Tomorrow May 8th, it is the annual Mother's Day, and the dialogue program "Old Lady's Old Lady" between Xiao S and his mother Huang Chunmei will be online again.
Xiao S recently revealed on her social account that she will launch a super dialogue with S's mother, with unlimited content scale, talk about couples, mother-in-law, bullying and other social hot topics, and also talk about how women chase dreams and how to live.
Xiao S has always been known for being bold and daring to say, what will she break out of S Mama this time? And S mama is of course not a fuel-saving lamp, as the saying goes, "if there is a mother, there must be a daughter", and the degree of S mama's dare to say is even worse than that of the small S. Little S and S mom master tricks, the show naturally will not lack of explosive points. Compared with Xiao S, netizens seem to be more looking forward to the performance of S Ma, after all, S Mama is an unusual woman!
S mother was born in the countryside, married into the Xu family was bullied, because there was no son to be sneered at, after leaving the scumbag, raised three daughters alone to grow up, the size S cultivated into a star, she also became a well-known "star mother" inside and outside the industry. S mother's life is really a legend! First, the rural sister climbed the tall branch and talked about the legendary life of S Ma, naturally starting from when she was young. S mother's name is Huang Chunmei, and when she was a child, the elders in the family called her "Xiaomei". Huang Chunmei was born into a poor peasant family in Changhua County, Taiwan, and her family made a living by growing crops, because her family was poor and could not afford to hire workers, and she began to work in the fields when she was seven or eight years old.
At that time, many children in rural families could not go to school, and Huang Chunmei was no exception, because the family had no money, and she dropped out of school early. Unable to continue her education, she had to help with farm work at home, and her parents thought that when she grew up a little longer, they would find a good family for her in the local area and let her marry early. However, just when Huang Chunmei was about to reach adulthood, her father suddenly died for some reason, and the pillar of the family suddenly disappeared, and the elders decided to temporarily shelve the matter of marrying her.
In order to make a living, she can only have the courage to come to Taipei to work, born and raised in the countryside since she was a child, and the first time she came to a big city, Huang Chunmei lived a life of fear. She grew up only doing farm work, no education and no skills, it took a long time to find a job, and then there was a factory to hire her, although the salary was lower, but it was wrapped up. At the beginning of entering the factory as an assembly line worker, she was often reprimanded by the foreman, busy every day, trying her best to work. During those difficult days, there was only one belief that sustained her: to make a good life for her family.
Even though Huang Chunmei has been working hard, after a while, she was still fired. Dragging a large bag of luggage, she walked on the streets of Taipei, and fell into confusion for a while, is there no place for her in the big city? Looking for a cheap rent hotel, Huang Chunmei rented a room, put down her luggage, rested for a night, and she was anxious to find her next job. She found a tea restaurant that was recruiting workers, and the owner saw that she was young and beautiful, so he asked her to stay as a waiter, and it was here that she met xu jian, the man who later made her love and hate.
Xu Jian's family opened a gold shop, and at that time, opening a gold shop was not a good thing! According to the current words, Xu Jian was a "rich second generation" at that time. Xu Jian is the only son in the family, and he has seven older sisters on top of him. The Xu family has always been "son-preference", Xu Jian's mother did not give birth to him, has not been welcomed by the mother-in-law, until the eighth child gave birth to a son, began to be recognized by the Xu family. Therefore, as soon as Xu Jian was born, he was infinitely loved by his parents and grandparents, and he could basically get whatever he wanted.
It is also because of the doting of the elders that Xu Jian has been very naughty since he was a child, often running into trouble, and has not changed after growing up, often playing with the little in society, debauchery and uninhibited. One day, Xu Jian came to the tea restaurant with a few good buddies, and was amazed by the beauty of the waiter's little sister Huang Chunmei, so he began to pursue. Huang Chunmei was used to living a hard life at that time, and when she saw a rich brother pursuing herself, don't mention how happy she was in her heart. She thought that she had been favored by God and that her fate would be better after that, so she decided to marry without saying a word.
After the news of Huang Chunmei's marriage to a rich man spread in her hometown, people in the village said that she "turned from a chicken into a phoenix", and then she could enjoy happiness! However, the truth is that Huang Chunmei has always had a bad life in the Xu family, she is like a free nanny of the Xu family, with no status to speak of. Although nominally a "young grandmother", it is actually a maid and a child-bearing machine. Second, because there is no son who is not treated by the father's family, the Xu family is a big family, the seven aunts and eight aunts all live together, Huang Chunmei not only has to take care of Xu Jian's parents, but also to take care of his seven sisters.
