1
I never thought that Zhou Yang would not even be able to take out fifty thousand yuan.
If it weren't for my mother-in-law's illness and hospitalization, Zhou Yang would have called me for money, and I'm afraid I would have been kept in the dark.
Fifty thousand, not a huge amount of money. As far as I know, my father-in-law has a pension every month, Zhou Yang's monthly salary is more than 10,000, and my mother-in-law also has a job. There is no mortgage, no car loan, no arrears, only daily living expenses, Zhou Yang has been working for almost ten years, and even the deposit of fifty thousand cannot be taken out?
I thought that Zhou Yang had saved the money regularly, and was kind enough to remind him that at this time, don't care about the interest, it is important to save your life, take it out and use it first.
As a result, Zhou Yang's words directly sent me to hell. He said: "If there is any deposit, let alone fifty thousand, it is not ten thousand." Our family has never saved money, and my credit card limit is only 20,000. ”
I was a little surprised: "No deposit?! Don't you earn two or three hundred thousand a year? How can there be no deposit? What have you done with all the money you've earned over the years! ”
Zhou Yang said: "It is true that you can earn two or three hundred thousand, but don't you spend it all!" Oops, I'll explain this to you later. You get me the money first, my mom is still in the hospital waiting for the operation. ”
But I didn't have any savings in my hand, and the situation was so urgent that I had to go somewhere to find money. Even if you borrow it, you can't borrow it for a while and a half.
Zhou Yang reminded me: "Isn't the bride price in your hands?" Take out the bride price first. ”
When I heard about Zhou Yang's bride price, my first reaction was not to be cheated into marriage, right? There are many such bridges in the TV series, we have only been married for less than two months, is It possible that Zhou Yang repented and wanted to cheat the bride price back with this method?
I couldn't help but shiver in my heart, if this is the case, it can't be empty of money. I quickly lied to Zhou Yang that the money was not here, and let him think of other ways.
2
After I confirmed it again and again, I found out that Zhou Yang was not cheating on marriage, he sincerely wanted to marry me. Although it is not a fraudulent marriage, the reality seems to be more serious than fraudulent marriage.
The truth is that the mother-in-law is really sick, and we really don't have any savings.
Mother-in-law often said: Life is short, you should be happy in time. As long as the money is enough to spend, if she gets sick in the future, she will definitely not be cured.
Zhou Yang also feels that this sentence is classic, and now it is really his turn, don't you still need money to save your life?
At that time, I really wanted to give Zhou Yang the classic line of my mother-in-law, and finally I put up with it.
In fact, not long after getting married, I found that my in-laws' consumption concept was problematic. The in-laws spend a lot of money and will never treat themselves badly, the proper Moonlight Clan.
Let's take the incident last month, when I went back to my mother's house that day, just after lunch, my father-in-law called me and asked me when I would come back.
I thought there was something urgent, but I didn't expect my father-in-law to say that he was going out to see a friend, wanted to buy a box of eggs, and had no money. I was embarrassed to find someone else to borrow it, so I hurried back so that I could get money for him.
I was only surprised that my father-in-law had a pension of more than two thousand a month and arrived on time every month. In just a week, his money was spent and he couldn't afford to buy boxes of eggs?
Spending money so unrestrained is not a long-term solution. Besides, the in-laws have no income now, and it is we who are tired after a long time.
Since Zhou Yang got married, her mother-in-law has not gone out to work. The father-in-law directly chose to retire internally, but he did not reach retirement age. The in-laws believe that the son has started a family and their task has been completed.
And Zhou Yang was deeply impressed by the true transmission of his parents, not only agreeing with his in-laws' behavior, but also being better than blue out of blue, and buying things as he pleased.
When I fell in love with Zhou Yang, I only felt that he was generous and didn't think much about it. But to live at home, you can't help but calculate carefully.
I discussed with Zhou Yang and asked them to converge on the point, in case of an unexpected situation, what should they do?
Zhou Yang had an expression that you thought too much, and he couldn't listen to it at all.
At that time, there was really nothing going on at home, and I didn't think too much about it.
I thought they had saved up enough capital to lie flat. Even if my in-laws want money to spend, I just think they have no liquidity, and I never expected that the Zhou family had no savings at all.
After half a day, Zhou Yang called me again, saying that he had not borrowed money, and asked me to return the dowry money and treat his mother first.
3
As for the bride price, when I got married to Zhou Yang, my mother said that she would return it to us along with the dowry. But we won't give it until the first year after we get married.
And this bride price, I have other plans.
Zhou Yang's family is in the suburbs, although it may be demolished in the near future, but the education level in the surrounding area is not yet average. Zhou Yang does not want to buy a house, but I still have to consider for my children, or there are more educational resources in the city.
Besides, I don't really want to live with my in-laws, so I plan to wait until I get the money back from my mother, plus Zhou Yang's down payment on the house.
Unexpectedly, the Zhou family had no savings.
When I think of my children, I feel a little anxious. I started getting pregnant as soon as I got married, and I had never worried about money before. But now Zhou Yang said that there was no savings, if the bride price was spent again, then what would we take to have a child?
