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In 1999, on Valentine's Day morning, 28-year-old Xie Jin jumped from his home on the 23rd floor.
After falling from the building, she was dying, leaving only one sentence of "Mom", and the rest of the words were out of breath before she could say them.
Some people say that her death has a lot to do with the sensational "slap incident" that year, others say that she has long suffered from depression, and some public opinion even pointed the finger at her mother......
There are many theories about her death, but which one is true is still a mystery.
Why did she end her life at a young age when she became famous overnight at the age of 23?
What did she go through before she fell?
Juvenile Adult Name
"The blue-faced Dou Erdun steals the royal horse, and the red-faced Guan Gong fights Changsha"
On the stage of the Spring Festival Gala in 1994, a song "Rap Face" made Xie Jin an instant hit, and the singing spread all over the country, and anyone could hum two sentences.
Since then, she has become a household name, and she is not inferior to singing on the same stage with the music giants Mao Amin and Na Ying.
It was also in that year that the famous record label Warner created her first album tailored to her name.
For this album called "Xie Jin", Warner Records spent more than 800,000 yuan, which shows the importance attached to Xie Jin at that time.
At that time, Xie Jin could be called the most talented and potential singer in the music world, and it is not an exaggeration to say that she was the "most".
That year was the peak of Xie Jin's singing career, and it is worth mentioning that Xie Jin was only 23 years old at that time.
Although Xie Jin was still very young when she became popular, this is not the first time she has made a name for herself in singing, and she has shown her extraordinary talent before that.
Since childhood, Xie Jin has been interested in singing, and she was born in a family of arts and grew up in an environment full of music from an early age.
Xie Jin's mother is a musician, perhaps inheriting his mother's excellent genes in music, and Xie Jin has also shown a strong interest in this area.
After seeing her daughter's interest, the mother who loves art was very excited, and she also put all her heart into the cultivation of her daughter.
Since then, Xie Jin can be seen in cello, violin, and even dance classes, and she wants her daughter to try and learn anything she can think of.
During the holidays, my mother would take Xie Jin to their local singing competition.
At that time, there was a Tianjin singer who won the first place in the national singing competition, so for a few years, there were many singing competitions in Tianjin.
Once, my mother suddenly became interested: since everyone can participate, and my daughter loves to sing so much, why not let my daughter give it a try?
So, in a "Hope Cup" singing competition held by Tianjin TV Station, Xie Jin's mother also signed up for her.
originally held the mentality of focusing on participation and let her daughter have more experience, but at first neither of them had much expectation for the result.
But what was unexpected was that as the youngest of all the contestants, 15-year-old Xie Jin won the second place in the popular group this time.
It was also this bold attempt that Xie Jin's talent was affirmed, and Xie Jin himself became more confident.
After that, Xie Jin's mother seized this opportunity and began to make all kinds of efforts for her daughter in music, performing and recording records...... Xie Jin's extracurricular life is filled with music.
In order to make Xie Jin have a better development, when Xie Jin was eighteen years old, her mother even took her to Beijing to look for more opportunities.
Suffocating maternal love
"Originally, Xie Jin was lively and cute, but then he became taciturn. ”
Maybe it was after coming to Beijing, or maybe it was when her mother started to be her agent, no one can say the specific time, but Xie Jin's personality has indeed changed a lot.
At the age of eighteen, under the leadership of her mother, she came to Beijing and began to work hard for her singing career.
When she came to a bigger city, she was young and interested in many things around her.
However, her mother is very strict with her, and she always puts Xie Jin's career first when she wants her daughter to be famous.
Xie Jin's performances were all arranged by her mother, even if some performances were not what Xie Jin really wanted to go, but she couldn't bear to live up to her mother's hard work, and still completed one performance after another.
To what extent was her mother strict with Xie Jin? It is said that Xie Jin once went out on the street and had to obtain her mother's consent first.
Mom gave Xie Jin too much love, which overwhelmed Xie Jin.
And what can Xie Jin do? She can only follow the path that her mother has carefully prepared for her, and go down one mind.
