If you talk about who is the greatest person in the world, I think many people will naturally think of their mothers, the mother's love for the child is worthy of the world's incomparably sincere love, no matter what mistakes the child makes, the mother will tolerate the child in her heart, and will take the initiative to play an escort role in the child's growth process.
The prodigy went to college at the age of 13 and entered the Chinese Academy of Sciences at the age of 17. Mom: I wish he had died!
Even if some mothers will dislike their children for not being smart, have bad grades, etc., this shows that mothers care about their children, and mothers want their children to live a good life more than anyone else. They want their children to be successful academically and to have a good job to support themselves.
However, it is surprising that many years ago, there was a child prodigy who was reported on the TV news, and his mother actually said in an interview with reporters that she wished her child died! Every parent wants her child to be a prodigy, but what is the reason why this mother curses her child so much?
The truth is that her son Wei Yongkang is talented and often takes the first place in the exam. When he was thirteen years old, he received an acceptance letter from Xiangtan University, and when he was seventeen, he actually got the admission letter of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, and the television media rushed to report on this prodigy, which made Wei Yongkang famous for a while! At the same time, Wei Yongkang's mother was also extremely proud of her son.
In the eyes of us ordinary people, if there is a gifted child prodigy, how happy it will be to be a parent, even the joy of the ancestral grave smoking. But why did Wei Yongkang's mother curse her child to die? There are many reasons for this that we don't know. It turned out that Wei Yongkang's father was injured in an accident when he was a child and has since lost the ability to work.
Xiao Wei Yongkang's family was very poor, and after his father was disabled, all the burdens of the family fell on his mother's shoulders.
Wei Yongkang's mother not only has to earn money to support the family, but also has to take care of Little Wei Yongkang and her husband who is paralyzed in bed, and every day is extremely stressful and life is very difficult. At this time, the prodigy Wei Yongkang became the only light in his mother's heart.
Her mother worked hard and earned money to provide Wei Yongkang with education, and her biggest wish was that Wei Yongkang could be admitted to a good university, and then find an excellent job and earn more to improve the quality of family life. His mother attached great importance to Wei Yongkang's learning, and Wei Yongkang was also very competitive, and when he was less than one year old, he had already learned a lot of Chinese characters.
What shocked the family was that at such a young age, Wei Yongkang had mastered a wealth of knowledge, and he was simply a prodigy. Because his mind is really smart, Wei Yongkang has been a proper academic bully in school since he was a child, so his jumping grades is common for him, and it is exaggerated that he was only eight years old when he became a high school student, and Wei Yongkang has won many awards in high school physical chemistry, which is really talented.
When Wei Yongkang was thirteen years old, he received an acceptance letter from Xiangtan University, which made the Wei family's parents very happy, in order to let Wei Yongkang concentrate on studying, Wei Yongkang's mother took care of Wei Yongkang's life aspects in every detail, and even reached the point of feeding Wei Yongkang.
And whether it is Sundays or winter and summer vacations, Wei Yongkang will be locked in his mother's room to study, from childhood to adulthood, almost no time to play. In the process of Wei Yongkang's growth, learning became his only and most important thing, he was only better than ordinary people in learning, and it was difficult to take care of himself in life. Wei Yongkang's talent coupled with his diligent study the day after tomorrow made him successfully receive an acceptance letter from the Chinese Academy of Sciences.
However, after entering the Chinese Academy of Sciences, Wei Yongkang's problems in self-care in life were all exposed, and he could not
Integrate into the dormitory life, can't make friends with roommates and classmates, act like an idiot in many aspects of life, and even forget your graduation thesis! In the end, Wei Yongkang was dissuaded by the Chinese Academy of Sciences.
When Wei Mu learned the news that her son was dissuaded by the Chinese Academy of Sciences, her heart was full of anger, she thought that everything she had paid for her children in the past had been adrift, and she felt great disappointment in this child who had given countless expectations to herself.
Fortunately, after being persuaded to retire by the Chinese Academy of Sciences, Wei Yongkang reflected at home for some days, and then slowly regained his self-confidence. Wei's mother also realized that the way and method of educating her son was too extreme, so she began to cultivate Wei Yongkang's ability to live independently, and Wei Yongkang was gradually able to do housework and buy vegetables and cook.
Facts have proved that Wei Yongkang has a great learning ability, Wei Mother arranged for him to arrange the study tasks he can always complete well, he gradually adapted to doing a lot of things, when relatives and friends come to the family, he will politely pour tea for others, take the initiative to talk with guests. After finding a job, Wei Yongkang often called his mother and was very concerned about her parents' health.
Wei Yongkang's colleagues commented that he was a very attentive person, and the work was always done conscientiously. Now Wei Yongkang has become a husband and father, he has perfectly transformed from a prodigy into a good husband, a good father, a good son of the Gu family, at the same time, Wei Yongkang has always insisted on the love of science, and under his own unremitting efforts, he successfully admitted to the graduate school of Beijing University of Technology.
summary:
After Wei Yongkang's mother, Zeng Xuemei, experienced these things, she deeply realized the mistakes of her own education methods. Because of her wrong way of education, her son's life was more troublesome. Therefore, this incident makes us realize that as parents, we must not only pay attention to the child's learning, but also cultivate the child's ability to live, and we must not cling to a certain point.
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