The writer Leo Tolstoy once said:
"The kind of happiness that married people get from each other is only the beginning of marriage, not the whole meaning, the whole meaning of marriage is contained in family life." 」
Therefore, love is the romance of the wind and snow, and marriage is the life of chai rice oil and salt.
Falling in love can be a sentence to break up and settle down; when you get married, you must put an end to hasty responsibility and bear the weight of the family.
The template of happy days is reflected in the details of family togetherness.
Therefore, marry the right person and be happy for a lifetime;
Marry the wrong person, repent of the beginning.
Recently, Tong Chenjie attended the ELLE fashion ceremony and attracted the attention of all the staff as soon as she appeared.
Only to see Tong Chenjie in a black suit, quite capable, eyes full of confidence and disdain, a pair of large long legs to outline her tall figure perfectly.
At the age of 40, she grasped the aura and typhoon just right;
What is shown is the mature charm after years of precipitation, which fully reflects the temperament of a supermodel.
Watching more of Tong Chenjie's casual casual dress in the reality show "Goodbye Lover", the painting style suddenly changed, and he suddenly felt beautiful and handsome.
This state is what Tong Chenjie should present.
Because in the early days, she had a proud supermodel identity and was a woman who walked at the forefront of fashion.
Debuting at the age of 19, she spent only 6 years in the field of modeling, won various professional awards, and directly served as a judge of the Shanghai International Fashion Model Competition in the 7th year.
After the age of 26, Tong Chenjie developed into the entertainment industry, challenged the host, and plunged into the film and television circle again, adding an actor's identity.
Over the years, she has also appeared frequently in various TV series, although she has not been able to single out the heroine, but the female role she has portrayed has left a deep impression on the audience.
In the TV series "Splendid Adventure" starring Huang Xiaoming and Chen Qiaoen, he played Ling Meihua, the first female boss of Shanghai Beach;
Her domineering and warm coexistence, bold and benevolent image, let the audience relish;
In the TV series "When the Wind Rises Again", Tong Chenjie changed his previous screen image and became an international lawyer;
Her cold face, deep line skills, and confident eyes made her win the title of "Goddess of Justice" in the play.
Julie in "Shenzhen Shared House", Tian Meimeihui in "Before the Decisive Battle", Zhu Nan in the movie "New Police Story"...
In each play, Tong Chenjie may not show her face many times, but the response is very good.
From the age of 19 to 40 years old, Tong Chenjie has never been popular, nor has she been forgotten, she has maintained that dull and clear joy in her own way in the ever-changing entertainment circle.
Although Tong Chenjie's career is not tepid, it has always been in a state of quiet and good;
But feelings don't have to be.
Tong Chenjie's first public relationship was with actor Feng Mingchao.
Feng Mingchao is not very famous, and starred in dramas such as "Naked Running Era" in the early days, and later faded out of the entertainment circle;
The two loved each other for a while when they were young, but their emotional experience was not very mature, resulting in a disagreement between the three views, and it did not take long to break up.
Later, at a party, Tong Chenjie met football player Xie Hui.
At that time, the two were athletes and supermodels, and they met frequently on various occasions, so they looked at each other in the crowd.
This look, chatted, fell in love, married.
The two took only two years from acquaintance to marriage, the wedding was high-profile and romantic, and Tong Chenjie looked happy.
After marriage, Tong Chenjie also bluntly told the media that if the two had a conflict in their careers, she could give up her career.
In other words, she can be the woman behind Xie Hui and give up the dream journey for him.
If it weren't for the marriage of love, who would have such a big determination?
It's just that falling in love is easier said than done.
Even the strongest love cannot withstand meaningless consumption.
In the 7th year after marriage, the two officially announced the divorce, and the former talented and beautiful people, things are not people, and each is at peace.
Three years after the divorce, 33-year-old Tong Chenjie opened her second marriage with Wei Wei.
Wei Wei is an actor who has acted in many dramas, and he takes neither the idol route nor the traffic route, but the acting school route.
Although it has not yet been possible to prove its strength in a strong work, the resources have always been very good.
When the two people got married, they received blessings from the majority of netizens, and the smiles on their faces were enough to prove that love existed in the marriage.
Today, the two have gone through the 7th year of marriage, and the relationship has not faded with the passage of time, and they are as happy as ever.
The only regret is that Tong Chenjie, who has been married for 7 years, has been reluctant to have children.
The reason for this is that Wei Wei is an alcoholic, loses consciousness after getting drunk, and often acts excessively.
In this regard, Tong Chenjie believes that Wei Wei is not capable of being a good father, so he has been reluctant to have children.
Wei Wei knew that his wife did not like him to drink, but he did not quit; he repeatedly stressed that he wanted a child, but he refused to quit drinking to prepare for pregnancy;
One does not want to have children, one wants children, no one can convince anyone, and finally to the point of divorce.
When they amplified these contradictions to the audience through the reality show "Goodbye Lover", the crowd generally thought that Wei Wei's problems were a little more.
In addition, the marriage model of the two is also quite puzzling, Tong Chenjie is like a big sister taking care of Wei Wei's daily life.
Wei Wei, on the other hand, deservedly enjoyed all this.
This can't help but make people wonder, has Tong Chenjie, who had a failed marriage, really married the right one this time?
Perhaps, marriage has never been right or wrong.
Happy couples are just changing in the name of love;
Obviously, the early Wei Wei was the type that was reluctant to change.
But after mediation and reflection on the show, the two eventually continued the marriage.
Love too deeply, no one wants to miss each other.
Perhaps, the audience feels unworthy for Tong Chenjie, and feels that there is no need to take care of a big child to increase the trouble, but marriage is like a person drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
Happiness has never had a standard answer, Wei Wei must have some kind of charm, worth Tong Chenjie's stop and wait.
There is a line in the movie "No Questions Asked":
"What is missing in this era is not perfect people, but the sincerity, justice, fearlessness and compassion that are given from the heart."
It's not easy to meet someone who is in love because an idea breakup is too unworthy.
This is also the reason why Tong Chenjie silently expects Wei Wei to change.
Regardless of whether she had children or not, Wei Wei had truly made her happy, and every day she would be with him in the future would continue to be happy.
Looking forward to their children soon!
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