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Author | twelve
Source | Don't be afraid of the future and don't think about the past
01
Lee Moon
Some time ago, after big S released the official announcement of remarriage, a reality show with her as the protagonist instantly kicked off in the entertainment industry.
I have never been too gossipy, and I have also begun to catch up with the new plot of Big S's remarriage.
The new husband, Gu Junye, lifted the isolation and left the hotel, and the Taiwanese media even opened a live broadcast record of the whole process.
It can be seen that Gu Junye is full of spring breeze, and suddenly jumps from a former star that no one knows, to the top of the hot search in the Chinese-speaking world.
In addition to Gu Junye and Big S himself, Xiao S and Wang Xiaofei have all been on the hot search.
Little S quoted her husband as saying: Big S returns to spring at the age of eighteen overnight.
He also danced a special hot dance to welcome the arrival of his new brother-in-law.
Wang Xiaofei made a generous gesture and blessed Big S.
Netizens who are broken hearts say that unless Wang Xiaofei and Zhang Yuqi are reunited, they can win back a city.
Among them, there are dramas and materials, and the one who does not play cards according to common sense is S Mother Huang Chunmei.
First, in Weibo, I posted a picture.
A rooster and a hen confront each other, with the caption "Noisy, noisy, noisy." ”
Accepting media interviews is even more hilarious and catches horses.
The first time he faced an interview with the media, he said that he was angry to the point that his blood pressure had risen and he wanted to swallow antihypertensive drugs.
What to say about the Korean son-in-law:
"I'm speechless, I don't know, I don't care", "It's her husband, not my husband." ”
"It's none of my business," "Just when he comes to Taiwan for sightseeing," "Maybe when I'm out of breath, he'll already be back in Korea." ”
In the second interview, she changed her tone again, saying that the new son-in-law was very good and very moralistic.
Unfamiliar people think she is performing a face change.
But this is actually the consistent style of S Mama.
When big S flashed marriage to Wang Xiaofei, S mom was also angry at first.
But soon he turned to Wang Xiaofei "black to powder", and also competed with Zhang Lan at the big S Wang Xiaofei wedding.
Self-proclaimed "veteran killer", saw the idol Andy Lau to wear heavy makeup, Xiao S also introduced her to Yu Chengqing when she divorced.
The reason why she can raise a sister flower that has been popular for 20 years, S Mama is absolutely familiar with the way of survival in the entertainment industry, and can be called the best spokesperson for the sisters.
Anything that can bring traffic to her daughter, she said;
She praises everyone who is good for her daughter;
The daughter is inconvenient to say, she rushes in front;
For sensitive topics, she gently carried it and would never say a word wrong.
With such a powerful god assist, we can rest assured that Big S will definitely not suffer losses in marriage.
And S Mama, also a female classmate with a story, is absolutely "cruel".
02
S mother, whose real name is Huang Chunmei, was born in a small mountain village in Changhua, Taiwan.
She has had excellent grades since she was a child and has a beautiful appearance.
However, when I was in middle school, I had no choice but to drop out of school because my family could not get 23 yuan of tuition.
Later, she was not willing to stay in the countryside for a lifetime, and decided to go to Taipei to break in.
A little girl who dropped out of middle school, has no skills, and what good job can she find?
I can only do odd jobs in restaurants, standing for more than ten hours a day, washing dishes and mopping the floor, and serving tea and pouring water.
At this time, she had a boyfriend, the same poor origin, but warm and caring to her.
The boy later served in the military, so he entrusted his good friend Xu Jian to help take care of his girlfriend.
Xu Jian's family is well-off, and he is the son of a nearby silver house.
One after another, the two secretly had feelings.
A poor young and beautiful girl, it is easy to take love as salvation.
Attracted by Xu Jian's family situation, Huang Chunmei, who was only 19 years old, married into the wealthy Xu family.
In her opinion at the time, this was the best option.
She thought she could be a young grandmother, who knew that after marriage, it was even more bitter than before marriage.
After marrying into the Xu family, the Xu family immediately dismissed the previous nanny.
She contracted all the housework alone, and was asked by the Xu family not to repeat three meals a day, in addition to continuing to work, because the Xu family did not give her pocket money.
In addition, she has to deal with the infighting of the extended family.
Seven sisters-in-law plus one mother-in-law are equal to eight mothers-in-law.
