There will be someone who will make you feel that marriage is not so terrible

The daughter-in-law took maternity leave and returned to work today.

At the beginning of her pregnancy, many people said that pregnant and childbirth was to go to the ghost door, the scars on the body were better, but there was nothing wrong, afraid of postpartum depression, causing psychological trauma, and thus losing confidence in marriage.

So from the beginning of her pregnancy, I tried not to provoke her to be angry, and after the birth of the child, I also did everything to accommodate. Now that maternity leave is over, having a baby doesn't seem as scary as people say.

Because I have seen more unfortunate marriages of my relatives, I have always been afraid of marriage, I feel that I am not running a good marriage, and I have no intention of getting married at the age of nearly 30.

I never had children when I got married, and I always felt that I couldn't be a good father.

I have long told my daughter-in-law that I am a stinky person, and I can't stand it myself. We'll live first, and if you repent and want a divorce, and there are no children tied up to you, the house will be left to you.

She thought I was joking, but I was serious, and several times she wanted to tear up the agreement to have a child, and I still insisted on contraception until the appointment expired.

The cost of giving birth to a child who chooses to go to the hospital in the provincial city is several times higher, and the proportion that can be reimbursed is not as high as in the county hospital.

But in order to live comfortably and more securely, I still went to the provincial city hospital.

After the birth of the child, he also invited a sister-in-law. After my father learned of this, he scolded me and thought that I was a pendulum score, and it was completely unnecessary to spend more than 10,000 yuan, and I would be poked in the spine by the villagers.

But I know very well that tim ding increases his mouth, and it is the man's family that is happy, and it is the mother who suffers. In addition, the daughter-in-law is anemic during pregnancy, and the lateral incision is also made during childbirth, which requires professional people to carry out physical conditioning.

When it comes to economic strength, I'm not rich either. But at least, not wanting us to quarrel in the future, she recalled the days I had lived with, with only a handful of bitter tears.

After my daughter-in-law graduated from college, she was frustrated in her examination work several times, and she also talked to me: "If I can't find a job all the time, will you dislike me?" ”

My answer at the time was: "I try harder, you lower your living standards a little, and it will be no problem to raise you." But I hope that you work, regardless of the salary, you must have your own circle of life, in case your career is outstanding, you can kick me. ”

During the preparation period, when she was lying on the couch chasing the drama, I often called her up to do the line test. As a teacher, I always have many ways to deal with students who don't like to learn.

After the birth of the child, I still did not interfere in her circle, girlfriends gathered, colleagues invited, never doubted who she was fooling around with. The child is placed at home, hungry to make some milk powder, sleepy and sleepy.

After all, she pays more when it comes to taking children. The child mainly breastfeeds, she gets up in the middle of the night to feed, and if I am not woken up, she does not kick me to vent her anger.

Once my ideal type was the kind of literary and artistic young woman who could add incense to her red sleeves and raise her eyebrows, gamble books to consume tea, and understand each other with one look.

Later, it was found that it was rare for two people to be able to stay together for a long time, endure and be kind for a long time.

In the movie "The Strange Journey of Young Spyway", T.S., a 10-year-old boy, has been unable to understand how his parents fell in love.

My father was a pure cowboy, but unfortunately he was born a hundred years late, and he had already passed the age of cowboy majesty. I like to drink whiskey every 45 seconds in the cowboy lounge of my own design, leaning against the sofa, and muttering something that only I understand.

My mother was a Ph.D. who studied beetles. Her world consisted only of specimens of insects whose names no one else could name, and she was mesmerized and immersed in them.

The film uses a set of contrasting shots: "They are different like day and night".

It wasn't until one day, when T.S saw a small movement of his parents in the hallway, that he realized that they had always been closely linked—"their palms brushed past each other, as if they had secretly exchanged a few seeds."

I am on the same screen as my daughter-in-law, often I am playing a game, she is watching Korean dramas, occasionally looking at each other, saying hello, and then adding a "stupid" after getting a response.

Real life has so many poetic dwellings, returning home with a tired body, and one shoulder to lean on, it is enough.

In today's high divorce rate, fast food love comes and goes quickly, everyone is envious, and in the era of material scarcity, people can work together to live a lifetime.

Men and women in love are always like glue, and once married, everyday words become very simple. Some even reached the point where they had almost nothing to say, as if the love words had been said when they were in love.

Once suffering from postmarital silence, he will appear to be embarrassed about the expression of emotions, often feel that chatting with his lover is a waste of time, like to do things alone, and are unwilling to consult with his lover. The lover did something that he thought was proud of, not only did he not think so, but even hit a few words.

When the lover is angry, he often ignores it, and the lover is always absent-minded when talking about ideas. Never admit mistakes to the lover, rarely think about what the lover needs.

My daughter-in-law gave me two birthday gifts, one was a razor, which I could use almost every day, and the other was to turn the chair so that I could relax my shoulders and neck when writing.

Suffice it to say that she really cares.

I have seen a saying before that the lover is not a favorite, nor a companion who seeks pleasure, but a boat with a normal tone and has never sailed far on the river.

Many times, we think too grandly about marriage, and we think that marriage is a romantic union after the sea oath and mountain alliance, and it is the same boat under the wind and rain of three meals a day.

But I forgot that there was also a chaotic chai rice oil and salt in the marriage, and the quarrels and disagreements of the heart were exhausted.

Women are rarely dead to marriage at a certain moment, and the moment you see it is just a countless death.

Women are cute because of sensuality, but also hurt by sensuality, one day, in marriage, high walls are built, no expectations, no hysteria, marriage is cold as an ice cellar, marriage is dead, people are alive.

For those who are unwilling to give, marriage is the graveyard of love, and for those who know how to cherish, marriage is a paradise of love.

The couple should live like a pair of chopsticks, one is inseparable from anyone, and the other is sour, sweet and bitter and spicy to taste together.

There will be someone who will make you feel that marriage is not so terrible. There will be someone who will make you forgive all the hardships of life for you before.

If you haven't encountered it yet, remember to shine, not be illuminated.