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The wife is happy, life is smooth, and the man's good days will naturally come.
—— Wen Mu Mu
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Joy or sorrow - there I have always been with you
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In the episode "Crossing Love" of "The Legend of the New White Lady", there is such a familiar lyric: "Ten years of repair to cross the same boat, a hundred years to repair to sleep together." ”
This means that one day husband and wife, a hundred generations of marriage. In life, it is not easy to have a confidant in the red dust and to be able to sleep together. This was cultivated for thousands of years in a previous life.
Therefore, being able to come together in this life and become a family that loves each other is a fate cultivated in the previous life.
In this world, not everyone can be fortunate to be a husband and wife. However, in life, the most important thing is those who do not know how to cherish marriage.
It's like, you have feelings, he changes his heart; you are sincere, he cheats; you are kind, he is vicious.
In fact, men are not good to their wives, usually eat 3 kinds of bitter fruits, I hope you are good for yourself.
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Family discord
Lincoln said, "If your relatives are not harmonious, your family will be defeated." ”
The family should be a temple of love, joy and laughter.
No matter what a man's status, rich or poor, when a man is unfaithful to marriage, disrespectful to his wife, and quarrel endlessly, how can the family be peaceful?
Colleague Qingqing, just after graduating from college, got married. The husband's family is well-off, and Qingqing naturally lived the life of a husband and a godson after marriage. The daily work is to take the children, busy housework, the size of the family, she is all covered.
Because she had to take care of her children every day, she had no time to take care of herself, and Qingqing's figure was out of shape, soaring from the original 98 pounds to the current 135 pounds.
Gradually, her husband became more and more disgusted, thinking that she was not as good looking as before. Later, he also left work later and later, and the excuse was that he was working overtime.
Until one day, the man was drunk and slept with his mobile phone in his hand. Just as Qingqing was about to remove the phone, a message came over, and Qingqing glanced at it, it was a person named "Baby".
Curiosity drove her, a quick glance, only to find that their chat histories were all ambiguous, as well as the monthly transfer of red envelopes to the woman, the occasional photo of her taking her out on a tour...
It turned out that his so-called overtime and business trips were all for the purpose of meeting this woman called "Baby".
When Qingqing got the evidence to question her husband, he was still straight:
"I just like her, she's more attractive than you. With her, I was happy and full of energy. You don't look at yourself, your waist is like a bucket, a big aunt who is alive and free..."
I really didn't expect that the man who swore to love her and would take care of her for the rest of his life would easily say these words, and every sentence stung Qingqing's heart.
The man thought that Qingqing would cry for a while at most, and would not choose divorce for the sake of the children, and she did not have a job. But Qingqing thought about it all night and finally made up her mind to end the marriage.
Men struggle to retain, but to no avail. Qingqing confessed that the moment of regaining her freedom is the happiest moment in life.
A family's misfortune begins with a wife's mood deteriorating. The wife is sad, the whole family is sad; the wife is happy, the whole family is happy.
If a man is not good to his wife and is unfaithful to the marriage, causing the marriage to break up, eventually the family will be separated. Unfortunately, many men do not understand this truth.
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Careers are not going well
The ancients had a word called "wife wealth", which means that the wife is the feng shui of a family and the "wealth star" of the husband.
When a man pampers his wife, he gains not only a gentle and virtuous wife, but also a happy and happy family, smart and well-behaved children, the trust of leaders and colleagues, and the comfort and praise of parents.
When the wife is respected by the husband, the husband's financial and career fortunes tend to get better and better. And morality is not worthy, which will make a person limited in his career everywhere.
A man's company, about to go public. In order to be with women outside of marriage, lie that there is a problem with the company's finances, in order to prevent others from asking him for debts, coax his wife to divorce him falsely, and then remarry after the limelight has passed.
Women have always trusted their husbands, and they agreed. When I got divorced, the man said, I'm all in debt now, and even the house is mortgaged, so I can't share how much money you have. The wife said, it doesn't matter, it's fake anyway.
