#怎么才能走出失恋 #
#为什么有人说先爱的人就输了 #
#情感头条 #
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After a long-term friend and an ex broke up, they did not cry or make trouble as expected, but quietly seemed to return to their original appearance.
The one we first met was so idyllic and indifferent, as if everything in the world had nothing to do with her.
Until the man walked into her life, like a stone thrown into a small river, after the ripples, finally returned to calm.
1. I love your truth
In fact, the vast majority of reasons for breaking up, and the reasons for being together in the first place, are the same.
At first, I knew that your untrimmed edges were untrimmed, and I thought that was the most real and unpretentious you, and I felt that you were different from others.
So, the other person starts approaching you and trying to join your life. They mistakenly believe that those curiosities are called love.
But later, when you open your arms and embrace the people who say they love you, they back down. Like everyone else.
Obviously, in the beginning, we were all used to being alone. It was the other party who suddenly broke into your life, but now, it is he who wants to leave.
Before leaving, he said, "I never thought that you are such an untrimmed and scruffy person, this is not my type." ”
From beginning to end, the man who said he wouldn't love remained the same. It's just them, hurriedly leaving.
2. Love first, doomed to hurt?
Can you accept a person's life? One person goes to work, one person cooks and washes dishes, one person holds a mobile phone and watches a boring TV series.
Actually, most of us can. In other words, people really don't need any love in their lives now, which will only make people distracted.
Once upon a time, I was armored and had no weaknesses, and I lived every day to the fullest, even if I was occasionally bored, but overall it was easy to be satisfied and happy.
But someone told you: "You have to learn to fall in love, no one can really live a lifetime alone." ”
We listen to those words, try to accept someone's life as if it were our own, and begin to influence our own life for the sake of the other person's joys and sorrows.
You begin to cautiously probe, and what was once a colorful day, because of the emotions of others, began to turn into a large piece of black and white.
So, did you finally get the love you wanted? Or did you lose yourself instead of finding love?
3. If you get it, don't you cherish it?
Someone said: "People are the same, after getting it, they will forget the kind of heart that they used to lie in front of the window." ”
Why is it that someone always tells you that you must learn to love yourself, no matter how much you love each other, you can't lose yourself.
The reason is that in this world, there is really no one who loves you more than you.
In love, too many people who are loved always think that this feeling of being pampered can be eternal, so they naturally accept it with confidence.
However, most of the people who give it will not cherish it, and the love they get, like the books they like, will be casually shelved.
So the person who is loved learns to appreciate, like, and love. And the people who pay, learn to like the new and hate the old and say goodbye.
So, if you haven't met the guy you want to give for and he's willing to give for you, don't love easily.
Because those feelings that are willing to be gained are bubbles, and as soon as the wind blows, they are broken.
4. You can't be happy for him
The next time you meet again, hopefully it's because you're truly in love with me, not because you're curious about me.
Don't fall from the sky when I can do anything, and choose to leave when I can't do anything.
In other words, if you love me, join me. Don't fall in love with me, get tired of me, and abandon me.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.