The elderly or relatives feed children indiscriminately, causing children to have accidents or even die, which is not a new thing, and we have seen this kind of news on the Internet more than once.
If it were you, if someone fed your young child wine or walnuts, something that might get stuck and endanger the child's life and health, would you resolutely stop it or acquiesce to his behavior for the sake of each other's affection?
"Surely it's resolutely stopped? mutual affection? What is so important about the girl I gave birth to in October? For the so-called love points, watching people hurt my daughter, then do I still deserve to be a mother? ”
"Whoever dares to feed my son something will stop appearing in front of me, and if my man dares to talk nonsense with me, he can also roll, and no one can put my son in danger." 」
"The person who dares to do this, he has no so-called affection in his eyes, if he really treats your children as juniors, he will not do this kind of thing." Since he is ruthless, what do you tell him? Turn your face and you're done. ”
Mader said: You can not stab people, but there must be thorns on the body.
If the hedgehog did not have thorns, it would have become the meal of other animals. If you don't have thorns on your body, you have long ago become the object of bullying and bullying by people who are afraid of soft and hard.
No matter what the person who feeds your child thinks, whether it is a joke or a joke, whether it is fun or not, his behavior has put your child in danger, not afraid of ten thousand, just in case, that is your child, as a parent, if for the so-called affection even his own children are not protected, do you deserve the two titles of father and mother?
Under normal circumstances, when encountering this kind of thing, the mother will be mad, the child is their October pregnancy hard birth, but any qualified mother will not let people hurt their children so much. However, when he meets some men with big hearts, he may not think much of it, but feel that his wife has acted too aggressively, hurting his relationship with the person who almost did not harm his children.
For example, Mr. Jiang has such an idea. A few days ago, he had a quarrel with his wife, the couple had a cold war, and people around him knew about it and asked him what was going on.
After listening to Mr. Jiang's accusations against his wife, the onlookers who advised the couple to discuss something and make concessions to each other changed their attitude and almost did not scold Mr. Jiang to death.
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In Mr. Jiang's view, the reason why husband and wife quarrel is purely because the wife is vengeful, not generous enough, and does not respect the elders, and he is reasonable.
The elder in Mr. Jiang's mouth refers to his great uncle, who is already his father's big brother.
"My grandparents have two sons and a daughter, my aunt has passed away, and my father cares a lot about my uncle as a relative. My uncle only has one daughter, who is already married, and my uncle feels lonely, moves back to his hometown, lives in other communities, and before that, he came to my house every three to five minutes and nagged with my father. ”
The two brothers nagged together and made a companion, which would have been a good thing, but since two years ago, Mr. Jiang's wife had fallen out with uncle Jiang, so she clearly told her in-laws and Mr. Jiang that from now on, Mr. Jiang's uncle was not allowed to come to the door, and if there was Mr. Jiang's uncle in this family, there would be no her.
At first, Mr. Jiang's parents did not treat things properly, only when the daughter-in-law was talking angrily, they still invited Mr. Jiang's uncle to come to the house for dinner. However, that time, when his wife came home from work and saw Mr. Jiang's uncle at home, not only did she not listen to persuasion and give everyone a face, but instead spilled at home, smashed a lot of things, held the child and turned her head to leave, asking for a divorce from Mr. Jiang, but the people in the family were frightened.
Since then, Mr. Jiang's uncle has never come to Mr. Jiang's house again, only Mr. Jiang's parents have visited Uncle Jiang's place, and his wife has always refused to see Uncle Jiang again.
In three days, Mr. Jiang's uncle will usher in the sixtieth birthday, Mr. Jiang took this opportunity, hoping to resolve the contradictions between the two sides, not to embarrass his parents, asked his wife to go to the birthday together, was rejected by his wife, so the husband and wife quarreled.
