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Recently, a piece of news has attracted the attention of countless parents.
The Ministry of Education requires primary and secondary school students to learn to cook from September onwards!
This news rushed to the Weibo hot search list in a short period of time, gaining hundreds of millions of views and causing an earthquake in the parent circle.
With the official issuance of the Compulsory Education Curriculum Program by the Ministry of Education, labor is completely independent of the original comprehensive practical activity curriculum.
From the beginning of the school year this fall, labor classes will officially become an independent course in primary and secondary schools!
As soon as the news came out, it attracted countless hot discussions. Many netizens pay attention to whether the content of the labor class is completed at school or at home.
Many parents think that the school may require parents to accompany their children to complete the work content at home.
So is it necessary to cultivate children's self-care ability from an early age and let them master some life skills?
There is no doubt that it is necessary.
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In last year's variety show "Up, Teenager", there was a child who attracted the attention of many viewers, his name was Zhang Xiyu.
Zhang's mother, who pays special attention to her children's academic performance, reported 16 interest classes to her children in just one winter vacation.
In the eyes of others, Zhang Xiyu has always been "someone else's child", not only obedient and sensible, but also has a particularly good academic performance, which is the pride of his parents.
However, with the deepening of the program, everyone gradually found that this child's life ability is really crotch, and it can even be said that he has no self-care ability.
The program team let one minute peel an egg, but after a minute, the egg in Zhang Xiyu's hand peeled a small shell.
At this time, Zhang's mother stood up and explained for her son: "It is normal for this child not to peel eggs, because usually these tasks are what I am doing, the fish that I have done, the fish bones are all picked out, and the core in the dragon's eye must be picked out, and he will be given to eat, otherwise he will not eat." ”
In the face of the questions of other guests, Mother Zhang did not think there was anything wrong. But in the eyes of the audience, this kind of parenting is coddling.
Now this generation of young people, because most of them are only children, are generally the pearls in the palm of their families from an early age.
Many of them have parents like Mother Zhang, single-handedly handling their children's diet and living from childhood to adulthood.
This has made many people lose the opportunity to learn to take care of themselves at a young age.
In the case of cooking, this is a very basic skill, but many netizens said that although they are now adults, they still can't cook.
The resurgence of the epidemic has made many young people who can't cook bitter. The night before the Shanghai lockdown, a picture of a man dragging three large bags of instant noodles in a supermarket went viral.
A young man in Jilin ate instant noodles at home for more than 20 days during the epidemic, and after eating the instant noodles at home, he had no choice but to ask for help in the owner group, saying that he really couldn't stand it because he couldn't cook.
For them, instant noodles are their last stubbornness.
Providing meat and vegetables doesn't help at all, because you can't cook, and no amount of rice, vegetables, or meat is as important as a bowl of instant noodles.
People who can cook may find it ridiculous, or even scornful. But for young people who have been "wearing clothes to reach out and open their mouths" since childhood, cooking is really difficult.
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Remember the well-known "prodigy of the East" in the past?
By the time Wei Yongkang was 2 years old, he had mastered more than 1,000 Chinese characters. Then he jumped all the way to the grade, entered the key middle school at the age of 8, was admitted to the Physics Department of Xiangtan University with excellent results at the age of 13, and obtained the master's and doctoral qualifications of the Institute of High Energy Physics of the Chinese Academy of Sciences at the age of 17.
Such a performance is enough to call a "prodigy".
But just three years later, the aura of the "prodigy" was shattered. Because Wei Yongkang's self-care ability was too poor, he was dissuaded by the Chinese Academy of Sciences.
In order to let her son concentrate on studying, Wei Yongkang's mother, Zeng Xuemei, has been taking care of all the housework in the family, including washing her son's clothes, serving food, bathing, and washing his face.
When Wei Yongkang was in high school, Zeng Xuemei even fed him personally, just so that his son would not delay reading books while eating.
Even after his son went to college, Zeng Xuemei has always been with him to "accompany him" and take care of his diet and living.
Wei Yongkang, who was accustomed to his mother's single-handed management, completely lost the ability to take care of himself. When he left his mother's shelter, many problems were exposed.
Not only are the most basic chores not done, but interpersonal skills are almost zero.
The "Prodigy of the East" thus "fell to the mortal world".
Such cases are not uncommon. The bloody reality reminds every family of the importance of cultivating their children's self-care ability.
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The most important thing in family education is to cultivate children's habits and life ability, and what is more important than letting children take the first exam is to let children learn to be independent.
In the movie "Miso Soup of Little Flowers", which is based on a true story, the heroine Chie is suffering from breast cancer, knows that her time is short, and sees her daughter Xiaohua, who is still in her infancy, and decides to teach her self-care before she leaves.
On Xiaohua's fourth birthday, Qianhui gave her a beautiful little apron as a birthday gift and began to teach Xiaohua to cook.
When Xiaohua took a long time to bring his father the miso soup he made, his father shouted in relief, "It's so delicious."
Qianhui also made a pact with Xiaohua, cooking with heart, eating well, as long as she can make miso soup, she will definitely be able to survive.
Accompanied by her family, Qianhui quickly completed the journey of her life, but she has left her most precious "legacy" to Xiaohua.
There is an old saying: "A parent loves his son, but he has a profound plan for it." Parents can only accompany their children to walk a part of life,and the road behind them must be taken by himself.
To love a child, we must teach him the ability to survive and let go of the hand of love in time.
Harvard University has conducted the longest experiment in human history, the Grant Study, and research shows that one of the key points for children to succeed is to let them do housework and start as early as possible.
Another survey concluded that children who love housework and children who do not love housework have an employment rate of 15:1 and a crime rate of 1:10 when they reach adulthood.
There have also been research institutions in China that have conducted a survey of 20,000 primary school students' families across the country, and found that those children who love to do housework have a 27-fold proportion of excellent academic performance than children who do not love housework.
A child who learns to do housework from an early age is more confident, more responsible, more responsible, and has a more sound personality.
Consciously guide the child to do housework when the child is young, give the child the space to do bad things, and give him confidence and motivation to continue.
Then make daily housework arrangements for the child, and turn housework into the child's daily life, which is not only to cultivate the child's self-care ability, but also to exercise the child's sense of responsibility and commitment.
Life, not only study, work, but also chai rice oil and salt.
The mastery of life skills is to better taste the bittersweet and bittersweet in life and live a good life.
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