Every day she had to prepare three meals on time, and Mr. Xu also required different dishes to be prepared every day, in addition, she was also responsible for washing the dirty clothes at home, cleaning and cleaning, and there was no difference between her and the maid. Because of her humble origins, at the beginning Huang Chunmei did not dare to complain, she could only work hard and complain, and the Xu family arranged for her to do whatever she wanted. Even during her pregnancy, she didn't have much time off and was still busy every day. As the days passed, Huang Chunmei gave birth to her eldest daughter, Xu Xixian, and her mother-in-law encouraged her not to be discouraged as a person who came over, and the next child must be a son.
However, the second child was still a daughter, and the Xu family began to complain about her, and always said that she would not give birth, which made Huang Chunmei feel very hurt inside. Originally, Huang Chunmei planned not to give birth again, but she couldn't resist her mother-in-law's constant persuasion around her, encouraging her to have a third child, telling her that the fortune teller said that the third child would definitely be a boy. So she continued to give birth to a third child, and when she found out that she was still a daughter, she broke down in bed and cried, and even asked the nurse to quickly take the child away, which was difficult to accept for a while.
After the birth of the third daughter, the old master of the Xu family gave her a name "Xu Xidi", which means that she will have a younger brother, and the nickname is called "Tingting", which means that the girl stops and the boy is coming. This move means that Xu's parents also want Huang Chunmei to continue to give birth until the boy is born. Again and again, Huang Chunmei finally couldn't bear it anymore, she decided to have a showdown with the Xu family, saying that she would not be reborn again, hearing this, the old lady of the Xu family was half dead.
With a drumbeat, Huang Chunmei decided that she would no longer be cowardly after that, and she would be strong for the sake of her three daughters. Huang Chunmei's personality has changed greatly, before Xu Jian's seven sisters often asked her to do things, she worked hard and complained, and after giving birth to her three daughters, she dared to resist and refused to help them work. After coming and going, Huang Chunmei and Xu Jian's sisters formed a lot of contradictions, because she did not want to regenerate, and her mother-in-law also complained a lot about her. After that, Huang Chunmei was ostracized and insulted in the Xu family, and she begged her husband Xu Jian to help her lead, but she finally paid by mistake. Xu Jian did nothing at that time, living on her parents' money, so she did not dare to offend her family, and she refused to intervene in this women's war. In addition, he also ignored his three daughters, often went out to look for flowers and ask willows, went outside to fool around, came home drunk, punched and kicked his wife, and the three daughters were scared to hide in the corner.
This kind of life lasted for many years, and when Xu Jian came home drunk and beat Huang Chunmei again, the boldest second daughter, Xu Xiyuan, would come out to protect her mother after the three daughters grew up a little older. Once, Xu Jian came home drunk again, and lost his temper with Huang Chunmei, Xu Xiyuan rushed up and pointed at him to make a reprimand, Xu Jian was furious, thinking that this daughter was going to rebel, so he wanted to teach her a good lesson, fortunately, Huang Chunmei quickly took her away, and she avoided being hurt. After this incident, Huang Chunmei finally realized that she could no longer tolerate it, even for the sake of her three daughters, she would have to leave the Xu family.
In this way, with a little private money that she had painstakingly saved before, Huang Chunmei left the Xu family with her three daughters. After moving out, Xu Jian did not give a penny, Huang Chunmei relied on her own work to earn money, raised her three daughters, and did her best to cultivate them, fortunately, the three daughters were very competitive, and did not let her hard work be wasted. After Huang Chunmei took her three daughters to rely on herself, the daughters liked art and wanted to go to art school, so she tried to make up for tuition.
She incarnated as a desperate three-woman, working three jobs a day, helping others buy breakfast in the morning, working as a waiter in a tea restaurant in the afternoon, and working as a dishwasher at a food stall in the evening. Every night back in the small rental house, Huang Chunmei often had back pain and was too tired to sleep, but in order not to affect the sleep of her three daughters, she would still lie in bed, even if she did not sleep all night. Fortunately, the three daughters are very sensible, and after returning home from school, they will help their mother with housework, and the mother and daughter will twist into a rope to fight against the hard life together.
