On the road, I happened to learn that Hehe was suffering from leukemia and was hospitalized waiting for bone marrow transplantation, Xiao Xu did not say a word, and went to the hospital for bone marrow matching at the first time. Xiao Xu hurried home to inform his mother and brother, so Gao Caiping wiped his tears to do the matching, Xiao Lu learned the news, and also came to the hospital in a very complicated mood to do the matching.
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Something so big happened, why didn't you tell him or her earlier?
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These were the words that Xiao Xu, Gao Caiping, and Xiao Lu all asked Fang Yinuo after they suddenly learned the news.
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Fang Yinuo was still kind to Xiao Xu, so he told his brother to do the matching.
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Fang Yinuo shouted "Mom" to Gao Caiping, meaning that he didn't want to trouble her.
Gao Caiping couldn't say a word, if it wasn't for Hehe's illness, her grandmother didn't know when she would be able to see her granddaughter.
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A few years passed in a flash, Fang Yinuo's love and hatred for Xiao Lu had not yet been able to put down, she reminded Xiao Lu, not to let him recognize his daughter, after doing the match, hurry up, what to do.
Xiao Lu felt very hot, he was Hehe's father, after the divorce, Fang Yinuo did not let him and his family see Hehe, even if he was still so incompetent? Didn't you think this was something that could be solved by a big package?
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Outside the ward, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu quarreled; in the ward, the parents and relatives of both sides came to take care of Hehe, which made Xie Tianhua embarrassed.
Xie Tianhua, who had quit smoking, began to smoke again, was choked and coughed, and heard his mother say on the phone that he was hurting him, Xie Tianhua silently wept.
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Xie Tianhua cried so hard
Originally a college classmate, Xie Tianhua and Xiao Lu both liked Fang Yinuo, and in the end Fang Yinuo chose to marry Xiao Lu, which was the first time she gave up Xie Tianhua.
Hehe was diagnosed with leukemia, and the doctor said that it was a very expensive disease, so that the family could be mentally prepared.
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Fang Yinuo was grateful that Xie Tianhua was a good person, did not want to bother him, and intended to divorce Xie Tianhua. This was the second time That Fang Yinuo wanted to give up Xie Tianhua.
Fang Yinuo learned that if she had another child with Xiao Lu, using umbilical cord blood could cure Hehe's disease, she begged Xie Tianhua to have another one with Xiao Lu; the IVF was unsuccessful, Fang Yinuo begged Xiao Lu to try her again in a natural pregnancy way, which was not only opposed by Dong Fan, Xie Tianhua also felt embarrassed.
Fang Yinuo shouted at Xie Tianhua that in order to save the child, she must do this!
This is the third time that Fang Yinuo has given up Xie Tianhua's feelings under the condition of helplessness.
Just think, who wants their wife (husband) to have children with someone else?
Perhaps, at this time, Xie Tianhua would remember Xie Dan's opposition at that time, saying that his sister would not hesitate to be the evil person of the whole family, all for the good of his brother.
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At first, hearing that his unmarried brother was going to marry Fang Yinuo with a child, Xie Dan directly exploded.
The objection was invalid, Xie Tianhua was determined to marry Fang Yinuo, so it was decided.
When Fang Yinuo came to the Xie family for more than a year, he also became diligent and stoic, Xie Dan, the eldest sister-in-law, spoke in public and returned the other party's promise to carry a gun and a stick.
To be fair, Xie Dan also said it well, saying that she helped Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter, which was a love point; not helping, it was her duty.
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Hearing her brother say that she had a hard heart, Xie Dan felt wronged, so he pointed to Sang Huai and scolded Song Guangming, his own man, for beating his swollen face and being fat. In fact, I want Xie Tianhua to weigh it carefully, a man like him, who doesn't have much money in his hands, in order to heal his adopted daughter, as for putting himself and the whole family into it?
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Xie Dan initially opposed her brother marrying Fang Yinuo, and now that Hehe has such an illness, she reminds her mother that she must do what she can, cannot use the pension, and cannot sell the house in the house, after all, the Xie family still has to live.
Xie Mu was reasonable, and she deliberately suppressed her daughter's strong sharpness in her daily life to help the second daughter-in-law, but suddenly there was such a big change, she was not calm, and her mood began to sway.
Xie Mu pitied Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter, and felt even more sorry for her son. It is completely understandable that this is the common sentiment of human beings.
The attitude of the relatives, the state of entanglement, will gradually have a negative impact on Xie Tianhua.