One person spitting can drown her.
His parents and sisters jointly bullied his wife, but Xu Jian turned a blind eye to it.
S mother has to take care of the family business externally, and deal with the trivialities of a place internally.
In addition, it is also facing the pressure of in-laws to promote it.
The Xu family's preference for sons and daughters is serious, and the Xu family's parents only gave birth to a son after giving birth to 7 daughters in a row.
After S mother gave birth to two daughters in a row, the in-laws' face was not good-looking, and she had no ability to squeeze her in the light and in the dark, and her stomach was not angry, sorry for the Xu family.
S Mom herself is also crying night and night.
When she gave birth to her third daughter, she directly broke down and cried, unwilling to see the child.
The mother-in-law and the eldest sister-in-law specially stabbed the knife, saying that she was a "hen who did not lay eggs"...
Xu Jian drank alcohol every day, and after getting drunk, he also committed domestic violence.
Once, S's mother was bruised by him and cried bitterly.
The three daughters were terrified.
In the middle of the night, Big S quietly said to his mother: "Mom, you leave Daddy, it doesn't matter if you live a hard life, the three of us will follow you." ”
S Mom broke her defenses in an instant, and tears rose up.
She felt that she owed too much to her daughter, such a marriage, such a husband, what is the use?
Because I was no longer afraid of divorce, almost overnight, S Mom hardened.
She directly tore her face with her in-laws, refused to have four more children, and said: If you want to give birth, let Xu Jian go outside to give birth.
Her own mother advised her that it was too bad for you to marry into someone else's house and not give birth to a son.
S mom was directly angry, and if we said this again, we broke off the mother-daughter relationship.
Once, after Xu Jian drank too much, he went home and bullied S Mama again.
Without saying a word, S's mother picked up the ashtray and smashed it on his head, causing him to be covered in blood.
Xu Jian was also frightened and never dared to do anything again.
Since then, S's mother has moved out of the Xu family with her three daughters, and she later said:
Your own life is actually a life of fighting.
It is no wonder that she can raise such a "brave" word size S.
From the small entertainment circle, big and small S almost debuted in mockery, and one of the two sisters was ridiculed for his teeth and the other was ridiculed for black skin.
Can endure so much ridicule, but still able to get to this day, such a stubborn gene, from the same stubborn, do not accept defeat mother.
03
A single mother, with three daughters, has to pay tuition and rent, and the financial pressure is very high.
S mom got a job as a real estate agent, in addition, she also worked part-time to sell breakfast, wash dishes, and was busy like a top every day.
A poor and toilful life is most likely to swallow a person's patience and gentleness.
S mother's way of educating her three daughters is rough and simple, that is, to beat and beat the three sisters at every turn to make the three sisters cry wolf.
Once, S's mom worked for more than ten hours, dragging her lead-like legs back home, and Little S wrapped around her and cried loudly.
S Mom couldn't stand it, and grabbing Little S was a violent beating.
Big S immediately stepped forward and said to his mother, what you hit her for, it is you and your father who are wrong, not her.
Since then, S's mother has never beaten the three sisters again.
When S Mom was young, she was not only violent, but also very controlling.
Big S wanted to enter Huagang Art College to study, but S Mom was reluctant.
Big S Rage, my life, why is it up to you to decide.
Jumping out of the open car, he scared Silly Little S.
The next day, she went straight to her classmates.
On the third day, Little S called Big S and said sister, Mom compromised.
But at the critical moment, she is still her daughter's protective umbrella.
Big S was bullied by the at school, and S's mother directly rushed into the school and quarreled with the principal, and finally the classmates were remembered as big.
After entering the entertainment industry, S's mother became the protector of her daughter.
At that time, in Taiwan, it was very common to let artists accompany wine.
Whenever Big S got off work and the eldest brother pulled them both to accompany the wine, S Mom always killed them in a murderous manner, yelling, you two hurry up and let me go home to sleep.
Later, Big S acted in idol dramas, and Little S became a sister of variety shows.
Here, the mother and daughter trio are mixed in the entertainment industry and make a lot of money.
Over there, the Xu family was losing day by day.
The family business was deteriorating, and Xu Jian was too lazy to take care of it.
But outside, the women on the wind and moon field played hotly, and they were also addicted to gambling and owed huge debts.