Although Huang Chunmei is physically and mentally exhausted under the devastation of busy work, she always maintains her vitality in the face of her three daughters, although when her daughter is disobedient, she will also stick to education, but when her daughter is bullied by outsiders, she will also be the first to defend her daughter. When Big S was studying at the art school, because of her natural beauty and spicy personality, she became a prominent figure in the school, and her "big sister" style made her have many fans and sisters at the same time, but also made her make a lot of enemies.
One day, the little in the next class who originally had a grudge with Big S came to find stubble, pulled Big S's hair and slapped it wildly, Little S was also implicated, and the sisters went home with a blue nose and swollen face, which frightened Huang Chunmei a lot. After inquiring, after learning that her daughter was bullied, Huang Chunmei was angry, thinking of giving the little hooligan a dismount, and rushed to the school's senior office to ask the school to give an explanation.
Under the shelling of Huang Chunmei, the school finally agreed to solve the matter, and the little hooligan was punished. The three sisters of the S family grew up under the protection of Huang Chunmei, and Huang Chunmei was still busy making money to support her family, until later when big S and little S entered the entertainment circle, she had a slightly better life. When Big S was 14 years old, because he was born beautiful, he was photographed by a star scout to shoot an advertisement, and later debuted with his sister Xiao S and formed the girl group ASOS.
When they first debuted, the sisters were still newcomers, and often some older men in the circle invited them to drink together, and the sisters were not easy to refuse for work, and whenever this time came, Ms. Huang Chunmei appeared. At that time, Huang Chunmei felt that big S and little S were still very young, and the entertainment circle was mixed, worried that they would be bullied, so she decided to quit her job and accompany her daughter to catch the announcement every day. Whenever you see some obscene men with bad intentions, "enthusiastically" invite the size of S to eat supper, drink, Huang Chunmei will be the first time to stand up to help them refuse, after more times, many people in the industry know that there is a powerful mother around the size of the S, and slowly there will be no more men with bad intentions who dare to find them.
Under the protection of his mother Huang Chunmei, after the debut of the big and small S, he was exempted from a lot of bullying, and later with the sisters partnering to host "I Guess I Guess I Guess Guess", "Entertainment 100%" to get a lot of fame, big S then starred in "Meteor Garden" became popular, and their situation really improved. After that, Xiao S hosted "Kangxi Lai" and became a sister of Taiwanese variety shows. The two sisters of S and S caught fire on both sides of the strait and in three places, making the S family a powerful family in Taiwan, and Huang Chunmei became the "star mother" that everyone envied, relying on her own efforts, and finally did her best to achieve a great reversal in life.
On the other hand, Xu Jian, after Huang Chunmei left with his three daughters, still had no remorse and lived a mess. Fourth, after becoming famous with her ex-husband's family Ice Release Former Suspect S, the media has reported that Xu Jian has a new love, and the woman was once a betel nut Xishi. And he also had eight million gambling debts because of good gambling, and was kidnapped by the underworld with his girlfriend, and finally it was Sister S who helped him pay back the money before he was released.
However, even though Xu Jian is a failed father and lives his life in ruins, sister S still has good intentions for him. After Huang Chunmei and Xu Jian divorced, she was also very generous and did not forbid her daughters to associate with him, after all, the blood of family affection cannot be cut off if you want to.
Later, the big S sisters will still give their father living expenses every month, when big S and Wang Xiaofei just fell in love, big S also took Wang Xiaofei to see him, Wang Xiaofei sent a gold watch, let him smile and close his mouth, and put words to the media: "Give the son-in-law 100 points!" When Big S and Wang Xiaofei held a wedding, she also invited her father Xu Jian and asked him to personally send her to Wang Xiaofei's side.
Although the three sisters of the S family have always resented what their father did to their mother, but when they grew up, they slowly let go, although they were still not close to their father, but they kept in touch and would get together from time to time.
In the second year of the marriage between Big S and Wang Xiaofei, Xu Jiansheng was seriously ill, Big S suspended filming, and Little S suspended recording programs, accompanying her through the last journey of her life.
Today, Huang Chunmei has the grace of three daughters, the women have all started a family, she has become a grandmother, and has reached the age of enjoying the joy of heaven.
Looking back, Huang Chunmei's life is indeed a legend, and in the era when "women must rely on men to live" in the public perception, she completed the awakening of women. Using her own hands, she was self-reliant and indomitable, and raised a world for her three daughters. How can this woman not be admired!