Teacher Tu Lei said that what kind of woman a man marries determines his future quality of life. What kind of man a woman marries determines her hopes for a future life.
Many women regard marriage as their second reincarnation, believing that as long as they marry well, they can have a lifetime of happiness. Although the words are a bit exaggerated, marrying the wrong person can indeed drag down your own life.
Most women want to marry a self-motivated, responsible, and caring man, but who can guarantee that at a glance, the other party is the right person.
If you are unfortunate enough to meet the wrong person, women will have to endure a lot more hardships than ordinary people.
So, keep your eyes open before marriage, don't be carried away by love, if you meet these two kinds of men, don't say anything about being with him no matter how much you like.
First, the man who betrayed the marriage.
When a relationship happens, it's hard for you to be exact at the time. Maybe you meet a person you like very much, but he is no longer free, he has his own family and lover.
Zhang Ailing said that meeting the right person at the right time is fate; encountering the wrong person at the right time is unfortunate; meeting the right person at the wrong time is helpless; and meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is cruel.
Such feelings cannot happen at the beginning, but you cannot control your love, and the other party must be you, preferring to betray your marriage and be with you.
Because he liked you, he broke his promise to marriage, abandoned his wife and children, and pursued so-called love.
Such a man is actually very scary.
It may be true that he loves you, but if you do marry him, one day he may not abandon you and fall in love with someone else.
Men who betray their marriages, once there will be a second, a third... Because he is always seeking freshness and excitement, it is difficult to truly fulfill the promise of the wedding to which woman from the beginning.
Because of his restlessness, he was destined to chase his feelings on the spot, and it was always difficult to have someone who allowed him to really settle down.
So, never think of yourself as an angel to save him, you may not be his end. If you must take happiness as a bet, it will largely end in tragedy.
Don't joke about your youth, leave the wrong person, you may meet the one that is really suitable for you.
Second, men without a sense of responsibility.
Women's feelings are delicate and compassionate, and they can grow up quickly after encountering love, and take the initiative to assume responsibility in feelings.
But men are different, they will grow more slowly than women, and taking responsibility requires a process to adapt. However, whether men have a sense of responsibility can still be seen from their daily behavior.
A responsible man will plan his life well and achieve different goals at each age. When he falls in love with someone, he will also plan the other person into his own life.
He will face reality bravely, not evade responsibility, and just want to indulge in the illusory world.
It is common in life that some men are addicted to games and treat women very perfunctorily in love. Work is not motivated, life has no goals, and games are his favorite.
If it is a man before falling in love, there is nothing wrong with it. Two people talk about marriage and get married, and men will only push things to women when they encounter things, or let their parents solve them, so that he cannot marry.
He is not yet able to take on the responsibilities of marriage, let alone carry a home, and henceforth shelter you from the wind and rain.
You know, marriage is not a family, chai rice oil and salt, a place is trivial, a man who cannot bear responsibility, it is difficult to advance and retreat with women, and face the responsibilities and obligations of the family together.
In the divorce variety show "Goodbye Lover", Tong Chenjie and Wei Wei have differences on the issue of having children, and feel that the marriage cannot continue.
Wei Wei wants children, but Tong Chenjie feels that many problems in his own life cannot be solved, if she wants a child in this situation, she is equivalent to shouldering the responsibility of two children, and if she thinks about it, she feels that the problem is serious.
In marriage, a man's loyalty and sense of responsibility are indispensable.
Otherwise, the marriage can only be a one-person marriage, the woman bears everything, gives all, and eventually exhausts, and the last bit of affection is also consumed.
Such a marriage, I am afraid, is not something that anyone can face.
Marriage is not a child's play, not as simple as when talking about love, you can only seek happiness, do not look at the results.
Marriage is marriage, and a marriage supported by love alone will soon fall apart. Two people live together, eating and drinking Lasa, food, clothing, housing, chai rice oil salt sauce tea vinegar, one is indispensable.
There is no mutual loyalty, no women feel strong and reliable backing, no men's dedication to marriage and family, and ultimately can only live a chicken feather.
Although divorce is not a new topic for modern people, it does not happen to anyone, and no one can appreciate the unspeakable pain and the shadow that brings to life.
If you learn the ability to recognize people, even if you remarry after divorce, you can only say that you are lucky, and you know that you will meet the right person? However, how can you live by luck and grasp happiness?
Women should know more about men before marriage, don't rely only on the impulse of love, they are blinded, they will moth fire, and they will ignore everything.
After all, a long life, as little as possible in the emotional detours, there may be the courage and confidence to pursue happiness.
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