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Thinking back to Xie Tianhua's marriage with Fang Yinuo, it is indeed a bit suffocating. Fang Yinuo did not love Xie Tianhua, but to live a life, in order to find a father for his daughter, not to let Hehe lose face in front of his classmates, and to avoid Hehe's inferiority in the process of growing up.
Fang Yinuo saw that Xie Tianhua was very considerate of her and Hehe, would accompany her, and could take care of people, so he agreed to marry him.
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Before this, Fang Yinuo's parents were worried that their daughter would not be able to wipe her face, so they took the initiative to invite Xie Tianhua to come to the house for dinner, and expressed at the table that they hoped Xie Tianhua could come together with their daughter.
In order to dispel the concerns of his family, Xie Tianhua made a great determination and did a lot of dedicated work in front of his mother and sister before marrying Fang Yinuo to the family.
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Seeing that her sister intended to make a promise to Fang Yi, Xie Tianhua told his wife that her sister was like that, don't go to your heart.
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Xie Tianhua regarded Hehe as his daughter-in-law, and did not have children after marrying Fang Yinuo.
Seeing that Hehe received chemotherapy and lost her hair, in order to make her daughter strip her head and not cry, Xie Tianhua and Hehe played a game, and the two stripped each other's heads, and said that this hairstyle was the most beautiful.
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In order to make his daughter happy, Xie Tianhua also bought Hehe a thread-knit hat with two braids, which was a father's heart.
It is said that there is a reward for paying, but Hehe has leukemia, and the bone marrow matching of Xie Tianhua and Fang Yinuo is not successful, which makes Xie Tianhua very painful.
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Xie Tianhua can shave his head for his daughter; he can sell his storefront that he has been operating for many years in order to pay for medical operations; but this bone marrow matching, Xie Tianhua is really rudderless, after all, he is not Hehe's biological father.
What is even more painful is Fang Yinuo, she just wants to live a good life, who to provoke whom, why treat her like this?
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Fang Yinuo took his daughter to marry into the Xie family, he changed his temperament before divorcing Xiao Lu, not strong and sensitive, everything let the eldest sister-in-law, after work, he tied an apron to cook, the family's meals were basically made by her, and she intended to show kindness to her mother-in-law.
Fang Yinuo's work in Xie Tianhua's home is in great contrast with her life before she divorced Xiao Lu. This can't help but make people feel that Fang Yinuo has played a good hand of cards.
A good hand is played badly
Her daughter was seriously ill, and Fang Yinuo wanted to hide it from everyone, thinking that she and Xie Tianhua could just take care of her in the hospital and not trouble others.
When he really couldn't hide it, Fang Yinuo told both parents. As a result, the bone marrow matching type did not match, Fang Yinuo thought of her ex-husband Xiao Lu in a flash, and in hesitation, she met Xiao Xu on the road, and she said that Hehe was ill.
Xiao Xu felt that he had to hurry up and do the bone marrow matching, and it was incumbent on him, so that he was Hehe's uncle.
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This shows that although Xiao Xu was once raised and abandoned by his parents, he could carry it clearly in the face of major events.
Gao Caiping walked into the ward, heard Fang Yinuo call her mother, the heart is full of mixed feelings, although the son and Fang Yinuo divorced, she and the former daughter-in-law after all, a mother-in-law, everyone is broken bones and still connected to the tendons.
The fact is that over the years, Fang Yinuo has not allowed Xiao Lu's family to see the child, which shows that this hatred is more difficult to let go than love.
After all, Xie Tianhua and Xiao Lu were old classmates, so they hid from their wives, let Xiao Lu play with Hehe as an uncle, and also took home all the gifts that Xiao Lu bought for Hehe and hid them in the corner.
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Gao Caiping had a hard time seeing her granddaughter, so she subconsciously wanted to hug Hehe, who was lying on the hospital bed.
This move startled Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter, and signaled Gao Caiping to wash her hands and disinfect first to avoid bacterial infection to Hehe.
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Gao Caiping took the paper towel to wipe it, and when she was emotionally excited, she directly used the tissue to wipe the nose again, and then she had to hold the child.
Seeing that the high color screen is still so loud and atmospheric, informal, it is inevitable to recall the unpleasant past when Fang Yinuo was confinement.