I asked Zhou Yang angrily, "We are still preparing for pregnancy, and the only deposit is the bride price." If you spend the bride price, what if you have a baby when the time comes? ”
Zhou Yang repeatedly assured me that as long as this matter passed, he promised to save money immediately, and he must first ensure the safety of me and my children.
The life of the people is watching the sky, the mother-in-law is lying in the hospital at the moment, and I am not too embarrassed. After all, I gave birth to a child early, according to Zhou Yang's salary, saving five thousand a month, to be born should be enough.
Besides, whether poor or rich, whenever there is a sick person in the family, they are also doing their best. Things have priorities, my mother-in-law treats me well on weekdays, I am just angry that they don't save money, and I don't mean to see death and not save.
Therefore, I still transferred the money to Zhou Yang. The mother-in-law's surgery was smooth and her recovery after discharge was good. I also became an expectant mother.
Zhou Yang did what he said, and every month began to be fixed, so it seems that it is no problem to get pregnant and have a child.
I was also relieved to be pregnant. Just when I lamented that the years were quiet, Zhou Yang did something that really surprised me.
4
Pregnant in October, a childbirth, the period of potting, finally came in my thousands of expectations.
I had an incorrect fetal position and the doctor recommended a caesarean section. Naturally, I listened to the doctor, but Zhou Yang urged me to have a smooth birth, and also listed with me the various benefits of a smooth birth.
I said, "If the conditions permit, I would like to have a smooth birth, but this is not a condition that does not allow it." "Zhou Yang and I talked for half a day before I explained the reason, but it was not that he was feudal, the main reason was that he had no money.
After Zhou Yang finished speaking, I grabbed his hand: "What are you talking about?" No money? How come there is no money, don't you promise me to deposit every month? More than 10,000? ”
Zhou Yang did deposit on time every month, and he never spent it. He resisted for the first few months, and just last month, a watch he had always liked arrived, which was a limited edition that he hadn't been able to grab before.
This time it just so happened, plus he learned that it was enough to have a child and give birth to seven or eight thousand, and he was itchy for a while, thinking that he would save two months' salary later, enough for me to give birth, so he bought it.
It's just that Zhou Yang didn't expect that I needed a caesarean section, so the money was not enough. I slumped down on the bed, one hand propped up on the bed, the other on my stomach, and exhaled heavily, and the baby was in my stomach, and I was not at ease.
The doctor reminded me not to get angry at this time. For the sake of the baby, I can't care about zhou Yang, I can only hurry up and think of a way. Fortunately, my mother came in time to help me pay the fee.
After I was discharged from the hospital, I followed my mother back to my mother's house. I am discouraged, is there any need to continue such a marriage?
Zhou Yang came to apologize to me every day, and he really did not expect an accident. In order to show sincerity, Zhou Yang proposed that he would hand over the salary card to me for safekeeping in the future, and all the expenses at home would be decided by me.
I didn't want to take care of him, and Zhou Yang was not annoyed, so he silently helped my mother to do housework and take care of the children.
My mother also advised me that since he was willing to give me the money for safekeeping, it would be okay, and the child could not be born without a father.
It is also true that in fact, in addition to not saving money, Zhou Yang still has many advantages. Besides, he wasn't stingy about spending money on me. Get married and live a life, you can't always grasp the shortcomings of the other party.
Once again, I thought too naively.
5
With the previous lessons, I had to plan ahead.
I went to the bank to open a separate card, this card is usually only used for saving money, and the online banking transfer function is not opened. Every month, how much money is fixed, unless there is a major situation, no one is allowed to move the money in this card.
Watching the money in the card increase little by little, the sense of security in my heart gradually increased. Sure enough, a woman's sense of security is given by money.
During that time, Zhou Yang also asked me to pass the card and take the initiative to deposit money in it.
When the baby was more than one year old, I took her to get a vaccine, and when I walked back, it was raining and it was not easy to take a taxi. After the baby's injection, he also cried and chirped, and some of them were not good.
Zhou Yang said he was nearby, came over to pick us up, about five minutes, and asked me to wait a while.
When Zhou Yang arrived, he called me and said that the roadside was full of cars, and he couldn't lean over and let me go forward.
I was about to walk to the intersection of red and green, and I didn't see my car. Zhou Yang drove up behind him, scolding and grinning: "I just honked the horn, can't you hear?" ”
But this is not my car, Zhou Yang did not tell me the license plate number, how do I know that he drove this car over?
Zhou Yang reacted at this time, and apologized to me in a panic, he forgot about this stubble. His car was sent for maintenance, and he drove a friend's car.
This incident is just a small episode, and I only blame me for focusing on the child and paying less attention to Zhou Yang. If I had been more careful, I might have uncovered his plot a long time ago.
Unfortunately, I was lost in the ecstasy array created by Zhou Yang at that time, and I couldn't see the little nine-nine behind him.
Until that day, the baby fell ill and was hospitalized. I didn't have enough money in my hand, so I planned to withdraw some money. When I checked the balance, I realized that the bank card, which carried my sense of security, was now empty.