The debt collector knew that he had a very powerful wife and daughter, and directly chased the debt to the mother and daughter three.
S's mother directly said that she could pay off the debt for him, but she must first divorce.
After the divorce, she did not count the previous suspicions, let her daughter visit her ex-mother-in-law, and gave her ex-husband living expenses.
You could argue that this is another, more advanced "revenge."
But only the truly strong have this kind of heart, willing to smile and take revenge and help the weak.
Mom S is actually a combination of contradictions.
In the first half of her life, she lived like a little S, industrious and stoic, infinitely compromised, infinitely flattered, in order to have a glimmer of status in her husband's family.
In the second half of her life, she lived like a big S, sharp and spicy, dared to think and dare to do, and killed all four parties, just to escort her three daughters.
The two daughters also indirectly inherited a contradictory part of her personality.
Because of this, the women of this family are very strong and very thoughtful. Whenever something big happens, there is always a fight.
But as soon as there is an external situation, they will immediately unite the front, unite with the outside world, and be very united.
We always have contradictions, but we never give up.
This is the Chinese mother, the Chinese family affection.
04
Immersed in the entertainment industry for several years, S Mama cultivated into a human essence.
Her daughter had something on the hot search, she rushed to the front for the first time, took the bottom for her daughter, and helped her daughter block the gun.
Not only is he energetic and has a good mouth, but he also knows how to judge the situation.
She praised her son-in-law Mike on Weibo:
"How can we Mike invest so much?"
"Mom is proud of you."
Qua Wang Xiaofei is even more meaty:
"Good husband", "good father", "good son-in-law", "Wang Xiaofei is my most proud son-in-law." ”
Everyone knows that these two sons-in-law are not fuel-saving lamps, but the two daughters have to play the Happy House in front of the media, and she cooperates seamlessly.
After the big S "divorce storm" occurred, the person who rushed to the front was also Xu Ma.
Even if her words were quickly punched in the face, it wouldn't matter.
She is willing to be the object of ridicule by others, as long as she can protect her children for a while.
Many of the discord in life were pushed away by her four or two pounds and pushed away without doing anything.
But in the life of S Ma, you can also see the growth path of traditional women.
When he was young, he had the fragile side of traditional women, hoping to save his life with love, so he would be attracted to the stupid children who had no appearance.
After getting married, there was no bottom line to compromise, and I had three daughters, and I felt ashamed.
I hope to continue to pay, get the recognition of the in-laws, and gain respect and love.
But after her hopes were dashed, she quickly recognized the reality and chose to rely on herself on herself.
I'd rather get out of the house than fight for custody of my three daughters.
Once, she was very strong, and in the childhood of her three daughters, she played the role of a tiger mother and believed in stick education.
Later, she became tolerant and patient, her daughter disagreed with herself, she was angry, but eventually chose to respect.
She had been assimilated by feudal thought, bound by traditional forces, and had been immature and weak.
But no matter what the situation, she is always the patron of her daughter.
Once on the show, S's mom said to Little S, "You are really lucky."
Little S said, "Of course, you are our biggest patron!" ”
Mama Xu paused and said, "I will always be your backer, but I have no backer." ”
It makes people burst into tears.
She was a strong mother. This is something to be respected.
Of course, that generation, in the education of children, is always missing.
Because the growth environment is too rough, she has not received unconditional love, she does not understand marriage, does not understand men.
Nor can it teach her daughter how to love properly.
Why is their family called the Kardashian House in Taiwan?
Because of the emotional life of the S sisters, it is too much to catch the horse.
The two sisters, one who pushed too hard and pursued perfection too much, turned their lives into reality SHOWs.
A model that repeats the mother's, seeking perfection, always getting by in marriage.
They long for love, long for a complete family, always want to help men to create a "strong" image, always release the signal of love with the outside world, but constantly experience disappointment.
Even if it is as strong as the big S, in the bottom of his heart, he will always long for the protection of men and the nourishment of love.
But looking back, women may continue to find that only relying on their own lives is the most relaxed and happy.
For the love of any other person is not as deep and lasting as your self-love.
But what does it matter, when women no longer seek deep and lasting, perhaps it is easier to get happiness in love.
Like the eighteen-year-old big S who rejuvenated one night, perhaps, all she wanted was happiness, although she knew that this happiness could not last, but it was a bloom that millions of medical and aesthetic maintenance could not bring.
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