In fact, before the divorce, the man had already secretly transferred the property, and the accounts were all debts. Because the wife trusted her husband so much, she did not even think of checking her husband's accounts.
Soon after the divorce, the man immediately married. With the company going public, men suddenly became billionaires, and women outside of marriage also shared a lot of money.
When the woman realized that her husband had originally dug a pit for herself to jump, she cried heartbroken, and she did not understand, how could she be so stupid? How is the world so unfair?
Three years later, the man came to ask the woman to remarry. It turned out that the man and the woman outside the marriage partnered to do business, and the other party rolled up the money and left, and pit him.
When she saw a man, the woman was shocked. The man who was once less than 50 years old and full of vigor now has a haggard face and looks like a 70-year-old man. Men say that now they are often woken up crying in their sleep.
And the woman never agreed to remarry. The woman said, as if the world really has retribution, and people who try to calculate their families will end up being calculated by outsiders.
There is a saying that "many acts of injustice will kill themselves", and some men always have to wait until the "effect" of retribution comes, and then they regret the "cause" they planted.
Smart and far-sighted men know that home and everything is happy. Only when the family is harmonious, what can be done will be smoother.
Therefore, the best investment in a man's life is to be kind to his wife. Men are good to their wives, and in the end it is undoubtedly themselves and their families.
03
The evening view is bleak
There is a saying in the "Falling Eagle Gorge": "Good and evil will eventually be rewarded, and the heavenly path is good for reincarnation." Look up in disbelief, the heavens have spared no one. ”
When a man is young, he ignores his wife, ignores his children, and thinks that he can have a good result when he is old, which is simply a luxury.
What awaits him in his later years will eventually be loneliness and desolation. The "bad things" that have been done will eventually be returned to him in another way.
The well-known musician "Little Fat Teacher" Yuan Weiren is extremely talented, Na Ying's "Conquest" and Faye Wong's "Spinning Wood" are his tailor-made songs for them.
But his love life is full of controversy. When he and actress Lu Yuanqi married, they betrayed each other in marriage, and Lu Yuanqi has been putting up with him for more than ten years.
Lu Yuanqi claimed that in fact, she wanted to divorce him in the first year. But for the sake of her daughter, she has not been divorced. Shoulder the responsibility of caring for small children yourself. But such a stoic day once made her depressed, and even wanted to take her own life.
Finally, in 2016, the two divorced, and it has been 6 years. The children were cared for by Lu Yuanqi, and there was little contact between the two.
In October 2018, Yuan Weiren was filmed in Shanghai, and he recovered from a cerebral hemorrhage caused by an accidental fall and recuperated in his hometown after surgery.
Although the operation was successful, he remained in a coma for a long time. Although the eyes can be opened, they are unconscious and are judged by doctors to be vegetative.
His agency also said that he was not obliged to compensate for the treatment because he went out to take private work.
Yuan Weiren was seriously injured this time, and was assisted by his second sister to take care of him, and there were no other relatives around him. This makes people sigh: "Poor people, there must be something hateful."
When Fang Hua passes away, his appearance is no longer there, and his physical strength is not enough, the greatest expectation in life is that his wife is in his arms, and his children and grandchildren are wrapped around his knees.
Therefore, please remember to be good to the wife, and the man who is good to the wife is accumulating blessings.
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I have seen such a passage:
"A happy and happy marriage, first have a good husband, then there is a good wife." Women in marriage are not afraid of hard days, and they are afraid that their husbands will make her heart bitter. How good a wife is depends on how well her husband treats her. ”
The more incompetent and incompetent men are, the more scummy they are; the more capable and cultivated men are, the more comfortable their careers and families are.
If a good marriage does not know how to cherish, whether it is a man or a woman, it is difficult to make your family harmonious and happy.
It is said that the wife is a man's feng shui, learn to be good to the wife, life and family will be half successful. The wife is happy, life is smooth, and the man's good days will naturally come.
May all men have wisdom and foresight, can treat their wives well, and harvest a happy and happy family.
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