Some time ago, a friend fell in love with a man, and the friend sent a lot of things to the man, but the man's attitude towards his friend was still particularly cold. So a friend came to me and consulted:
"Is it because this man is more subtle, so he won't be enthusiastic about me?"
I'm going to hurt this friend with some heavier words, but I have to tell this friend:
"If a man really likes it very much, or has feelings for you, when you pursue the other party in this way, the other party will pursue you in turn, because some of the man's likes are hidden in the action." 」
So sometimes if a man likes a woman, the man is very bold, he is not like a woman who hides his feelings in his heart and knows how to fight.
Sometimes men and women are together, they are lazy in life, and many things do not know how to act, and such men do not like to annoy people.
Men's liking for women is hidden in action.
01.
Take the initiative to ask you out
If a man likes a woman, if the two people are not yet together, at this time, the man will take the initiative to pursue the woman, because when the man likes a woman, he is afraid that the woman will be with other men.
So this concern is urgent, the man immediately goes after this woman, and the man wants to let the other party be with him.
So sometimes if you take the initiative to make an appointment with this man, but after many appointments, the man will come to the appointment every time, but just wait for you to ask the man out.
Well, such a man is not active, but does not know how to refuse, just enjoy your kindness to himself, such a man does not like you.
So sometimes if you ask a man out several times, but the man is indifferent, then leave the other person early at this time and don't waste time on this person.
02.
Offer to send you a gift
When a man likes a woman, he will take the initiative to send some gifts to this woman, and when men send some gifts, they are also particularly careful, and this man will inquire about some things that this woman likes, and then prescribe the right medicine and send some things to the woman.
Some men have been with women for a long time, and maybe two people have been married, but men have never been romantic, not because men are born without understanding romance.
But because this man does not care too much about his own woman, maybe two people marry to complete the task, so in this relationship, men are important to women, but women are not so important to men.
When a woman meets a man who takes the initiative to give you a gift, she must know how to cherish it, maybe the gift given to you by this man is not very satisfactory to you, but you must know that this man is also more attentive to you.
So when smart women see men giving gifts to themselves, as long as it is a gift from a man they like, no matter how good or bad, women will try to praise men, which is also a respect for men, but also a return for men's love for you.
03.
Take the initiative to care about you
There are many people around us, but there are few people who care about us.
Sometimes you work in the unit, and everyone asks you for help, but when you are sick, I have no one to greet you.
So the relationship is particularly luxurious, when a woman meets a man's concern, women are also irresistible, and a man who really loves you often knows how to care about you, because men will see your difficulty, understand your hard work, and understand your psychological suffering.
When you encounter difficulties at work, a person who likes you will care about you, and when you encounter some difficulties in psychology, people who know how to care about you will often come to talk to you, help you open this knot, and work hard to make you happy.
So sometimes men come up to you to talk or help you do something, and you don't think the man is making a big deal out of it, in fact, he cares.
04.
Take the initiative to greet you
Many women send messages to men, but they are like colleagues into the sea, every time you open the phone, you will find that the man did not reply to himself, and the woman's heart will be particularly lost.
In fact, sometimes, if a man does not know how to take the initiative to send you a message, such a man should not stop, because this kind of man has never liked you, never cared about you, so he will never reply to your message.
Women who have been in love will find such a phenomenon: when men like you, they often take the initiative to send you messages, but when the man no longer likes you, he becomes more indifferent.
Therefore, sometimes, don't feel that the other party does not take the initiative to greet you, because the other party is busy, but because the other party may go to greet others, or the other party does not have the heart to greet you, and does not like you at all.
05.
Offer to apologize
After a man and a woman quarrel, if the man takes the initiative to apologize, it means that the man has a woman in his heart and is afraid of losing the other party, so he will bow to the other party.
Two people quarrel is that both people are at fault, but some men are afraid of losing women, and men will take the initiative to apologize to each other. Such a man is not a cowardly man, but a man who especially knows how to cherish women.
There is a saying that says:
"After an argument, I took the initiative to apologize to you, this person is not because he likes to admit it, but because he is afraid of losing you, so he will bow to you." 」
When a woman meets such a man, you must also treat this man well, and do not challenge each other's bottom line again and again, because everyone has their own bottom line.
Even if the man likes you very much, if you often make unreasonable trouble, you will eventually lose the man.
When a woman meets someone who likes herself, she must firmly grasp it, and when she meets a person who does not like you, even if you like each other, you must know how to let go.
A woman's life is to find someone who especially likes herself, only in this way can your life be happy and your marriage be more fulfilling.