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The child Gao Caiping asked Xiao Lu to take out Fang Yinuo's placenta, she chopped it into a stuffing, wrapped wontons for her younger son to eat, and wanted Xiao Xu to make up for his body; Gao Caiping took the newborn Hehe and touched the cards for people to change their hands, and as a result, the cradle car slid away, let Hehe fall to the ground, and was seen by Fang Yinuo; there was a hole the size of a cigarette butt in the curtain, and Lao Lu suspected that Gao Caiping secretly smoked in the house and repeatedly taught; Xiao Xu stayed at his brother's house to eat and drink, could not help and did not say, and added chaos, causing a fierce quarrel between Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter and Xiao Xu's mother and son.
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The discord between the mother-in-law and the family, which makes Xiao Lu very embarrassed, he poured bitter water, saying that he was tired like a dog at work, no one cared about him, and he felt more tired when he returned home, and even wanted to escape.
Fang Yinuo originally wanted to comfort a husband, and when she saw that Xiao Lu was not appreciative, she also vented her dissatisfaction, saying that when Xiao Lu encountered something, he would only get mud.
In the future, coupled with the indecent photos and recordings of her and Xiao Lu taken by Zhu Zhu's mobile phone, as well as the fact that Zhu Zhu, who was originally a broken word, reached out and touched Xiao Lu's face, prompting Fang Yinuo to make up his mind to divorce Xiao Lu.
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The reason why Fang Yinuo did not ask Xiao Lu whether the photo was true or false, nor did he give Xiao Lu another opportunity to explain, was because after getting married and having children, Fang Yinuo had no sense of security from Xiao Lu, believing that his marriage existed in name only, and simply used this completely reasonable reason to achieve divorce.
Fang Yinuo was thirsty at night, Xiao Lu couldn't wake up; Hehe jaundice exceeded the standard, Xiao Lu used the words of Sister Yue to stuff her; Hehe went to the hospital with fever, Fang Yinuo couldn't contact Xiao Lu by phone, and as a result, Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter fell into heavy rain; Fang Yinuo quarreled with Gao Caiping and Xiao Xu, and Xiao Lu failed to stand on her side...
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Compared with Fang Yinuo's situation in Xie Tianhua's home, I feel that after Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu got married, there was actually no substantial contradiction, just a chicken and dog fragment daily life, and there was suddenly an extra child between the husband and wife, and both were not ready, and they did not know how to get along with each other's parents.
For example, Fang Yinuo failed to discover the advantages of Gao Caiping's mother-in-law. In order to meet the requirements of her daughter-in-law, Gao Caiping quit smoking, did not go out to play cards, and also knew to pay attention to hygiene when taking care of Hehe.
Due to the low level of high color screen culture, he entered the factory early to work and got married and had children. When the younger son was ten years old, Gao Caiping died of her husband, leaving only one person with hard work to bring up her two sons. In order to supply Xiao Lu to college, Gao Caiping ignored Xiao Xu, which made her feel indebted to her younger son.
When the family conditions were passable, Gao Caiping doted on and indulged his young son, making Xiao Xu almost a delicious and lazy waste wood. This is the reason why Gao Caiping gave Gao Xu a placenta stuffed ravioli, wanting to make up for the debt and let the emaciated Xiao Xu make up for his body.
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Knowing that her daughter-in-law was going to divorce her son, Gao Caiping still brought Fang Yinuo a handmade chili radish, specially went to the countryside to buy native eggs, stewed chicken soup for her daughter-in-law and granddaughter to drink. Not for anything else, only for the former mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; Gao Caiping did not come to say good things for her son, but just as a woman, she was distressed about Fang Yinuo's life with children in the future.
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From Gao Caiping learned that Hehe was hospitalized, he hurried to run to do bone marrow matching, and Gao Caiping was really not an evil mother-in-law.
If Fang Yinuo can be reasonably guided in the month, Gao Caiping will gradually be competent to take the child. If you don't tire of guiding it, you can do it twice, and if you don't do it twice, you can't do it many times, as long as there is a little improvement, it means that you listen to it and have an effect.
If you want to achieve it overnight, or directly set high standards and strict requirements, you will often scare people off and complain about each other.
If Fang Yinuo had more patience with Xiao Lu and Gao Caiping, why did it end up here?
Of course, Xiao Lu could not escape the blame, he only paid attention to work, neglected the real psychological needs of his wife before and after giving birth to children, and he used making a lot of money to exchange for a big house and let his wife and children live a good life as an excuse for him to evade the responsibility of fatherhood.
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If Xiao Lu can guide his mother and brother in time to coexist in a way that Fang Yinuo likes, it will create a happy and harmonious little family.
