"Spring Day Late Departure" officially ended on May 25, and Lu Ying and Zhao Yanan, who were originally speculated by Wang Feifei and Wu Xin and others, the most promising of several pairs of guests, became the first pair of regrettable existences.
It can be felt that Zhao Yanan likes Lu Ying very much, and since the first period, he has been silently paying attention to Lu Ying, observing from time to time, always focusing on the woman. And his liking and care has long been captured by the woman.
But unfortunately, heartbeat and emotion are two different things!
For Lu Ying, she felt that she could be so liked and cared for by Zhao Yanan. But she told herself very clearly in her heart that it was not love, and she did not have a heart, so she clearly rejected the other party.
Seeing this, observers, including Wu Xin, praised Lu Ying for being very sober and seeing her feelings very thoroughly. Indeed, as Da Zhang Wei said, Lu Ying represents a part of the new era women!
Know how to be grateful, but know how to be loyal to your heart, this is a full understanding of feelings!
Like Lu Ying, Wu Yating, who was also touched by the man's delicacy and gentleness, also rejected Lin Chengwei.
But the reason for her refusal was completely different from Lu Ying, Wu Yating was moved by Lin Chengwei, and she herself admitted that when she received the portrait of the other party to herself, she was really moved at that moment!
But even if she is moved, Wu Yating also refuses the man's pursuit of overtures for practical reasons. And her biggest reason is for her two children!
Wu Yating admits that she has a strong personality, and she is even more reluctant to create trouble in her feelings, especially to create too much trouble for Lin Chengwei.
Wu Yating lives with a pair of children born to her ex-husband Wang Quexin, the child is not the burden of her going through the difficult years, but her "fixed sea god needle" to resist all the wind and waves and changes, the child is her greatest comfort, giving her more courage and responsibility to face the future.
But for Wu Yating, all this should not have been shared by Lin Chengwei, and the man had no obligation to take care of his two children, which was her original intention of not wanting to bring trouble to the other party.
From the perspective of the child's reality, even if Wu Yating is really moved, she will rationally tell herself and calmly face the long-term road in the future.
Because once you accept each other in the show, the next step is to walk from the romantic scene created by the program team into the real life of chai rice oil and salt.
For this, Wu Yating is also very clear, so she asked Lin Chengwei whether she liked herself because of such a dream version of the scene created by the program team, in such a beautiful atmosphere and feeling, she would be moved!
Indeed, the recording environment given by the program team is particularly simple and beautiful, and wu Yating's two children do not appear, making the two like a simple and romantic play trip.
But once you leave the camera and face the trivialities of life, will this simple beauty continue to burn? Won't it become a bubble of disillusionment?
Wu Yating wasn't sure, she couldn't give any answer so far, the only thing she could do was to refuse for the time being, stop and watch.
After rejecting Lin Chengwei, Wu Yating lay on the other side and cried bitterly.
She really cried very, very sadly, and after saying goodbye to Lin Chengwei, Wu Yating shed tears while riding, and the tears kept flowing with the wind!
Wu Yating is so sad, not only to face reality, nor is it just a deep apology for Lin Chengwei, but also a pity and sorrow for herself.
She had said before that if she were a girl in her 20s, at an age when she had enough to drink, she would run to Lin Chengwei in spite of herself, because the other party was the most gentle and considerate person she had ever met.
But reality told her that she was a 33-year-old single mother with two children. Feelings have become a luxury, not a necessity of life!
The reason why Wu Yating is really sad is not because of love, but because of love to refuse!
Wu Yating repeatedly said that because of the past of failure with Wang Quexin, she did not have any confidence in her feelings, and because of her two children, she stopped at the fork of a certain relationship.
We as the audience will feel that the two are very sorry, Wang Feifei and Wu Kequn also sighed, why can't Wu Yating let go of all the shackles and accept Lin Chengwei?
Including Tong Chenjie, as a person who came over, confessed that she had also experienced a situation similar to Wu Yating. But one day she finally understood a truth: you didn't come to comfort when you were injured, so why did you come to point fingers when I wanted to pursue happiness?
Whether it is an observer who does not have the same experience, or Tong Chenjie, who can understand what Wu Yating encountered, they all look at Wu Yating's choice from an objective point of view.
But we overlooked the point that what Wu Yating really cared about was not the fingering and pointing of the outside world, but her own inner obstacles.
As mentioned earlier, the distrust of feelings and the problem of two children are the top priorities for Wu Yating to consider.
So, how can she be brave enough to let go of herself? Even though she clearly knew Lin Chengwei's feelings, she was still not prepared enough to accept the beauty and change.
In many things, only "physical experience" will have "empathy".
Therefore, the regret of Wu Xin and others is out of the heartache for Wu Yating, feeling that she deserves a better next love, she deserves to be well loved by Lin Chengwei, and walk out of the sad past of divorce.
However, although the relationship is simple at the beginning, it is difficult to really go on. We only hope to smile and bless the two, but it is not us who will face them later.
I understand Wu Yating's decision, and I can also understand why she cried on Lin Chengwei for a long time, and the final ending of the "Mengtingwei" CP is the biggest regret of the netizens and viewers who have watched the show.
Wu Yating has passed the age of doing multiple choice questions, and Tong Chenjie's comment on Wu Yating's sentence is very critical: she is a mature mother!
The unfortunate marriage makes Wu Yating mature emotionally, and the life of a single mother makes Wu Yating mature in terms of identity and responsibility. Between selfishness and maternal love, she chose the latter!
In fact, we should see another reason why Wu Yating rejected Lin Chengwei's deepest level, she always owes money to her two children!
This sense of indebtedness from a single-parent family makes it difficult for Wu Yating to easily make any new emotional choices, and the first thing she thinks about whenever she does anything is always two children who lack father's love.
We all hope that Wu Yating is selfish, but she is not Wang Quexin, and she cannot be so self-ego and dashing. She is not only a mother, but also a mature mother's love, a mother's love that wants to make up for it continuously.
Of course, Wu Yating did not completely reject the future with Lin Chengwei in the end, but simply said: We started with friends, which indicates that there may be hope for the future.
In addition, the latest trailer was exposed, and in the next issue of the plus version, the continuation after the finale was played.
Lin Chengwei personally admitted that after the program was broadcast with Wu Yating, some changes had occurred.
And Wang Feifei directly asked Wu Yating and Lin Chengwei: Are you discussing well and secretly falling in love?
Therefore, perhaps after the program is broadcast, Lin Chengwei and Wu Yating start from friends, try to understand each other at the rhythm of life, deepen cognition, and there will be some changes in feelings.