Come and come to the family, tell a love story: 2023 is almost halfway through, the disputes between Wang Xu and the family have dominated the entertainment version for more than half a year, and our hero Wang Xiaofei will even stand up to resist the attack of public opinion for the big S who has completed the first anniversary of the second marriage.
Truly, if the whole world is against you, I am against the whole world.
Such an affectionate ex-husband is not only rare in internal entertainment, but also rare in the world. I even suspect that if Big S takes the initiative to get back together now, Wang Shao should not say a word, fart upside down to declare to the world - "everything is a small episode, she is the person I am right after all", let this long-standing divorce war have a big shocking reversal, right?
OK, and put aside the speculation, let's first return to the specific incident of Pint Wang Xiaofei's idiotic physique and the outrageous degree of the whole thing.
Recently, some netizens picked up that as early as mid-2021, Big S had frequent ambiguous interactions with Gu Junye on social platforms with trumpets. At first, Da S took the initiative, and she left messages with love under Gu Junye's account on August 2, 6, and 8, and got a reply from Gu Junye.
On August 21, Gu Junye posted a picture of his arm with a chicken tattoo on his account, which may be related to his own chicken.
On August 24, he posted a dragon tattoo on his other arm with the text: Tattoo No. 2!!! Never give up for the rest of your life!!!
Key point: This text uses Chinese, and the dragon is the genus of Big S. How is it not a secret declaration of love?
On September 1, 2021, Gu Junye tattooed a star on his arm, which coincided with the star tattoo on the back of Big S's neck. This rapid progress of "middle-aged unforgettable" is really serious, childish, naïve and enthusiastic!
Sweet is a little sweet, but the point is: the basic solidity of the two of them going in both directions and making early love makes the reputation of Big S who is not rich once again worse:
1. Big S and Gu Junye secretly exchanged money as early as July ~ September 2021, and at that time, the marriage of Big S and Wang Xiaofei was still existing, and they did not officially divorce until November 2021;
2. The statement that "Big S Gu Junye has not been in contact for 20 years, and a phone call has achieved a century reunion" was slapped in the face, and the version of the story given by Big S not only avoided the fact of marital infidelity, but also suspected of forcibly fabricating and making up drama points in order to enhance their own topicality.
Anyway, these revelations are very unfavorable to Big S, one shows that she is not real, and the other once again proves that she does not take Wang Xiaofei seriously, and Xiaofei, who once acted as an ex-wife's cash machine and could not see her children, always looks more innocent and pitiful.
However, however, President Fei not only did not become angry and fired online because he was suspected of being cuckolded, but quietly sent a Weibo to defend the big S.
The original text is as follows:
"Big S is the mother of my two children and my ex-wife, and she can't be said to be like that by you. Please stop talking about us in all the media that talk about us! Stop paying attention to both of us. She is a good person, I know it for more than ten years. ”
After that, it is still the usual operation, and it is deleted in seconds.
Alas......
One of my biggest feelings after reading this text can be described by the last sentence I liked to hear before: this man, he is still a child.
There are two layers of relationships in this paragraph, one is his relationship with his ex-wife Da S, and the other is his relationship with the media and enthusiastic netizens, both of whom act very childlike. Let's say it one by one.
First of all, he recounts his intimate relationship with Big S, and also makes an abstract but positive ultimate assessment of Big S's character, which at first glance sounds so affectionate and kind. But these are only the surface.
It stands to reason that the divorce is so unpleasant, and it has not yet been finally known, and the disgust and hatred between each other should still prevail, otherwise they will simply reconcile, why use legal weapons to fight for interests? But Wang Xiaofei obviously lacks firepower, and can always let the so-called demeanor and nostalgia sneak to the front of the position.
Not only this time, from the very beginning, it was like this, first scolding the sister-in-law, and then scolding the bald head, and then even the mother-in-law who is an elder brought it, but to the big S is a carry, was jokingly called by netizens "his words still love her".
It is clear that Big S is the big boss behind the scenes, and the one who attacked him the most! The contradiction between him and Big S is the fuse and core contradiction of this war! Why does he speak irritably every day, but he always misses the bullseye?
In contrast, his mother Zhang Lan's combat effectiveness is obviously too strong, so that when he frequently dragged his feet, he was once awarded the title of "bun egg" in public by Zhan Lan, who took the lead in the live broadcast room.
Is it affectionate or prodded?
In my opinion, it's not, say affectionate, he still cheats, say it's instigated, he scolds others quite ruthlessly.
He just "treats differently". He couldn't get that "ruthless hand", because deep in his heart, this woman and her were one, as if they were organs. Cutting and attacking, for him, meant tearing the belt and flesh, it was painful and difficult, so he refused, he avoided.
It is true that their conjugal relationship has ended, but the psychological significance of Big S to him continues. He still can't let go of this attachment, just like a baby can't do without the mother's swaddling, which is a typical performance of giant babies, unable to return individuals to their own independent attributes in the relationship, but always treat themselves as children or each other as children.
The reason should be related to Zhang Lan's neglect of companionship in his childhood. Years later, when I remembered that I was good to this son, I pushed too hard. Too strong a desire to control and his own career success to a certain extent deprive his son of the space for self-growth and block his channel to gain self-confidence.
This is also why Wang Xiaofei always looks at his daughter-in-law or lover and dislikes his mother: his mother means cage and oppression for him, and his object is the boat that escapes from the cage, and his small home is a new shore away from the cage. His soft-heartedness for his ex-wife is not out of kindness, but inadvertently reveals the potential desire to break through the shackles and make himself grow.
But at the same time, the reality is cruel, and escaping may simply mean that old problems are repeating themselves in a new form, and the way he gets along with his lover is essentially a repetition of the way he gets along with his mother - he can always be eaten to death by the other party, just like a son can't do without his mother.
When he deals with the media and netizens, he is also like a very naïve child. "Stop paying attention to our family," I saw a child crying while stamping his foot, begging everyone to stop slandering his mother.
It's very pitiful and powerless, obviously the more you do this, the easier it is to attract the attention of others!
Xiao Wang, the operation law of the adult world is not like this, if you want to achieve the goal, you must seek a path that conforms to the law, specifically, if you want not to be noticed, then it is best to be low-key, silent, quick and quick-fixed, rather than repeatedly arguing, with constant jumping up and down to compose a new sequel and god-like turn for this story.
There are always people who ask: When will their melons end?
I feel that if Wang Xiaofei's inner little Xiaofei does not grow up, he is afraid that his grudge with Da S will be tossed to the end of the world.
Writing here, I also want to ask everyone, are you tired of eating this melon? How do you want their story to end? Will Big S eventually become a family member with Gu Junye, or will he dial Wang Xiaofei's heartstrings again with a phone call a few years later?
Let's talk about it in the comment area~~