The opposite sex gets along, men have love for women, take the initiative to do something to please women, put women's things in their hearts, silently pay for women, give women some things she has been looking forward to for a long time, when women need help, men will not be absent, he will carefully take care of women, give women dependence and protection in life.
Whatever the woman asks, whether it is reasonable or not, whether he can do it, he will try to do it, and will not go against the woman's will; even if the woman does not have something to command, he will secretly guess, and take the initiative to do it, and frequently give courtesy to the woman.
Men are not active with women, but what will be the result? Can men really get the results they want? Not quite. Sometimes, men are too active with women, frequently mix with women's things, and circle around women, which will spoil women, and women may not cherish them.
At the same time, if women are not interested in men, no matter how actively men take the initiative to pay, in the end, they will only make women appear "beyond the limit effect", but will cause women to be bored, so why bother?
Men want to enter the hearts of women, just have the sincerity of love to take the initiative to do something for women, or far from enough, men themselves must be excellent enough, so that they can attract women's attention, so that women red heart. In fact, there is a kind of man, even if not "active" enough, will make women think about it, do you understand?
1. Be open and treat women with sincerity.
Some men, in the process of pursuing women, are eager to say all the good things and do good things to impress women.
Talking too much is often exaggerated; demanding to do things perfectly will not only be exhausting, but also bring some pressure to women.
In fact, when you meet the woman you love, there is no need to deliberately please.
Be frank, treat women with sincerity, and the shining points on women can be praised; the deficiencies in women can be mentioned; so that the party appears sincere.
When you show sincerity to women, women will often be honest with you in the end.
2. Selfless, able to think wholeheartedly for women.
Some men, in the process of pursuing women, the purpose is too conspicuous, that is, to "get the woman", when the woman does not immediately agree to the man's pursuit, or the woman wants to further examine the man, and make a little request to the man.
At this time, the man seems a little impatient.
In this regard, women will feel that men are too "selfish", only value themselves, do not consider her feelings, women do not dare to entrust themselves to this man.
On the contrary, in the process of working with women, men can temporarily put aside their "purpose" and "appeal", love women without distraction, think wholeheartedly for women, respect women's lifestyles, and do not arbitrarily impose their will on women.
At the same time, men can remain motivated, will continue to improve themselves, make themselves better, do some things, when men become good enough, they will become more attractive, which will attract women and gain women's hearts.