Author: One flower
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The failure of a marriage is never the fault of one party, but stems from the poor management of both men and women.
When everyone is involved in the marriage hall, the only thought in their hearts is "heaven and earth", but after marriage, a place of chicken feathers will make people forget the original intention, step by step lost, complaining continuously, quarreling continuously, and one day, a trivial matter pushed the two people to the Civil Affairs Bureau.
This is the case with Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu in "Dear Child", they have been together since college, and it is reasonable to say that they have a deep emotional foundation. But this is not the case, there are many factors that lead loving couples to enemies, such as the most common mother-in-law contradictions, widowed marriages, cheating and betrayal, and so on.
The reasons that led to the divorce of Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu were almost all accounted for. When Fang Yinuo gave birth, Xiao Lu was not in the hospital to accompany him, and he watched the ball game at home alone, and drank until he was drunk. When he woke up the next day, instead of going to see his daughter-in-law and children, he hurriedly took the placenta and gave it to his mother.
Without inviting the sister-in-law, let the mother come to serve the daughter-in-law, the result is that the mother secretly plays mahjong and smokes in front of the child, without the slightest regard for the development and growth of the child. After work, I didn't want to face my wife and daughter, so I lied about working overtime and slept lazily in the car.
Eating suppers with female customers, walking on the road, enjoying the ambiguous atmosphere, although there is no physical cheating, but the mental cheating should not be forgiven.
In the end, a divorce war inevitably began, and there are not many men and women in this world who can do one and two wide and have their own joys. Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu's divorce ended with the usual old and dead not coming and going.
After the divorce, Fang Yinuo did not let Xiao Lu see his daughter Hehe, nor did she contact Xiao Lu, and two or three years later, she married xie Tianhua, an honest man. In many people's mindset, marriage is because of love, Xie Tianhua loves Fang Yinuo very much, even if she divorces with a baby, her parents and sister are firmly opposed, he still marries her without hesitation.
So, does Fang Yinuo love Xie Tianhua? After watching the finale of "Dear Child", I understood that Fang Yinuo had never let go of her ex-husband Xiao Lu from beginning to end.
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First, love breeds hate
When divorced, Fang Yinuo firmly deprived Xiao Lu of the right to visit as a father, even if three or four years have passed, she still does not let Xiao Lu see her daughter, Xiao Lu sent toys, she threw them all away, in the face of her daughter's inquiry, she just said "you have no father", which shows how much hatred in her heart.
How deep the hatred is, how hot the love is, on the surface, Fang Yinuo hates Xiao Lu and blames all the faults on Xiao Lu's body, in fact, she can't let go of Xiao Lu in her heart, nor can she let go of the marriage in the past, let alone want to let go of herself.
And these can also be seen from the first time she met Dong Fan and heard that Dong Fan was going to marry Xiao Lu. The panic she couldn't hide just showed that she still loved Xiao Lu.
2. "We've leveled it up"
Perhaps, some people will say that on the eve of the finale, the child in Fang Yinuo's belly is gone, and in the dialogue with Xie Tianhua, she said that "people are really selfish", reflected on her own wrong behavior, and said that she was really in love with Xie Tianhua now.
Fang Yinuo fell in love with the honest man Xie Tianhua? Do you believe that?
If she really fell in love with Xie Tianhua, she wouldn't have said the words "we are even" in the following dialogue. Pregnant, do not tell the husband, date the ex-husband's hotel, do not tell the husband, because of the ex-husband's phone call, the child is gone, why should you say "equal" with the current husband?
Xie Tianhua was not wrong to report it, the lost child was not her alone, it was Xie Tianhua's first child, and Xie Tianhuacai, as a father, was more sad than Fang Yinuo as a mother.
Sometimes, words will lie, mouths will deceive, Fang Yinuo, such a selfish woman, will not fall in love with Xie Tianhua at all, in her heart, the first place is herself, followed by her daughter, as for Xie Tianhua, from beginning to end, she is in the last place.
Moreover, Xie Tianhua's ranking is not as good as her ex-husband Xiao Lu.
Since you did not put down the last marriage, did not put down the ex-husband, you should not provoke honest people, I hope that in real life there will be less women like Fang Yinuo, and less "big wrongs" Xie Tianhua.
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