Friends who pay attention to size S will not be unfamiliar with Mother Xu, because Size S often shares the story of Mother Xu on the show; recently, Big S married her first love, Ju Junye, and Mother Xu also posted a straight post on FB:
Don't come and rob my daughter! I pecked you to death!
I think everyone can see that Xu's mother's personality is very tough.
Huang Chunmei
It is Xu's mother's own name.
She grew up in Changhua, because she did not catch up with the nine-year compulsory education (one year difference), coupled with the preference of Grandma Xu (Xu Grandfather died), resulting in Huang Chunmei not attending primary school and always helping the family.
Later, when they were too poor and had few opportunities to make money in Changhua, the Huang family's mother and daughter had to go to Taipei to work with the help of relatives, and then 18-year-old Huang Chunmei found a job serving dishes in a restaurant.
Next to the restaurant there is a silver building, which is the property of Xu's father (Xu Jian) family.
At that time, Xu Jian's friends took a fancy to Huang Chunmei, entrusted Xu Jian to send love letters, did not expect to have a long-term love, Xu Jian himself chased Huang Chunmei, and also married Huang Chunmei home.
Inside the circle is Xu's father
Although the Xu family opened a silver building, it is only a storefront, not a luxury, but only a well-off or middle-class.
Moreover, the Xu family's preference for sons and daughters is very serious, Xu Jian is the eighth child in the family, the first seven are sisters, and there is no maid in the family.
After Huang Chunmei married into the Xu family at the age of 19, she became a free maid and took on all the household chores of the Xu family.
Xiao S once said in the program that there are more than a dozen people who eat at the Xu family, plus Grandpa is very particular about eating, three meals can not be the same, but also have to eat delicious, so Xu's mother is very hard to cook, so she has practiced the current good cooking skills.
"Big and Small Love to Eat"
In addition to undertaking all the household chores of the Xu family, the Xu family also required Huang Chunmei to give birth to a male to inherit the Xu family.
I don't know if the genes of the Xu family's daughter are too strong, Huang Chunmei gave birth to three children after marriage, all of which are girls.
Xiao S is the youngest in the family, her big name "Xu Xidi" and her nickname "Tingting" are all from Grandpa, which means "
hope
I hope that my daughter-in-law will give birth to my granddaughter
junior
Brother, stop and stop don't have another girl", and the common meaning of "Zhao Di" and "Lai Di".
However, Huang Chunmei, who gave birth to three daughters in succession, had had enough, she did not want to regenerate, and she was so nagged that she said, "I want to have a son and find another woman to give birth!" ”
Huang Chunmei was only 22 or 23 years old at the time, and it was easy to understand such words, but don't say her mother-in-law, that is, Huang Chunmei's own mother, Grandma Xu, who is patriarchal, did not support her: "How can it be justified not to give birth to a boy?" ”
Angry, Huang Chunmei said directly: "If you tell me such a thing again, I will break off the mother-daughter relationship with you!" ”
Of course, until Grandma Xu died at the age of 92, the mother and daughter did not really break off their relationship, but they were just angry words at that time.
Mother Xu and Grandma Xu
The angry words between mother and daughter are not taken seriously, but the angry words spoken in the in-laws' house will be taken seriously.
Xu Jian heard Huang Chunmei say that he wanted to have a son and find other women, and he really often did not return at night.
He was originally a young master with a temper, spoiled by his parents and sisters, did not know how to take care of the family, only knew how to go out to play, and often drank heavily after quarrels.
Once when he came home drunk, Huang Chunmei and he quarreled, and the couple moved their hands.
Xiao S recalled this experience when he expressed particular fear, of course, the most afraid of his mother was beaten by his father, but Huang Chunmei was not a good bully, picked up the ashtray and smashed it on his father's head, fortunately only left a little blood, and there was no big trouble, Xu Jian woke up the next day and let Xiao S go out to buy wine.
