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On January 2, a news broke on the hot search, which was very lamentable:
Yuan Weiren was judged by the doctor to be a vegetative person, and he has always been called "Little Fat", and he has been thin and out of phase.
Yuan Weiren, 53 years old, a well-known musician in Taiwan, has written many classics - Faye Wong's "Obsessed without Regret", "Spinning Wood", Na Ying's "Conquest", "Dream Awakened", "Dream a Scene"... So he is also known as the "man behind the Queen of Heaven".
A genius musician's tragic transformation into a vegetative person would have been a very regrettable thing.
However, there are not many sympathizers on the Internet, but there are many scoldings.
Why do people hate Yuan Weiren so much?
Because of his story, indeed...
01
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When it comes to Yuan Weiren, the first reaction of many post-80s and post-90s is SHE's song - "Listen to Yuan Weiren play the guitar".
In 2007, this song was very popular in the streets and alleys, and it also made Yuan Weiren an inspirational role model in the hearts of many people.
His family is poor, he lives on the mountainside, and his friends who play music think he lives in a remote place.
He looks ordinary, has no family background, breaks through the music world, and is full of talent and perseverance...
At the age of 25, Yuan Weiren published the Cantonese version of "Obsessed without Regret".
At that time, it was very popular to invite songs, Yuan Weiren invited Faye Wong to sing, but he did not expect that this song made Faye Wong a hit and successfully entered the Taiwanese music scene.
At that time, Faye Wong was still called Wang Jingwen.
Later, Yuan Weiren wrote songs for many artists: SHE, Power Train, Qi Qin, Dick Cowboy, Xu Meijing, Xu Ruyun, Zheng Xiuwen, Wu Qixian, Tao Jingying, Liu Ruoying...
At that time, in the Chinese music scene, many golden songs were written by him.
For example, "A Dream":
"I knew it was
It's like a dream
I don't put all my love in the same place
I can forgive
Your absurdity
The absurd thing is that I can't forget..."
For example, Conquest:
"Just conquered by you
Cut off all retreats
My mood is solid
My decision was confused..."
Na Ying's "Conquest" is Yuan Weiren's "inspirational work" after breaking up with his ex-girlfriend.
In 2010, Na Ying held a concert at the Taipei Arena and publicly ridiculed Yuan Weiren:
"I don't want Xiao Fat to get divorced, I hope his family is happy, but when he is happy, he can't write sad songs."
02
Na Ying did not know that at that time, although Yuan Weiren, who had been married for 8 years, was not divorced, his family was really not very happy.
Yuan Weiren's wife at that time was named Lu Yuanqi, a Taiwanese actress who was a beauty when she was young.
In 2002, the two were married.
Lu Yuanqi was pregnant and married, and her husband was particularly excellent and very good to her, so it was logical to stop and concentrate on her husband and children at home.
She must not have imagined that her miserable life would begin from here.
After marriage, Lu Yuanqi gave birth to a son, who was in poor health and was found to have cervical cancer.
And Yuan Weiren's attitude towards her was getting worse and worse.
She had three surgeries, the first two of which Yuan Weiren had not appeared.
The third operation required the family to sign the surgical consent form, and Lu Yuanqi begged him before he appeared in the hospital.
However, not long after the operation, Lu Yuanqi's body had not yet recovered, and she was unexpectedly pregnant.
Throughout the pregnancy process, Yuan Weiren was basically absent.
By the time of childbirth, Lu Yuanqi was seriously bleeding and his life was in danger, but Yuan Weiren smoked and played with his mobile phone to read the news, and was indifferent to the safety of his wife and daughter.
Lu Yuanqi has been a housewife for many years, has no financial resources, and relies on Yuan Weiren to earn money to support her family.
Yuan Weiren's work is mainly in the mainland, while Lu Yuanqi carries two children in Taiwan.
She runs the family here, and there are constant scandals on his side.
Lu Yuanqi once admitted that in the 14-year marriage relationship, Yuan Weiren has always had a small third.
When she suffered from cancer, she was weak and unable to live a conjugal life, and Yuan Weiren intensified her affair.
Three months after her daughter was born, she received a forced call from Xiao San.