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"What the hell happened two years ago? What did your uncle do to make your wife hate him so much? In my impression, your wife is a very good child, very polite, when she sees me, she calls out to my aunt, sees that my mother is inconvenient to go downstairs, and supports my mother, it is impossible not to respect the elders. ”
"She's just too careful, too vengeful." Uncle just made a joke and fed my 2 year old daughter a drink and she hated it for two years. ”
It turned out that on the third day of the Chinese New Year two years ago, everyone gathered to eat, and the atmosphere was originally very harmonious, but Mr. Jiang's uncle may have drunk too much, took the wine glass and turned his eyes to the two-year-old niece who was only two years old in the arms of Mr. Jiang's mother, and sent the wine glass to the child's lips to feed the child to drink.
His purpose was simple, he wanted to make the child cry, and then laugh himself.
At that time, Mr. Jiang's wife was killing fish in the back and did not know what was happening in front. Some relatives felt inappropriate, pulled the uncle not to let it, but the uncle drank too much, despite everyone's obstruction, and also took the child from Mr. Jiang's mother's arms, took the wine glass into the baby's mouth, and finally, as wished, the baby cried hot, and also brought Mr. Jiang's wife.
Seeing that his daughter was fed wine and crying, Mr. Jiang's always docile wife pounced like crazy, slapped uncle fiercely, snatched his daughter, and rushed out with the child in her arms.
"She carried the child to the hospital, my uncle was blinded, and after reacting, he smashed a lot of things, scolded my parents, scolded me for being incompetent, couldn't manage my daughter-in-law, even the elders dared to beat her, but heaven forbid, he had never suffered such a big insult in his life, and he wanted my daughter-in-law to apologize in public, otherwise it wouldn't be over."
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Out of this file, Mr. Jiang's father was also very angry, thinking that his daughter-in-law had gone too far, making himself faceless, and also asked his daughter-in-law to apologize.
The family did not wait for Mr. Jiang's daughter-in-law to apologize, and after Mr. Jiang's daughter was discharged from the hospital, she was directly taken back to her mother-in-law's house by her daughter-in-law.
"Not only did she not apologize, but she also asked my uncle not to show up again in front of her and her daughter, or else she would get a divorce."
Although Mr. Jiang compromised and coaxed his wife and daughter back in order to preserve the marriage, it was obvious that he, like his parents, did not feel that his uncle was at fault, and that it was only his wife who was at fault, otherwise, there would not have been so many things behind him.
After figuring out what had happened, the people around them looked at Mr. Jiang's eyes and became angry, especially several newly promoted mothers.
"I ask you, is your daughter your own?" How did you become a dad? Two-year-old child, you actually watched your uncle feed her wine? What should I do if something goes wrong? Did you pick her up? ”
"You're a man aren't you?" It's a man, how do you protect your wife and daughter? What if something happens to my child? ”
"There is also a face that says your wife is not good, I tell you, who dares to feed my daughter wine, I fight with her."
"Your wife is indeed at fault, she shouldn't just turn her face to your uncle, she shouldn't forgive you at all, what's the use of a husband like you, a father like you?"
To Mr. Jiang's surprise, he accused his wife, not only did not get the support of public opinion, but he was scolded a dog bloody head, had to return home in a gray, and now, he has become a celebrity in the community.
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There is a saying on the Internet: Some people put down their faces in order to have more face; some people lose face in order to die for face.
For the sake of so-called face, Mr. Jiang disregarded the health and safety of his daughter, not only did not stop the uncle from feeding his daughter in time, but felt that the wife who was eager to protect the daughter was at fault, forcing the wife to forgive a person who hurt his daughter, such a man can really consider kicking.
In fact, even if he does not divorce, he cannot be happy. He does not act, for the sake of face, he ignores the feelings of his wife and daughter, and regards his relatives as more important than his wife and daughter, how can such a person run a good marriage?
Face is important or inside is important, unreasonable relatives are important or your own small family is important, if you can't figure it out, you should be unhappy.
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