Huang Chunmei, a "person with a foreign surname", not only bears heavy housework, the pressure of her in-laws to ask for a man, and the contradictions between husband and wife... There is also friction between sisters-in-law.
She is not a native of Taipei, and her mother's family is poor, so she is often looked down upon by her in-laws and ridiculed by her in-laws;
She wrote a diary to vent that "the Xu family is neurotic", was peeked at by her sister to tell Grandpa Xu, Grandpa Xu directly pointed out at the dinner table, criticizing the daughter-in-law" There is something to say directly, don't say that our family is neurotic. ”
Huang Chunmei knew that the diary had been peeked at.
Little S also said that her mother was once framed by someone in the family, and her mother had a big fight with that person...
Although it is not clear who it is, but later the big S became famous, Huang Chunmei had contacts with other people, and only broke off relations with one of the sisters, you can guess that it may be related to that person.
Huang Chunmei, who was exhausted, could not stand it any longer, saying that she was "like a beast tied in chains" and wanted to leave the big family that suffocated her, but Grandpa Xu and Grandma Xu did not agree, and said ugly words to ridicule her incompetence, and if she divorced, she would not earn money to raise children.
Huang Chunmei came out and said that she could be a restaurant girl, but she was slapped by an aunt, and Huang Chunmei, who was not a good stubble, immediately got into a mess with her!
Grandma Xu was so angry that she jumped on her feet to let Huang Chunmei "roll", and Huang Chunmei immediately knelt down to thank Grandma Xu and said "thank you Mom", and took her three daughters to turn around and leave.
Although Huang Chunmei left the Xu family, Xu Jian was unwilling to sign the divorce, not because of love, but to "drag until her old Zhu Huang no one wants to sign again."
Fortunately, Huang Chunmei was not in the mood to remarry, she found a job selling real estate, single-mindedly raised three daughters, and made money because of her eloquence, although it was hard, she could afford to support herself and her children.
Sensible Big S was considerate of her mother's hardships, and at a very young age, she went to school while working part-time to earn money; later, she also pulled Little S into the show business with her, when the sisters were only 18 and 16 years old.
Size S, Aya
Huang Chunmei did not trust her two daughters, quit her job in real estate sales, worked as a nanny and driver for her two daughters, and accompanied her two daughters to record programs.
At that time, many "big brothers" in Taiwan Province invited everyone to eat supper after recording the program, and Huang Chunmei would say, "They will go to class tomorrow, they have to go home early";
Some people who use their hands and feet on them will also walk away bored when they see Huang Chunmei's sharp eyes.
Growing up, Little S said on the show that if there was no mother, she and her sister would encounter terrible things.
Later, the record contract of big and small S ended, because it did not sell well and was not renewed, and experienced things such as being banned, I wanted to quit the show business.
Huang Chunmei accepted all this calmly, took her daughter to sell noodles, sell breakfast, open a clothing store, and try various ways to make money.
Fortunately, the godfather of variety shows, "Wei Zhongge", took a fancy to the nonsense and eccentricity of the big and small S, and persuaded them to take over the work of hosting, and later the sisters could rely on "I Guess" and "Entertainment 100%" to become popular.
After the sisters became popular, the family finally did not have to worry about money, but their father Xu Jian owed more than 3 million Taiwan dollars in gambling debts in 2008 and was photographed living with the betel nut boss Lady Zhuang.
Big and Small S gradually helped his father pay off his debts, and also gave his father 100,000 Taiwan dollars a month for living expenses, on the condition that Xu's father sign the divorce.
Finally, Huang Chunmei, who had been away from home for many years, went through divorce procedures with Xu Jian in 2008 and completely resumed her single life.
It can be seen that although Huang Chunmei's marriage is unhappy, she has always lived a very transparent life, not wronged, not willing, even if not divorced, she will leave the in-laws who do not love her and will only encroach on her.
Although Big and Small S followed her from the Xu family to live a hard life, but the personality is humorous, eccentric, no depression, career success, mother Huang Chunmei is the biggest hero behind them.