The other party said that Yuan Weiren loved her, and persuaded Lu Yuanqi to let go.
Lu Yuanqi looked at the young girl in his arms, and his heart was like a knife.
In the fourth year of marriage, Lu Yuanqi exposed Yuan Weiren's marital infidelity on the Internet.
At that time, she suffered from depression and swallowed a large number of sleeping pills to try to take her own life, but fortunately she was found in time and saved.
After that, Lu Yuanqi gradually became dead-hearted, and Yuan Weiren simply did not go home, and even the children said that they had forgotten the appearance of their father.
The marriage that seems to be in harmony with God is supported by "the children are still young".
This support is 14 years.
03
In 2016, Yuan Weiren and Lu Yuanqi finally agreed to divorce.
And the dog blood plot is staged again.
The day after the divorce was signed, Yuan Weiren was photographed by the media driving a hot girl.
The 48-year-old, with the 23-year-old school flower for a ride, both of them laughed triumphantly.
The media later asked Yuan Weiren: You won't have a new love the next day of divorce, right?
Yuan Weiren desperately explained: single, single, single... I'm single now, and we're not in a relationship, we're in a partnership.
Of course, since he is divorced, it is also his freedom to fall in love.
It's just that the ex-wife, who is full of sorrow, still "feels cold and angry" when she sees her ex-husband being with her the next day.
14 years.
She accompanied him to work hard, raised two children alone, and supported a decent home for him.
What he gave her was marital infidelity, emotional violence, abandonment, and a quick new love...
Just like Song Siming's wife in "Snail Residence", she said: I endured the pearls that were sharply polished, and finally wore them on the necks of others to show off.
This breath is indeed not very easy to swallow.
04
At that time, the media said that Yuan Weiren was divorced and was out of the house.
Some people even said that Lu Yuanqi swept away all of Yuan Weiren's property, sour that she "finally took the money and left, and got what she wanted."
Lu Yuanqi was helpless and posted an exposé:
The car and the house were left to me, but they were all loaned, and the house had already gone through the legal auction procedure.
She has not worked for many years, and after the divorce, she has to pay off the loan while taking the baby, and her life is very difficult.
Until now, they have been trying to find a way out, sometimes busy until four o'clock in the morning to sleep, and less than eight o'clock in the morning to think about work.
Her son's tuition was paid for by her girlfriend Huang Yunling.
The daughter's tuition fee is another girlfriend, Tao Jingying, who pays for help.
In 2018, Tao Jingying appeared on the "Spit Conference", publicly satirizing Yuan Weiren's "deep affection":
On the day of the divorce, in order to alleviate the grief, he immediately went on a date with the girl.
It also shelled Yuan Weiren for not giving child support after divorce.
Yuan Weiren in the audience could not refute it, and smiled and covered his face.
Just a few months after Tao Zi sprayed him, in October 2018, Yuan Weiren suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage in Shanghai, and after finding a brain tumor, he underwent craniotomy and was unconscious for a long time.
After waking up easily, Yuan Weiren was so thin that he was out of phase.
Even the ex-wife and children visited were frightened.
The former "little fat teacher" is gone.
Not just the body, but the identity.
He is no longer the famous active talent in the entertainment industry.
His job, his status, his new girlfriend are gone, and only his family is around to take care of him.
In October 2020, he tried to get up from his wheelchair at home, but his arms were weak, and he fell down, hitting his head on the ground and comatose again.
After that, Yuan Weiren's physical condition became worse and worse, and now he cannot sit in a wheelchair, can only lie in bed, although his eyes can be opened, but he cannot recognize people, and is judged by doctors to be unconscious, that is, vegetative.
It's really miserable to say.
What is even more tragic is that in the two or three years after Yuan Weiren's brain hemorrhage, his life was full of chicken feathers.
A big man who can't take care of himself, or even bedridden, is actually very troublesome to take care of.
Because it had always been his sisters and sisters who were taking care of him, the eldest sister seemed to be unwilling, and once publicly called Yuan Weiren's children "unscrupulous and shameful" and "unfilial" (both children were only teenagers at the time).
