It is normal for couples to have conflicts, even occasional quarrels, and some grumpy couples will even escalate into physical conflicts.
However, there is an essential difference between the contradiction between husband and wife, and domestic violence, the former is at best an emotional catharsis, and the latter is completely unscrupulous release of emotions, regardless of the consequences of violence.
Whether it is a man or a woman, when encountering domestic violence, you must not choose silence, you must bravely resist, let the other party understand that domestic violence has a price, and you are not a person who is bullied.
People around you should not always hold a mentality of persuasion and dissuasion, although it is better to demolish ten temples than destroy a marriage, but some people are really not suitable for being together.
A few days ago, there was a news that blew up a lot of people's circle of friends, a young mother was beaten into the hospital by her husband, according to the woman's family said that the woman had stopped her heartbeat at that time.
After 20 minutes of rescue in the hospital, he finally recovered his heartbeat, thinking that the other party could escape this difficulty, but after staying in the ICU ward of the hospital for 5 days, he finally died, leaving two young daughters.
The woman's husband has been married for many years and has not had any serious work, but the woman has opened a clothing store by herself and worked hard to run the family.
Such an enterprising woman, as a result, was also abused by her husband, and her husband can be so poisonous, it is certainly not the first domestic violence.
Later, people who were suspected of being the woman's family and friends spoke, regretting that they had advised the other party not to divorce, and it was really too much in this woman's life, and the child was the biggest weakness of the woman.
The heat of this matter has not passed, many netizens have been brushed by another video to burst the circle of friends, a woman squatting on the ground covered in blood.
This woman did not encounter any car accident, nor did she encounter any bandits, but was beaten by her husband's domestic violence and covered in blood.
Judging from the video shared by netizens, the neighbors heard the children in the family crying, and they came to check it out to see that the women were beaten so badly, and many of them came up to persuade them.
Others have informed the property directly, hoping to solve the problem through official forces, and some neighbors have said that this man has not beaten a woman for the first time.
I thought that the property came, this man would be jealous, and as a result, the property came, and this man did not forgive, but also beat his wife, which really made people angry.
Whether it is a man or a woman, in the face of domestic violence, you must be brave to resist, even if you can't beat the other party, you must make the other party pay a certain price and make the other party jealous.
After encountering domestic violence, first of all, we must protect ourselves, find an opportunity to leave the scene of domestic violence, and then choose to call the police at the first time and seek the protection of the police.
Domestic violence is the same as betrayal, do not easily forgive each other, your easy forgiveness will only make the other party feel that domestic violence is at no cost, next time will be more unscrupulous.
Even if for some reason, you finally choose to forgive the other party, you must make the other party pay a certain price, give some necessary commitments, and even let the society supervise and find the village committee to help supervise.
Once the other party is violent to themselves again, they immediately choose to divorce each other, do not forgive each other again, some people are dogs can not change eating.
Without others urging others to be kind, others should not easily persuade and dissuade them, and do not always make a statement that they are good for others and good for their children.
If you have not experienced the painful life of others, you are not qualified to make comments, let alone stand on the moral high ground to blame others and restrain others.
The mouth grows on others, life is your own, whether the day is good or not, only you know, don't easily change your choice because of a few words from outsiders.
If you think that you can still live this is domestic violence, just by chance, then two people will solve the problem well and run the marriage well in the future.
If you already think that there is no future in this marriage, don't give up the idea of divorce because of a few words from outsiders, it will only make you fall deeper and deeper in the swamp of pain.
For domestic violence, instead of making up for it later, it is better to prevent problems before they occur, and seriously examine their own objects when they get married, rather than just caring about the wind and snow, only caring about the other party's money and good looks.
The character of the other party, a good tutor, a good character, is the guarantee of happiness.
When encountering such a person with an irritable personality and a calculating personality, be sure to stay away, such people are often emotionally unstable, and they are very easy to get angry, and it is very good when they are good for you, but they can beat you without a word.
There are also people who are emotionally impulsive and easy to regret, punch and kick you when they are angry, calm down and cry and cry and kneel down to beg for your forgiveness, this kind of person is also very scary.