Women can't do without men, and men can't do without women. Interacting with each other between men and women is both interesting and mysterious.
A woman's tenderness and sweetness will only be left to men who understand her; a man's gentleness and meticulousness will only be used on women who really like her.
Women do not have men for a long time, and both body and mind will change. Men have not had women for a long time, and their bodies and minds will be depressed. The interaction between men and women is the most moving thing between heaven and earth.
So, what will happen to women who don't stay with men for a long time?
First: strong on the outside, fragile on the inside
Most of the modern women look very strong, but no matter how strong women are, they are actually very fragile inside. When there is no one around her to talk to, no one to rely on, then she can only become strong.
But if there is someone around who can make her let go of her tiredness, then she will also remove all disguises. Women who have not had men for a long time often have no femininity, and the tone of their speech is cold and passionate; the style of dressing is monotonous and colorless; the way they walk is lonely and without spirit.
Once saw a message from a 53-year-old long-term single woman on the Internet, and after reading it, I was very sad:
When I was young, I always felt that I had no children and that I was very free without a husband, and at this age, I understood that I was anxious and uneasy in my heart. Watching classmates and friends with children busy all day, but they are alone, the feeling of loneliness in their hearts makes them collapse.
In fact, in this life, people choose what they want, they bear. Choose to be single for a long time, then you must think about reconciling with your loneliness. If you choose to get married, you will have to spend a lot of time on your family and children. There is no truly perfect lifestyle, and everyone is spinning around in their own lives.
Most people aspire to live in groups, and a very small number of men and women can truly get used to living alone. So, if your heart is not strong enough, then you also need to find someone to accompany you.
Second: Longing for love and fearing love
The longer you are single, the more you desire to start a family and the more you desire to have an intimate relationship with a man. But at the same time, I am afraid of encountering people who are unladylike and bring trouble to myself.
Women who have been single for a long time are often accustomed to living alone, and she is afraid that after forming an intimate relationship, her life will be disrupted, her free time will be reduced, and she will be more afraid of interacting with a poor condition and pulling down her quality of life.
Modern women are generally realistic. If two people live, none of them are of high quality, then it is better not to be together.
On the one hand, they long to have a person who really likes themselves, and on the other hand, they expect their quality of life to improve. Keep measuring, keep picking, and finally find it more and more difficult.
It takes courage and an impulse to really get into a relationship, but the longer you are single, the more rational people become, and it's hard to be hot with someone for a while.
Longing and afraid, wanting to fall in love, but not daring to fall in love, repeatedly entangled in this emotion, making yourself feel tired. Once a woman has been in a stable relationship for more than two years, it's hard to get into a stable relationship because she barely has the courage to start.
There are many women around who are well-equipped and single, and perhaps deep down, they also have a great desire to have a stable home, an object to talk to, but they are afraid of facing endless troubles after entering a relationship.
Third: Get used to being alone and have fewer and fewer friends
The longer you are single, the more accustomed you are to being alone. Colleagues, friends and classmates have basically formed families and put most of their energy into their children and their spouses. Gatherings can no longer find the right time and place, there are fewer and fewer opportunities to connect, and the number of meetings is decreasing year by year.
The longer you are single, the more accustomed you are to being with yourself, running alone, climbing a mountain, and watching movies alone.
When I was young, I always called on friends, stayed up late together, and sang together. Slowly, friends have fixed partners, and you have less and less intersection between you.
Sometimes, I also crave new friends, but I am afraid of causing trouble for myself. Once you have been single for a long time, you especially don't like to disturb others, or be disturbed by others.
Accustomed to reveling in one's world, accustomed to facing the night alone, accustomed to a person savoring the joys and sorrows of life.
Women have not had men for a long time, and it seems that there is no difference, but in fact, the difference is obvious. With a fixed partner for a long time, women will become relaxed physically and mentally, because of the nourishment of love, so the mentality is very peaceful, and the face of life is more relaxed.
Women who have not had a partner for a long time will have a relatively tense life, as if they are doing their best to face it, but their hearts are often in a stage of anxiety. They are afraid that as soon as they relax, there will be no one behind them.
Every woman, in this life, may have a period of singleness, one person facing troubles, one person facing difficulties. May every woman, after crossing the endless loneliness and darkness, be able to embrace true happiness.