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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
As the saying goes, "Little don't win over new marriage." ”
Indeed, couples living together for a long time will inevitably feel tired, because they are accustomed to the existence of each other, and it is easy to lose the feeling of the original heartbeat.
At this time, if the husband and wife are separated, they will have certain expectations because of the distance, and find the original feeling of excitement.
In fact, couples after separation often have feelings of longing, especially missing the other half, and the relationship will naturally be more long-lasting.
Of course, couples cannot be separated for a long time, otherwise they will be estranged with a long separation.
The so-called "small parting" is to separate for a short time, so that it will not affect the relationship between husband and wife, and the feelings can be stable.
Therefore, whether the feelings of husband and wife are harmonious, whether there is a feeling of love between each other, the first thing done after a long time of reunion, it exposes the true state of feelings.
Generally speaking, couples who love each other will most likely have three manifestations after a long absence and reunion.
First, hug for a long time when you meet, and attach yourself to each other
After the husband and wife are reunited after a long absence, if two people can hug each other for a long time and attach themselves to each other, it means that the husband and wife still love each other deeply.
On the other hand, if the couple has no feelings and does not even want to say a word, it means that the relationship has been estranged.
At this time, the husband and wife should improve the relationship between the husband and wife in time, heat up the feelings as soon as possible, and avoid affecting the marriage.
In life, some couples, no matter how long they have been apart, will show enthusiasm after meeting and hug together for a long time, such a couple is definitely true love.
They will not dilute their feelings with the change of time, but will have greater expectations because of distance, and their affection for each other will be deeper.
However, there are still some couples who are different, after they are separated, they will not miss each other at all, and they do not have any expectations for meeting, which needs to be paid attention to.
Couples who truly love each other will not be indifferent to the relationship because of distance, but will be more eager to meet, accompany and attach to each other.
Ms. He and her husband have been married for twelve years, and her husband has been working outside the home for many years, and she takes care of the family at home.
However, ms. He and her husband have a very good relationship and do not snubb each other because of the distance.
Whenever her husband came home, Ms. He was very happy, and the first thing her husband did was to come over and hug her tightly and love her.
Therefore, the relationship between the two people is very harmonious, and the family lives very happily. Although the days are very plain, the husband and wife are harmonious in their feelings and the warmth of the family is enough for them to go on firmly.
In fact, after a long absence and reunion, the first thing a couple who truly love each other does is often to determine the direction of the relationship between husband and wife.
If the husband and wife embrace each other warmly and care about each other, it means that they still have love for each other and the relationship is very harmonious. On the contrary, the relationship between husband and wife is very indifferent and needs to be improved in time.
Second, care for each other, both sides are warm and thoughtful
Couples who truly love each other, if they are reunited after a long absence, they will definitely care about each other and behave warmly and thoughtfully.
When the husband and wife meet, both parties will be very happy, but will use great enthusiasm to rely on each other.
Such couples, when they meet, have a lot to say, can actively communicate, and rarely have a sense of strangeness.
On the contrary, some couples do not love enough, or their feelings are indifferent in distance, and they will be very distant after meeting, and they will not even have the desire to communicate.
If this is the case, couples need to improve their relationship in time, communicate and communicate in a timely manner, and use this way to enhance their feelings.
In fact, there are many couples in life who are in a state of separation, and they need to communicate frequently, and only by caring for each other and actively communicating will they not let the relationship be estranged.
Ms. Ning and her husband have been married for fifteen years, and her husband is doing business outside and comes home very few times.
For this reason, Ms. Ning was very aggrieved, felt that her husband did not care enough about her, and at the beginning she also quarreled with her husband, and even threatened to completely separate from him.
However, later Ms. Ning also wanted to open, and gradually understood her husband's difficulty, so she did not complain about her husband anymore.
She knows that it is not easy for her husband to make money, and she also takes the initiative to bear the burden of the family, and the big and small things in the family are handled by her alone, and she tries not to let her husband worry about it.
It is precisely because both husband and wife understand and trust that the feelings are not affected by distance, but are becoming more and more harmonious.
Every time her husband comes home, Ms. Ning will make a large table of dishes, all of which her husband loves to eat, especially hurting her husband.
Her husband will also love Ms. Ning more, bringing her many gifts every time, and paying special attention to her. Although the husband and wife have been separated for many years, the relationship between the husband and wife is very harmonious and the relationship is very stable.
Therefore, after a long time of separation and reunion, if the husband and wife are warm and thoughtful, care about each other, fully understand and trust each other, the relationship will be stable and long-lasting.
Third, actively accompany to meet each other's emotional needs
Someone said, "Companionship is the longest confession of affection." ”
It is true that any couple needs companionship, because it is in companionship that emotional needs can be met.
After the husband and wife are reunited after a long absence, if they can actively accompany each other and meet each other's emotional needs, the feelings will naturally be harmonious.
For example, men may wish to say some love words to women, hug women, kiss women, etc., which are all good ways to maintain feelings.
Of course, women should also understand men, give men confidence and support, so that they can go out and work with confidence.
Husbands and wives understand each other and communicate with each other, and the relationship will become more and more stable.
On the contrary, if the husband and wife are reunited after a long absence, they simply ignore each other's existence, have no care, no companionship, and cannot meet each other's emotional needs, then the relationship will inevitably be estranged and eventually become strangers.
Therefore, the first thing after a long absence and reunion between husband and wife often determines the true state of the husband and wife.
Couples who truly love each other will definitely accompany each other and let both parties feel the feeling of love.
And those couples who have no feelings are likely to be indifferent to each other, have no care, and are unwilling to accompany, and eventually cause the breakdown of the relationship.
Whether the relationship between husband and wife is good or not, it can be seen from the separation, if the feelings change with distance and time, it means that the love is not firm enough.
At this time, it is necessary for couples to communicate in time, care more about each other, and accompany each other more, so as to make the relationship more stable.
If both parties do not take the initiative to maintain, it is likely to make the feelings gradually alienated, and eventually cause the relationship to be irreparable.
I hope that couples in life can maintain their feelings with their hearts, cherish this beautiful fate, and live happily.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Munir Nasov said: "There is nothing more precious in the life of a couple than sincerity, trust and thoughtfulness. ”
Any couple must have this awareness, be sincere, trusting and considerate in the marriage, so as to maintain a harmonious husband and wife relationship.
Although the pressure of reality makes many couples separate, couples who truly love each other will not affect their feelings because of these factors.
Therefore, after the couple reunites for a long time, the first thing they do often exposes the true state of the relationship.
If two people hug each other for a long time when they meet, attach themselves to each other; care about each other, both sides are warm and thoughtful; actively accompany each other to meet each other's emotional needs, indicating that the husband and wife have deep feelings.
On the contrary, after meeting each other, there is no enthusiasm, no words to say, no companionship, cold relationship, and most of the feelings are indifferent.
A good couple, no matter what they have to face in the future, will actively maintain their feelings and manage their marriage with their hearts, so that they will surely become happier.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.