenty years old, but no one says that at this age, you must get married quickly, otherwise what will happen.
Moreover, even if you should get married before the age of thirty, this is just an idea of many people, and this is not absolute.
In life, many things have never been only one way to say, and a person's life is not a way of life.
Just like in life, a person can choose to go to a big city, he can also like the comfort of a small city, a person can choose to become a teacher, or he can just dream of becoming a worker.
What everyone asks for is different, and everyone's encounter is also different.
Therefore, we really don't have to, we have to unify everyone, we have to be thirty years old, everyone must achieve something, what a great person, we must also get married and have children, and start a family.
Of course, it is not that you have to reject such a way of life, but that if you have tried your best to find it, but you still have not found such a person, then you do not have to force yourself, and you can also be just yourself.
Even if you are still single at the age of thirty, it doesn't really matter, life is still as usual, and life is still going on as usual.
Being too anxious is easy to fall into misfortune.
It is true that there are some people who see that they are thirty years old, and after thirty years old, and then they ignore it, arrest a person at random, and are willing to marry each other, all just to make a difference to their parents and let themselves hurry into marriage.
It is never difficult to find someone to marry, but if you marry just to get married, you don't care at all whether the other party is suitable or what kind of person the other party is, even if you can get married smoothly, it doesn't mean anything.
Such a marriage can indeed make our identity married, but when each other is not suitable, there is no way to communicate, the other party is not a good person, after really getting married, living together with each other, problems will come and go.
It's easy for us to get married, and the rest of our lives, just become doomed.
Not only is it not as happy as before, but it will also be delayed and dragged down by the other party, and life has become very unbearable.
Marriage, never married things are over, it is just the beginning, and a hurried marriage, when we bet everything on luck, bet on each other's worth, even if we want to win, but will only lose very thoroughly.
In the end, just because I want to complete the marriage at the age of thirty, but completely rewrite my life, it is not worth it after all.
The other half, always choose well.
Life, it looks long, but it is more critical, but it is only a few steps.
It can be said that just a few choices in life completely determine our life and determine the direction of our lives.
Among them, choosing what kind of platform to go to and who to work with is very critical, and at what time, choosing what kind of person to marry is also extremely important.
There is no doubt that in a short lifetime, married to different people, we will live, it will really be a completely different life, our years, will be a completely different version.
When the other half of the candidate is related to the second half of our lives, no matter how old we are, we can't be too casual. Ning Que is not indiscriminate, always have to make a good judgment, and always choose to be with the right person.
Obviously not right, there is no us in the eyes, do not take us seriously at all, will only make our lives bleak people, would rather not choose, we had better not take it lightly.
Obviously, living with such a person, the future is not going to be good, and we are not going to be happy.
What we lack is never a married person, but a person who can illuminate each other with ourselves, create the future together, make each other's lives more valuable, and feel worthwhile to each other.
A person who can be single to thirty years old will, by and large, be a person who treats feelings casually.
Since thirty years have been waiting, we don't have to be too anxious.
Originally, we had been single for so long, not to make it up casually, but to hope to meet a good partner.
In fact, before the age of thirty, close to the age of thirty, we will be very anxious, and once we are thirty, we will only calm down, because we will find that even if we are thirty, it does not seem to be a big deal.
When we care about age, age becomes a hindrance, and when we don't care, age is just a number.
At the age of thirty, we are still ourselves, and we have become a better version of ourselves.
At this age, we just have to grasp it, but we don't always have to be attrition and hunger.
Text/Tan Meng
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