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Marriage happiness is not happy, only they know, some people's marriages seem to be happy on the surface, but in fact there is a hidden killing machine, no one can predict what will happen in the next moment, but even if the marriage will have waves, it must be calmly faced.
From the beginning to the end of a marriage, some people can stick to it for a lifetime, some people can't do it for a few years, the reason is that there is no reverence for marriage, marriage is sacred, and those who regard marriage as a child's play are doomed to have no good results.
Amin divorced last month, before he thought that his wife would not leave him, the reason is that the wife can only rely on him, without him, the wife has no economic income, no economic income, life can not be lived, he said: a woman who is not financially independent, simply do not have the courage to mention the two words divorce.
This time Amin misjudged, but two years ago, his wife already had plans for divorce, she was no longer a housewife, no longer broke the jar, no longer completely dependent on men, but regained the courage to actively participate in the workplace, the purpose is to be a financially independent woman, do not have to look at anyone's face.
Kung Fu pays off, his wife after some efforts, has been in the company a little achievement, income, welfare treatment is better than Amin, Amin also feel bad, feel that this relationship at any time has a crisis, before sorry for his wife too much, and from time to time to give her a look, really did not fulfill the responsibility of a man, sometimes tantrums and said some ugly words, think of feeling landless self-respect.
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In the end, the wife still plucked up the courage to propose the two words of divorce, Amin was surprised, and did not agree, there is a saying like this: "When a person has saved enough disappointment, it is not far from giving up." Amin used to be bad to his wife, and it was recognized that he felt that he had to provide her with food and clothing, and that he must obey him unconditionally, such a macho style, and now it was simply not appropriate.
In marriage, if men are on top, do everything to be self-centered, do not care about women's feelings, such a marriage will not last at all, and now women are not stupid, marrying anyone is married, why marry a man who is not good for himself, is this not with his own future?
On the day of the divorce, Amin's wife was very calm, when she left without anything, she was dissatisfied with the marriage for 4 years, because Amin did not give her enough respect, nor did she really consider her feelings, although she knew each other on a blind date, there was no emotional basis before, but in the run-in, she should also understand her temperament, and he still went his own way, did not repent, and who it was, it was unbearable.
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Amin very much regrets his previous approach, feels that all this is self-inflicted, can not blame others, after the divorce, often miss his ex-wife, but also called her to ask for a reunion, but she has completely died, no longer give her a chance.
Last week I met Amin, I feel that his whole person has changed, become listless, talk is also weak, may be the divorce hit her too hard, it is difficult to get out of the shadows for a while, who experiences such a thing will be sad, blame themselves, and the responsibility is still on Amin.
I know that this relationship cannot be saved, but Amin sees all the things of his ex-wife at home, can't help but miss it, and he still can't let go of her in his heart, but what is the use.
A few days ago, in order to completely get rid of the entanglement of this relationship, he wanted to reinvigorate, he packed all his ex-wife's things and mailed her, which is the last thing to do for her.
When the marriage is still there, do not know how to cherish, wait until it is about to lose, only to know its importance, marriage is not a guest to dinner, so casual, want to tie the knot, want to leave, it is sacred, do not think well before, do not touch it, otherwise, can not be separated from the end of failure.