They are not bad people, nor do they have any harmful intentions, they all want to live a good life, why is it easy to love each other and difficult to get along with?
A big reason is that Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's personalities are not suitable for marriage as a couple, both parties have not been able to change in time after marriage, and the birth of Hehe has allowed this inappropriateness to intensify the contradiction, and divorce is sooner or later. Without Zhu Zhu as the fuse, there might have been something else.
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Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo couldn't catch each other
Xiao Lu's family situation is not as good as Fang Yinuo's, which is one of the reasons why Fang Yinuo is relatively strong after marriage.
Fang Yinuo had just given birth to Hehe, and when he was pushed out of the operating room, he could not see Xiao Lu's figure, and he was confused to hear that Xiao Lu had taken the placenta, which subconsciously became dissatisfied with her husband.
During Fang Yinuo's month, Xiao Lu only cared about busy work, accompanied the customer drunk many times before returning home, and then fell asleep.
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Fang Yinuo's hard work of nursing children at night, Xiao Lu could not accompany him. When going to the hospital to vaccinate the child, Xiao Lu took the cup to get a hot water, not only burned his own hand, but also dropped the water cup used by Hehe on the ground, which was unhygienic, Fang Yinuo looked in his eyes, and took the water cup to pick it up himself.
Fang Yinuo first scalded the surrounding area of the water cup and the lid of the cup with boiling water, and then filled it with water and covered the lid, the action was indeed standardized in place, and also paid attention to hygiene.
In fact, since Fang Yinuo personally did it, why not simply be patient, at the same time, at the same time, this set of hot water process to Xiao Lu to listen, let him look at it seriously, once he can't learn it again, he will continue to learn; if he doesn't do it well, it shows that the number of times he does it is less, and if he does it more, he will do it.
By analogy, Fang Yinuo could teach Xiao Lu and Gao Caiping the standards and procedures for taking care of hehe, and then let them take care of it, instead of standing at his own window and looking out, or picking up a telescope to monitor his mother-in-law.
For example, when Xiao Xu came to visit the ward this time, Hehe Yi was happy and suddenly kissed his uncle's face, which frightened Fang Yinuo, saying that there were bacteria on his uncle's face, and once Hehe was infected with bacteria, it would be a bad dish.
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Beforehand, Xiao Xu entered the house and said that he had washed his hands and cooperated with the disinfection, and then he laughed with Hehe.
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This shows that as long as it is reasonably guided, there will be good results, after all, it is among the relatives who care most, and they all hope to be good.
Look at Xiao Lu in Dong Fan's eyes, getting out of the car to change tires in the rain on a heavy rainy day, so that she feels safe.
After Xiao Lu's divorce, he originally had a fear of marriage, and repeatedly persuaded his brother to be cautious when talking about marriage, seeing Dong Fan braving the rain to give him an umbrella with clothes, Xiao Lu was deeply moved, proposed marriage on the spot, and the two kissed deeply in the rain.
When preparing for the wedding, Dong Fan felt that this was like a lively and happy New Year, and also wrote the invitation by hand, which felt that it was more ceremonial.
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Dong Fan knew that Xiao Lu's ex-wife was Fang Yinuo, and with the attitude of trying it out, he also wrote her an invitation, hoping to know that they were all right, and then things turned over.
Remember that after Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu divorced, Fang Yinuo deliberately set up a divorce banquet, invited friends to participate, and specially let the third party Zhu Zhu also come to attend. This face made Xiao Lu very embarrassed.
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The same person, Fang Yinuo, under the inspiration of Xie Tianhua, learned to endure restraint; Xiao Lu also learned to be considerate and accompanied by Dong Fan's love. They all try to change their shortcomings and let their respective strengths be revealed.
In order to consolidate her love with Xiao Lu, Dong Fan showed her mother-in-law and made Gao Caiping amused; she played games with Xiao Xu and also understood his needs and difficulties in order to promote him to improve himself.
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Xiao Lu also knew that the work could not be finished, and when he encountered something really at home, he resolutely refused Lao Su's overtime request.
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Therefore, marriage and love require two people to pay together, serious management, timely consultation, and gradually run into corrections. Only output in their own way, the other party is often unable to catch.
For example, before and after Fang Yinuo gave birth to Hehe, she and Xiao Lu did not have a husband and wife life for two years, which is not a big night "don't want" to solve the problem, to tell each other the real reasons, to get understanding. Otherwise, it accumulates over time and is prone to problems.
Finally, I wish Hehe can get better!