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In order to survive, people need to constantly engage in various activities. However, when survival is assured, people seem to pursue higher needs, such as attention, identity, and self-actualization.
In this case, some people may gain a sense of identity by engaging in seemingly absurd behaviors to attract everyone's attention. The divorce dispute between Wang Xiaofei and Da S is a good example.
Ma Xiaomei, as Wang Xiaofei's new wife, behaved very domineering in this divorce dispute and spared no effort to support her husband. She organized Wang Xiaofei to dine at the most famous barbecue restaurant in Taipei, and personally photographed the beautiful life, conveying a signal of happiness and love to the outside world. The intrinsic motivation of this behavior is worth pondering.
From a psychological point of view, Ma Xiaomei may have done this out of a need to gain a sense of identity. As Wang Xiaofei's new love, she may feel doubts and criticism from public opinion.
Therefore, she needs to prove that she has made the right choice and win the approval of the public by showing a happy and happy life. At the same time, she may also be sending a provocative signal to his ex-wife Da S, swearing sovereignty and letting the other party retreat.
On the other hand, Ma Xiaomei's approach may also stem from her sincere love for Wang Xiaofei. In the face of the bombardment of Da S's family, she chose to use a warm lifestyle to resolve the conflict, instead of colluding with the same stream and setting herself on fire.
This way of dealing with it not only shows her wisdom, but also shows how much she values the relationship. She hopes that through practical actions, Wang Xiaofei will feel the warmth of home, so as to strengthen their determination to be together.
In stark contrast to Ma Xiaomei's calm attitude, is the anxiety and vanity of Da S's family. The specific performance is that they spared no expense to organize Gu Junye's concert and spared no effort to build momentum for him.
On the surface, this practice is undoubtedly to support the husband's career, but if we dig deeper, we will find that there is a psychological element of anxiety and vanity lurking in it.
The first is anxiety. Big S's family may be worried that if Gu Junye's concert fails, then they will be at a disadvantage in this divorce lawsuit, and they will be regarded by public opinion as the party who abandons the old and nostalgia for the new. Therefore, they had to do everything in their power to ensure the success of the concert in order to maintain their right to speak in this lawsuit.
The second is vanity. For the big S family, Gu Junye's concert is not only a commercial event, but also an opportunity to prove his worth to the outside world.
In this way, they hope to show their abilities, status and influence to the world, so as to win the respect and recognition of the public. Ironically, though, this vanity was ultimately in vain, as the actual attendance of the concert was far less than expected.
In the face of the various behaviors of both parties in this divorce lawsuit, netizens also expressed their opinions. In general, most netizens have a more rational and objective attitude, and do not blindly stand in line or accuse right and wrong.
Some netizens believe that although Ma Xiaomei and Wang Xiaofei's behavior will cause some criticism, in essence, they are just pursuing their own happy life, and they are not hurting nature. In contrast, the practices of Da S's family are more contrived and hypocritical, giving people a sense of "escapism".
Some netizens also pointed out that although the behavior of Da S's family may be out of anxiety and vanity, we should not judge too much.
After all, everyone has their own unique way of coping with a major event. It is important that both sides adopt a rational and inclusive attitude to properly resolve their differences and avoid harming the innocent.
Overall, the discussion among netizens reflects the public's concern and rational thinking on this matter. Instead of blindly taking sides, they tried to interpret the essence of the incident from multiple angles and put forward pertinent insights. This rational and inclusive attitude is exactly what our society needs.
This divorce lawsuit reflects some issues in contemporary society that are worth pondering. For example, should we also pay attention to spiritual satisfaction while pursuing material life?
In addition, should we also respect everyone's right to pursue happiness, as long as it does not harm others?
I believe that only when we learn to maintain the ability to think independently and make rational judgments in the process of modernization can we truly achieve spiritual and material unity and find inner peace and happiness.
At the same time, we should also respect each other, tolerate others, and strive to resolve differences, rather than confrontation and harm. Only in this way can our society truly move towards civility, rationality and inclusiveness.
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet.
Some netizens believe that although Ma Xiaomei and Wang Xiaofei's behavior will cause some criticism, in essence, they are just pursuing their own happy life, and there is no harm to nature. In contrast, the practices of Da S's family are more contrived and hypocritical, giving people a sense of "escapism".
Some netizens also pointed out that although the behavior of Da S's family may be out of anxiety and vanity, we should not judge too much.
After all, everyone has their own unique way of coping with a major event. It is important that both sides adopt a rational and inclusive attitude to properly resolve their differences and avoid harming the innocent.
Some netizens believe that this divorce lawsuit reflects some issues in contemporary society that are worth pondering. For example, should we also pay attention to spiritual satisfaction while pursuing material life?
In addition, should we also respect everyone's right to pursue happiness, as long as it does not harm others?
The discussion among netizens reflects the public's concern and rational thinking on this matter. Instead of blindly taking sides, they tried to interpret the essence of the incident from multiple angles and put forward pertinent insights. This rational and inclusive attitude is exactly what our society needs.
We can find that this divorce lawsuit reflects some issues in contemporary society that are worthy of our deep thought. While pursuing a material life, should we also value spiritual satisfaction?
Should we maintain a rational and tolerant attitude in the face of major events, instead of blindly attacking and blaming, and should we also respect everyone's right to pursue happiness, as long as it does not harm others?
I believe that only when we learn to maintain the ability to think independently and make rational judgments in the process of modernization can we truly achieve spiritual and material unity and find inner peace and happiness.
At the same time, we should also respect each other, tolerate others, and strive to resolve differences, rather than confrontation and harm. Only in this way can our society truly move towards civility, rationality and inclusiveness.
So, what do you think each of us can do on this issue? Let's explore and share insights together.