Although the "Goodbye Lover" column of Mango Station has come to a gorgeous end, the extra-dramatic lives of the three pairs of guests are still hot.
It is said that life is like a drama, all relying on acting skills.
However, the performance of these six in 18 days cannot be said to be without the component of performance, but I believe that more often than not, the performance is still derived from their true colors.
Guo Keyu once said: We have no script at all. Most of the time during the 18-day journey, even the phone was turned in.
Whether they acted according to the script or not, in short, the show was on fire, and the three pairs of guests were also on fire.
The three male guests, according to the preferences of netizens, were sorted by KK, Wang Qiuyu, and Zhang He;
The three female guests, the ranking of netizens are Tong Chenjie, Guo Keyu, zhu Yaqiong.
Of course, this is just a ranking of their performance in the show, not enough to be the real way they are in life, let alone about character.
As the saying goes: the male should be married, and the female should be married.
But what kind of person to marry? What kind of wife to marry? It's really a science.
It turned out to be "the fate of parents, the words of the matchmaker,"
Now pay attention to the eye edge and the heart, as long as the eye edge is right, everything follows their own heart, at the right time, find a "right person" to live a lifetime is not to wronged themselves.
After chasing 13 issues of "Goodbye Lover", the feeling is extremely profound, and the story in the marriage is really strange.
When looking at the issue of "marrying" and "marrying" again,
I still think: marry someone not to marry Wang Qiuyu, and marry a wife to marry Tong Chenjie.
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Marry someone not marry Wang Qiuyu
Wang Qiuyu's personality has always been unpleasant.
In the 19 years of acquaintance and love with Zhu Yaqiong, he has always been in a high position in the family with a "paternalistic" style, and he has a strong subjective consciousness, and he does not realize his own shortcomings, let alone grow and change in marriage.
Although he came to the show and tried to save their marriage, in the end, because Zhu Yaqiong did not get off, he also chose to give up.
Tong Chenjie gave him the title of "Nono King," which is truly worthy of its name.
No matter who you talk to, there is no negativity, it seems that there is no way to open your mouth, this is a habit, but also a self-righteous pathological psychology.
Sometimes, I was very sad about how Zhu Yaqiong had spent 19 years with such an "old comrade".
Wang Qiuyu is very responsible, but the old-school thinking is suffocating
It must be admitted that Wang Qiuyu is a very responsible man.
Breaking up with his ex-girlfriend and giving someone a house not only proves that Lao Wang has money, but also shows that he has strength, speaks of conscience, and even if he can't be a husband and wife, he must protect you thoroughly.
For Zhu Yaqiong, it is even higher, after all, it is the child's mother, in the program, Wang Qiuyu awe-inspiring promise: "As long as you need, I will appear." ”
A man can do this, it is really impeccable.
Unfortunately, his old-school thinking is too serious, so serious that people want to escape.
In the marriage with Zhu Yaqiong, there was no anniversary in life, no sense of ceremony, and even hugging had to be counted by the minute.
It is true that Wang Qiuyu ignored Zhu Yaqiong's needs for livelihood and work, but he ignored them for more than ten years, which can only show that Wang Qiuyu's subjective consciousness is particularly strong, and he does not want to make any changes.
Is there still love between them? I think, there should be none.
Wang Qiuyu is talented, but his didactic style hurts
Wang Qiuyu is a relatively well-known screenwriter, and his writing skills are quite powerful.
As he wrote on Weibo: Mountains carry snow, but snow does not belong to mountains. Snow will eventually turn into water and return to the sea. Every drop of water is tears, poetry, and far away.
Love is the white snow of yangchun, but marriage can never be separated from the fireworks of the world.
The beauty in the script does not represent the elegance in life.
The chicken feathers in his marriage with Zhu Yaqiong made his focus only on what Zhu Yaqiong did, not on her person.
"You are ugly", "I don't like your songs", "You are not right to do this", Wang Qiuyu's negative replies, let Zhu Yaqiong collapse to the point of even going out to chat with friends, not knowing how to open her mouth, serious loss of self-confidence, so that she finally made up her mind to divorce for the second time.
Wang Qiuyu is very pragmatic, but the dark color of the idea can not adjust the highlight of life
Undoubtedly, Wang Qiuyu is a very pragmatic man.
Accurate control of time, rigorous and delicate work, no care, willing to endure hardships, can make money, such a good man should be one of the best in the hundred, should not be eliminated by Zhu Yaqiong.
However, Wang Qiuyu's dark thoughts could not adjust the highlight colors of life.
Perhaps the erosion brought to him by his native family when he was a child was too strong;
Perhaps when he becomes an adult, he will not be aware of the defects in his thinking at all;
Or perhaps, even if he realizes that he has achieved a little, he will not deliberately change it.
As he said on the show: He knows something is wrong, but he can't change it.
Therefore, until now, the rational Wang Qiuyu has not changed significantly, because it is really difficult to get out of that comfortable circle.
Wang Qiuyu, who has not changed for marriage for nearly 20 years, it is difficult to believe what he will look like in his future marriage.
Marriage is a castle, it needs two people to adhere to and care together, no accusation, no criticism, no complaint, only continuous growth and maturity, only appropriate compromise and humility, will make the marriage tree evergreen.
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Marry Tong Chenjie
Tong Chenjie's character and thoughts, in the eyes of the majority of netizens, can be said to be perfect.
Whether it is getting along with friends or getting along with a "bear child-like" husband, Tong Chenjie can bring people a feeling of "like a spring breeze", even Wang Qiuyu and Zhang He are envious of KK, how lucky and happy to be able to marry Tong Chenjie.
Steady, big pattern
Tong Chenjie's ideological realm is very broad, very ethereal, and the reason why she has the ability to control the direction of their marriage is inseparable from her pattern.
From Weibo, Tong Chenjie usually dabbles in many books, fashionable, psychology, and even criminal law.
A woman, no matter how busy, rich, and socially important she is, books must be the best spiritual nourishment.
What I admire most about Tong Chenjie is that she did not put pressure on herself or others again because of the harm caused to her by her original family when she was a child.
From the bodies of several other guests, we can see the influence of the original family on them more or less, only Tong Chenjie, although there is a disadvantage of the original family, but she jumped well, I have to say that this is her ability.
High value, gold
Tong Chenjie is one of the first supermodels to go abroad, the appearance and figure needless to say, so many years of groping and rolling, has long earned a lot of money, so there is the courage to say to KK in the show, as long as you like what, buy it.
A woman, who has a high degree of thinking, a moral control, a bright personality, capable and intelligent, beautiful and golden, meets Tong Chenjie like this, is not it all a blessing for men?
What are you waiting for? When you meet it, you will chase it, and when you chase it, you will marry it.
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