The eldest sister scolded, "Yuan Weiren's beloved son and daughter do not pay attention to this father who cannot take care of himself."
The underage daughter denied "ignoring it", saying that she often had videos with her father and wanted to visit, and when grandma said " you don't use it " .
Yuan Weiren's son's previous statement seems to respond to the so-called "all kinds of love".
On June 24, Yuan Weiren's birthday, the son posted a chat record with his father.
The son said his father and son had not spent their birthday together in five years.
The last time the two talked was on their birthday the year before.
Many netizens were also indignant, posting photos of Yuan Weiren holding hands with other women before marriage.
The people who accuse his family are really manipulating right and wrong, and they are shameless.
05
As Yuan Weiren's state gets worse and worse, the story about him may become more and more unbearable.
I tried to put myself in perspective.
A vegetative person in his fifties, who seems to be in debt (because of the failure of the investment), who should take care of it?
Normally speaking, of course, it is the wife and children.
However, Yuan Weiren had been divorced for many years, and after that, although the warblers and swallows continued, they did not remarry.
The ex-wife, of course, is under no obligation to take care of him.
The children are all young, they should still be studying, and they are not able to take care of them.
The key is in the growth of the children, he has been absent, after the divorce of the child support has not been taken, the children from the emotional, presumably unwilling to take care of.
Then only parents and siblings take over this big burden.
He was 53 years old, and his parents must have been very old and incapable of taking care of him.
Brothers and sisters are ok, but how many people are willing to suddenly sacrifice their entire lives to take care of their vegetative brothers 24 hours a day?
Therefore, the eldest sister must be very unhappy in her heart.
She couldn't blame Yuan Weiren's ex-wife, so she had to scold his children.
But what did the children do wrong? They must also feel so innocent that they are bound to choke.
So this famous musician, who was no longer conscious, had to let his bad story circulate endlessly.
Netizens said that this is retribution, and I feel that this is a lesson.
Some men are emotionally spontaneous.
Like the sea oath mountain alliance, tired of turning around and leaving.
They start a relationship, not from the bottom of their hearts, but just to get a different and fresh experience from women.
In their love dictionary, there is no respect, trust, loyalty, and longevity.
It's more about desire, attraction, conquest, pleasure.
If a woman meets such a man, she will most likely become a victim of misfortune.
Because he is the one who is excited, hugs you into his arms, the interest is gone, and he kicks away.
And it's hard to accept the end of a relationship so easily.
Especially married ones.
He married you and fell in love with someone else.
Your divorce is a big price.
Not to leave, is a great pain.
In the end, no matter what the result is, it is half a life.
Therefore, whether a woman is in love or married, she must remember to stay away from men who are casual and casual.
For men, Yuan Weiren's lesson needs to be remembered even more.
Don't feel like you're young, you can have a lot of fun and how to play.
Even if you don't want the other person, think about your future.
Because you haven't been young all the time, you've always been healthy.
In case, like Yuan Weiren, he suddenly couldn't take care of himself.
Or unfortunately, you have a car accident and suddenly get bedridden.
Who cares about you?
This question, be sure to ask yourself when you are in good shape.
Father and mother? sibling?
It's not really appropriate.
Those who really have the ability and willingness to carry your burden are lovers and children.
But you can't just take care of your own happiness, until the day you lie in bed and can't move, only to desperately pull people and say, "You have to take care of me."
Otherwise, if someone asks "by what", how do you answer?
Therefore, from the most realistic point of view, people must also learn to plan ahead.
When you have the ability, do your best to be kind to your lovers, children, parents and siblings.
Especially lovers.
Because that's the person who's at your side all your life.
It's the ones who help you when you're having a hard time.
It was the person you carefully guarded when you were old.
Be nice to people when the wind and water are rising.
When it becomes a burden, people are willing to take it.
Are you right?
Today's text is not gossip, it is a reminder.
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About the Author
Author: Li Yueliang. Popular writer, neo-feminist, and solid writer. Grow up with reason and wisdom with thousands of readers. The new book "Good Life, Not Rushed, Not Busy" was sold on the Internet. WeChat public number: Li Yueliang.
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