Marriage is different from love, love only requires couples to like each other, both sides can feel happy; but marriage requires couples to join hands and face the real problems in life together.
Regarding marriage, the French writer Balzac once said in the book "Marriage Physiology":
To get married, you must fight against the demons that swallow everything and fight for a long time. That demon is —habit.
The enlightenment brought to us by this passage is: if you want to manage the marriage relationship happily and for a long time, the husband and wife can not only love, they need to have tolerance and help each other's sense of responsibility, only in this way, when the married life encounters storms, they can achieve hardships and hardships, do not give up, and jointly manage the married life happily and beautifully.
Responsible people will take into account the feelings of their families and will not do things that hurt their families; responsible people will work hard to create a good living environment for their families; responsible people, who know how to help and tolerate their families, will not choose to escape when they encounter difficulties in married life.
In a marital relationship, choosing a responsible partner makes it easier to achieve long-term and stable happiness.
First, people with a sense of responsibility know how to take into account the feelings of their families.
Most people with a sense of responsibility are people with a heavy family concept, and when they do things outside, they will not only care about their own pleasures, but also take care of the feelings of their families.
When they go out to socialize, or need to work overtime, they will call their families in advance to tell their families about their itinerary because they are afraid of their families' worries, so as to reassure their families; when they face the temptations of the outside world, they will know how to refuse because they take into account their family's feelings, and they will not only covet temporary pleasure; when they have conflicts with their families, they will first reflect on what they have done wrong, and then think about what to do in another position, in order to deal with the relationship with their families.
When there are contradictions in married life, responsible people will take the lead in apologizing to their families, which is not a manifestation of cowardice and humility, but a manifestation of loving and cherishing the family.
Choosing to enter into a marriage relationship with a responsible person makes it easier to harvest stable happiness.
Second, people with a sense of responsibility will be positive at work in order to create a good living environment for their families.
When a responsible person enters the palace of marriage, he will make the living conditions of his family better as the first responsibility in his life.
Because of this, they will work harder at work, and they will become more positive in the face of life.
A responsible person, even if his life is not rich, he can still make his marriage partner full of hope for life through his optimism and self-motivated attitude to life.
Responsible people will plan their future life together with their marriage partners, they can make the marriage partner feel the stability of the current world, but also let the partner see the future years quiet, they will make the quality of life of the marriage partner improve day by bit through their own efforts.
Only by choosing a responsible marriage partner can you get a stable and hopeful marriage.
Third, people with a sense of responsibility know better how to help and tolerate their partners in married life.
A responsible person, when the marital relationship has a contradiction, he will not choose to escape, but will find a way to solve the marital contradiction through self-reflection.
If the partner makes a mistake in the married life, as long as it is not a matter of principle, they will help them analyze the reasons for the mistake from the perspective of the other party and help them change the mistake.
It is precisely because of their sense of responsibility that they know how to cherish marriage and family, and will tolerate their marriage partners to the greatest extent, so as to make married life more warm and stable.
Choosing a responsible partner allows the marriage relationship to achieve long-term happiness.
Responsible people, do not only consider their own ideas, but will care about the feelings of their families; responsible people, with a positive and enterprising work attitude, they will make their partners feel a sense of security and hope in life; responsible people, more know how to cherish the family, when there is a conflict with the marriage partner, they will not choose to escape.
Only by entering into a marriage relationship with a responsible person can the married life be more stable and happy.
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