Under that "suffocating" maternal love, Xie Jin also developed a great dependence on his mother, and even in a strange environment, she didn't dare to talk to others when her mother was away, and she could also say that she had almost no friends.
But I have to say that Xie Jin's talent and his mother's various fundraising, Xie Jin still ushered in a big stage to show his talents.
In 1990, at the large-scale gala "90 Asian Games", Xie Jin sang a song "The Light of the Asian Games", and his unique voice attracted the attention of many people in the industry.
At this party, Xie Jin became a female singer who could stand side by side with Mao Amin, Na Ying, and Hang Tianqi, and her singing career soared rapidly.
Two years later, she was invited to participate in the first large-scale concert of "Chinese Style" organized by Gu Jianfen.
In that concert, the singers invited were all famous at that time: Cai Guoqing, Yang Yuying, Sun Nan, Mao Amin......
This performance was a great opportunity in her life, because of her outstanding performance in this concert, she was signed by Hong Kong Arts Eng.
Art Energy was a company invested by Andy Lau and Alan Tam at that time, and if it could be signed by such a large company, Xie Jin must have a bright future in the future.
However, due to Xie Jin's character, the peak of her career was like a "flash in the pan" and soon lost her shine.
A slap that ruins the future
Xie Jin, who became famous overnight after participating in the Spring Festival Gala, has become a "fragrant bait" among Chinese female singers, and her singing career is thriving.
However, in a later event, a slap from Xie Jin brought her development to an abrupt halt.
At the invitation of a school, Xie Jin went to Nanjing to attend a campus concert.
In order to let the younger students see the best state, Xie Jin made great efforts for this performance.
But in the rehearsals, Xie Jin's meticulous preparation was messed up by the sound effects.
I thought it was a device failure, and there would be an accident, but after good communication with the sound engineer, it may be no problem.
However, until the actual performance, the "funny" sound never returned to normal.
After the performance, Xie Jin couldn't hold back the anger in his heart, and immediately went to the staff to reason, but he never got a reasonable explanation.
Xie Jin exploded, she lost control of her emotions and slapped the staff who was accompanying her in the face.
It was this slap that completely ruined her brilliant future.
As everyone knows, the staff who were slapped by her still have some status in Warner.
Since then, Xie Jin has been "hidden", Warner terminated the contract with her, and she rarely appeared in the public eye.
She once became famous overnight, but it seems that she disappeared overnight, she is no longer looking for her in performances, and she has no part in releasing records.
Later, except for an appearance at the Spring Festival Gala that year, she seemed to have disappeared from then on.
The news of her came again four years later: "Xie Jin fell from the building, the reason is a mystery".
This time, she really "disappeared".
According to Xie Jin's mother, Xie Jin has been depressed for a long time, and every time she cares about her daughter, she always says, "Mom, I'm fine."
Even before that, Xie Jin, who was at the peak of his depression, climbed up to the window of the house, but was seen and stopped by his mother, and his father wrapped the window around wire.
But Xie Jin didn't survive in the end, and a bright flower in the music world withered.
Postscript:
Perhaps it was because he had not experienced any setbacks since he was a child that Xie Jin collapsed after experiencing big ups and downs.
In the entertainment industry, celebrities are under much greater pressure from public opinion than ordinary people, and if they are a little psychologically fragile, they suffer from depression, and there are many people who choose to end their lives in the end.
Some time ago, the death of the famous singer Coco Li was also due to depression, but I didn't expect that she had always been lively and cheerful in the eyes of people and did not escape this disease.
In today's fast-paced life, many ordinary people are also facing great pressure, and we must also learn to be the masters of emotions, after all, people live a lifetime, and happiness is the most important.
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Sources of information:
1. Baidu Encyclopedia profile: Xie Jin
2. China.com: "Zeng Deng Spring Festival Gala is as famous as Na Ying, but he was banned and jumped off the building at the age of 28 because of his personality"
3. Guangzhou Daily: Suicide, homicide? Female singer Xie Jin fell to her death
4. Financial headlines: A song shocked the "Spring Festival Gala", but because of a slap in the face, he committed suicide at the age of 27, the reason is a mystery?