No matter how well the children are mixed and how well they are well connected, we must make silence golden, so as not to create a burden on the children's innocence. Some outsiders can use your children as they please, and if your children do not help, it will be as ugly as it is to hear, and there are some things that are not humane to outsiders.
First, the bad words of children, especially the daughter-in-law or son-in-law.
Whether you say bad things about your children, or bad things about your daughter-in-law or son-in-law, you are one of the most ugly families. Outsiders are too late to stir up dissension, so if you expose your own ugliness, outsiders will not be able to ask for it, outsiders will add oil and vinegar from time to time, and even fanned the flames, superficially supporting you, standing in the same position as you to denounce your children, daughters-in-law or son-in-law, it can be described as indignant, but when you are behind your back, outsiders often see hilarity and do not think it is too big, and it is very likely to provoke trouble in front of your children, daughters-in-law or son-in-law. As a result, it will lead to irreconcilable contradictions in the relationship between children, daughters-in-law or son-in-law.
Second, in the home, all matters involving privacy must be kept tight-lipped.
It is best not to leak the privacy of the family to outsiders, otherwise outsiders will laugh at you, and the heavy will use your leaked privacy to cause direct trauma to your family, or indirect hidden dangers. Privacy is a family secret, if outsiders learn the secret, the family is either partially transparent, or the whole becomes transparent, when the outsiders are in the dark, you and your family are in the light, how straightforward you want to say it at the beginning, how much the price paid when the incident occurs.
Third, the property of one's own family, and the way of making money for each family member.
It is an ancient adage that wealth is not exposed, and since it has been passed down for thousands of years, it is reasonable to exist. Therefore, their own savings should be made to keep their wealth out of thin air, so as not to be remembered by outsiders who are plotting against them, so as not to have a situation of great tricks, in short, their own property is not used to show off, but the economic foundation under the superstructure, in addition to satisfying a moment of vanity and causing outsiders to be jealous for a long time, it is almost nothing, but it is not worth the loss. If you tell outsiders the way to make money in the family, when outsiders earn money, they will neither miss your kindness, but also complain about why you did not say it earlier; when outsiders lose money, they will not reflect on operational mistakes, and will complain about you, although you have no responsibility, but the relationship will plummet, and more mouths and tongues are purely laborious and unflattering.
Conclusion: There are many kinds of ugly things in the family, not many outsiders really want you to live well, so most outsiders will base their happiness on your pain at the same time as hearsay, going out means the group, since it is a group, you need to keep your mouth shut.
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