In marriage, a woman "doing" is just as hurtful as a man's "impatience". Most women make the mistake of treating marriage as love. Regarding running a marriage, today we will talk about women. In marriage, the 3 behaviors that can drive the husband crazy, women are best not to do!
1, can't move to lose your temper
To be honest, being able to marry Mr. Cheng is indeed my blessing. Many times, I have a hard time accepting my temper. Only he, even if he was half dead from me, still thought of me. Worried that I was not used to eating at my in-laws' house, I kept reminding my in-laws that I like to eat greens, or greens with leaves. When my in-laws asked if they wanted to bring bacon home, they would specifically tell my mother-in-law that my mother loved to eat bacon and that she must bring more.
Of course, pampering is pampering. It is true that sir tolerated me, but my fault was beyond doubt. But not every woman is as lucky as I am to be able to find a good husband. Many women have a bad temper after marriage, like a bomb buried around them, which will explode at every turn. In particular, a little unpleasantness will make you unhappy, and then you will not speak with a black face. He will also find an excuse to sprinkle his anger on the gentleman and hurt the city fish. In the beginning, men may still coax and endure. But men can also be tired and will have their own temper. Over time, marriages can also be affected.
2. Intensify the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
As the saying goes, "Love the house and the U", since you love him, you must accept everything from him. The unsound relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seems to be a unilateral contradiction between a woman and her in-laws, but it is also a potential contradiction between husband and wife. If he does not know how to respect his parents, it is also difficult for men to be caught in the middle. Always force him to choose between you and your parents, not crazy to blame.
3. Regardless of home.
With the change of social perception, women are no longer housewives who stay at home all day and are busy with housework.
But as a woman, you should still put your family first. Even if you are a strong woman, back home, you are also the wife of your husband, the mother of the child, you can't be like a queen, dictate, everything is left to the husband to do.
Housework is shared, children are taken care of together, and payment is given together, so that the marriage will last long and healthy.
Conclusion: Marriage is a matter for two people, and it needs to be jointly undertaken and managed by two people. Therefore, communication is essential. Even if your husband really loves you, you must pay more attention. Don't be spoiled and always do something to hurt him. Marriage is not easy, it is difficult to break the mirror, don't wait for the marriage to have a rift and then regret it, otherwise it will be too late to regret it!