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Women are always more emotional than men in feelings, and women are always more emotional than men in feelings, so women are always more vulnerable than men in feelings.
Women think that they see the man they are, but they don't know that sometimes, men are good at disguise, and sometimes men are good at hypocrisy.
The length of time, the way two people know, does not determine, a woman can see through a man.
Women are more likely to sacrifice themselves in feelings, and women are more likely to humble themselves in feelings, and to fulfill men's fantasies of love.
No matter at any stage, no matter when they meet, when a woman is in love with a man, never deliver these things early, because the sooner a woman delivers, the more vulnerable she is.
1. The initiative of feelings
No matter how much a woman loves a man, she should not give the initiative of feelings to the hands of men, and the direction of a relationship cannot be left to men.
Some women always feel that because I love this man, because I am willing to pay for this man, so what the man says, I do, the things that men like, I will do more, and the things that men don't like, I don't do.
Women think that if they become like this, men will love themselves more, and men will love themselves longer.
As everyone knows, when a man loves a woman, no matter what a woman looks like, he will love and will not be picky.
However, when a man does not love a woman, he is also serious, no matter what the woman becomes, no matter what the woman does for him, the man is not moved.
Because whether a man loves or not already determines his attitude towards a woman.
2. The woman's economic income
Everyone's job, everyone's economic income, is very important to everyone.
Because economic income determines a person's happiness, determines a person's confidence and courage in life.
No matter how much a woman loves a man, she should not give her financial power to a man.
Because the man who really loves you will not spend a penny of your money, the man who really loves is even less likely to manage your money.
A woman who has given her financial power to a man, she has lost herself, her dominance in the relationship;
A woman who has given her financial power to a man has no capital to speak.
Don't give your own money to anyone, because a woman who has money in her hands can resist any risk of life; a woman who has money in her hands can make the choices that are most beneficial to her when there is an accident in life.
Women's financial power and women's work are the back road of women's lives and the retreat of women's lives.
When a woman loves any man, she must remember to leave a way out for herself, and she must remember to prepare a way back for herself.
Although when you love a man, you all hope that this relationship can be complete and can blossom, but the specific direction of the relationship and the end of the relationship are really not unilaterally decided by a person.
Good feelings require the efforts of two people, and two people need to work together, while bad feelings only need one person to leave.
Women please do not give their financial power to men, to take this confidence and courage, firmly grasp in their own hands, do not cut off their own life retreat.
This is an important ability in your life to regain happiness in any crisis.
3. Your feelings for him
The more you love a person, the easier it is to suffer from gain and loss, the more you love a person, the more you worry that you will lose him, the more you love a person, the easier it is to admit defeat in front of him, and the more you love a person, the easier it is to lose the initiative.
When a woman loves a man, don't tell her true words to a man too early, and when a woman loves a man, don't confess to a man too early.
At least, don't be so proactive in pursuing a man.
Let the man spend more effort to chase himself, because the more difficult it is for a man to chase you, the more he will cherish it after he gets you, the easier it is for a man to chase you, and the more he will not cherish it after he gets you.
Women's love for men, do not easily tell men, do not tell men too early, because when you say it, you have no right to speak in this relationship, you have become the humble person in this relationship, he has the freedom to come and go, but he has become your weakness.
In a woman's feelings, there should be some small wisdom and small means, so as to firmly grasp a man, so as to tightly hold a man.
Remember, no matter how much you love a man, you are an independent woman, you are not who is attached, and you are not a burden to anyone.
Your happiness does not need to be created by anyone, and your life does not need to be grasped by anyone, because you can decide for yourself.
Although love is a kind of blindness and a kind of selfishness, it does not mean that you have to give everything for the other party and have no regrets.
You don't need to be a humble good person in order to keep a villain; you don't need to be a lowly good person in order to retain a person who is not loyal to his feelings and has no bottom line to back down to his principles.
At any time, in the feelings, it is true heart for sincerity, respect for respect, tolerance for tolerance, understanding for understanding.
You love men, men love you, you pay for men, men will give you positive feedback, such love, is meaningful, such love, is there a positive interaction.
Women at any time, do not underestimate themselves, your strength is great, your energy is very strong, you can completely create your own life, you can get, you deserve the happiness.
Really smart women, when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex, don't be too early to hand over these three things:
Don't give in to the initiative of feelings too early, don't give up your financial power too early, and don't give up your feelings for him too early.
These few things, women should firmly grasp in their own hands, as long as you hand over any of them, it means that you are unfortunate to start.
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