6
Zhou Yang stole the money in the bank card, plus he did not hand in the year-end bonus to mention the new car, that is, to pick up our car that day.
Zhou Yang was afraid that I knew that he had moved the money in the card, and every time he came home, he parked the car in front of his friend's house. If I bump into him, he would say he borrowed a friend's car to drive.
I asked Zhou Yang to sell the car and pay the baby for hospitalization. Zhou Yang said that the car still has a loan and cannot be sold.
After listening to me, I squatted directly on the ground, my eyes were cold, and I wanted to cry but I couldn't shed any tears. I wanted to scold Zhou Yang, moved my lips, and my throat was like a piece of rice cake stuck, both sticky teeth and blocking my throat, and I couldn't open my mouth and make a sound.
Zhou Yang couldn't save the money, even if it didn't matter, I didn't say anything. I saved it, and he stole it for the flowers. I don't save money for myself, I don't think about this family.
In order to treat the baby's illness, I had to go to Zhou Yang's leader and advance two months' salary.
Zhou Yang kept confessing his mistake to me, and he also knew that this was not right, but he just couldn't help it. As long as he knows that he has money in his hand, he must spend it, and he always feels that the money spent is his own.
My mother-in-law also came forward to intercede for Zhou Yang, and my mother also advised me that Zhou Yang could not save money, but he was good to the child and good to me.
Listening to their words, my mind was very confused, and I didn't know whether to divorce Zhou Yang for a while.
I still have to go to work, and the children are usually brought by my mother-in-law. My mother wanted to help my brother, but she couldn't spare her hands to help me. If I don't have children, I will definitely divorce decisively, but with the baby, my will is not so strong.
The days went on like this, about half a year, until the incident happened and made me completely awake.
7
On the eve of the Spring Festival, due to the epidemic, the business volume of Zhou Yang's company has dropped sharply. The company's leaders decided to merge the city's branch with the linshi branch into one, and the office location was unified to go to linshi.
The company merged, the employees also had to be cut, Zhou Yang could not go to the market, and naturally he was among the people who were laid off. The company paid compensation to each employee. During the New Year, the family's living expenses can still be maintained.
I reminded Zhou Yang to reduce unnecessary expenses. Looking at the current situation, this year's money should be difficult to earn.
Zhou Yang didn't think so, thinking that I was creating terrorist remarks. He said that when the Spring Job Fair starts, he will definitely be able to find a job. With his ability, it is not a problem to feed a family.
Zhou Yang also gambled like a gas, bought back a dishwashing machine, more than four thousand. When I used it, I found that people washed vegetables in large quantities, and the restaurant used more, like our ordinary family life, which was not applicable at all.
I was so angry that I didn't want to deal with him.
Unexpectedly, before the first month, there was an epidemic in our place, everyone was in home isolation, and there were companies recruiting people.
The money in our hands was quickly spent, and in the end, to save money, we ate only one meal a day. In the end, there were only three packs of instant noodles left in the house, and our family cooked and ate them, and then we ran out of food.
Zhou Yang consulted with me and asked me to ask my mother's family to borrow some money, otherwise when the father-in-law's pension came down, we would starve to death.
My parents were not in good health, and in the past two years, they have brought children at my brother's house, and they have no income, so how to borrow. My brother treated my father before, and he still owes a bunch of debts, where is the money to help us?
Zhou Yang was silent for half a day, and suddenly looked up at me: "What about the private money you stole?" Take it out! ”
I said, "I haven't saved any money since you stole it the last time. ”
Zhou Yang didn't believe it, and turned my bag and pockets all over, but still couldn't find the money. Zhou Yang blushed sharply, raised his hand and slapped me, and roared angrily: "Hurry up and take out the money you have hidden, if you can't get it, go borrow it, otherwise you will look good." ”
I covered my face and looked at Zhou Yang, who was running away, and felt a pang of fear in my heart, at this time I could not be hard with him, otherwise it would be me and the child who suffered the loss. I hurriedly softened: "Okay, I'll borrow it." ”
After saying that, I quickly grabbed the door with the baby in my arms. Fortunately, the seal had been unsealed at this time, and I quickly asked my brother to come and pick me up.
I originally thought that Zhou Yang was just coveting pleasure and had no plan for his future life. Unexpectedly, he still has violent tendencies, can't withstand any wind and waves, and habitually finds others to solve things when encountering things, and he will only be a turtle with a shrunken head.
I filed for divorce with Zhou Yang.
Fortunately, I secretly saved some money from my friends, enough for me and my baby to live during this time. Ever since I experienced the birth of the child, I have been quite disappointed in Zhou Yang. I can only think of saving some money in case I need it.
I don't know how the Zhou Yang family solved the problems they encountered before, maybe they didn't encounter any difficulties, so a little difficulty could not stand it. None of this matters to me anymore.
I want to learn from this, and I must be prepared for anything, and I must not be confused by temptation, or I must have a good idea.
Believe in my tomorrow, it will be better.