If someone asks me, is there any good TV series recommended in April? I will certainly tell him without hesitation: Dear Little Child, although so far I have only watched three episodes.
"Dear Child" is a family life drama directed by Hu Kun, starring Qin Hao, Ren Suxi, Nie Yuan, Xie Keyin, and specially starring Huang Miyi, and officially aired on April 10, 2022.
The drama is based on the movie "Left and Right", telling the story of a divorced parent, in order to save their daughter with leukemia, when the doctor suggested that another child use umbilical cord blood to save their lives, they should reorganize the story of where to go.
"Dear Child" takes family marriage relationship and parent-child relationship as the theme, through a child, to the audience to truly show pregnancy and childbirth, novice parents, parenting concept differences and other topics closely related to the current society, full of pyrotechnic texture story, which has aroused the resonance of many mothers.
However, as soon as the drama began broadcasting, it was criticized by the People's Network by name. "The mother-in-law compares the daughter-in-law's childbirth with the sow's calf" "The old man smokes on the side when taking care of the granddaughter", "The diaper used by the son 20 years ago is used by the newborn granddaughter, but the son does not stop it, and even lets the wife listen more to the mother-in-law's less listening to the expert"... This kind of jaw-dropping "dog blood" plot frequently appeared in the TV series "Dear Child", causing controversy.
In the play, the mother-in-law complained that the daughter-in-law wasted money, it is better to give the money to find the sister-in-law to herself, and the old man also uses a lot of local methods to take the child.
Such "mother-in-law" problems in life due to different ages and concepts do exist, and they are also the main source of fear of marriage and childbearing among young people and aggravate family conflicts. But I have to say that the plot in "Dear Child" is what many mothers have experienced or are experiencing.
At the beginning of the first episode of the TV series, Fang Yinuo wiped off his makeup in the mirror, and the pregnancy spots on his face appeared little by little, looking at the large belly in the mirror full of stretch marks, Yinuo's eye sockets gradually moistened, with a trace of grievance and helplessness, but also a hint of tenacity. The three-minute shot showed the state of the mother in the third trimester, and the sense of reality that came to my face deeply shook me.
Many people may be used to watching the TV series of the domineering president or the big heroine, thinking that a woman pregnant and giving birth to a child is a formality, howling two children will come out, stretch marks stretch marks that are even more pretentious, but only mothers who have really had the experience of pregnancy in October know that "Dear Child" is to put reality on the screen.
At present, I have only watched three episodes of the show, but many of the pictures make me itch my teeth, especially Xiao Lu, as a husband, as if Yinuo has no relationship with him when he has a child, and interprets the irresponsibility to the fullest.
Eat one bowl of noodles and pack two bowls
At the beginning, I saw Xiao Lu sitting on the side of the road eating noodles while listening to the sound of parenting, and I also felt that Qin Hao had finally played a good man. But then he saw that he had packed two bowls of noodles and went home, and Yinuo asked him why he didn't eat it, whether he had eaten it, and he strenuously denied it, which showed from this that he was a very selfish person.
Normally speaking, if the pregnant wife wants to eat noodles, as a husband, she should pack up and go home to eat with her wife as soon as possible, but Xiao Lu has eaten enough outside first, and then packed it back, completely ignoring Yinuo.
Yinuo gives birth to a child, he is "playing soy sauce"
Fang Yinuo called to tell Xiao Lu that when he was about to give birth, the tension on Xiao Lu's face made me think that the matter of eating noodles in front of me should have been misunderstood, maybe he was afraid that Yinuo would see him eating chili peppers, so he ate it first and then packed it back.
However, when Yinuo was lying in a hospital bed waiting to give birth, he seemed absent-minded, and his colleague called him to say that he needed to use a computer for work, and Yinuo asked him to work urgently, first go back to deal with things, and he really left. But when he got home, things were taken care of, and he didn't want to go to the hospital, but instead lay on the couch at home drinking beer and watching the ball game, not worrying about his wife in the hospital at all. It wasn't until the next morning that his mother-in-law called him and rushed to the hospital, by which time Yinuo had already entered the delivery room.
Mothers who have experienced giving birth to children know that from the breaking of amniotic fluid to the birth of the child, the spirit is highly tense, and what is most needed at this time is the company of the father-to-be.
The placenta is more important than the wife and children
After the child was born, the nurse sent the placenta out first, and Xiao Lu hurriedly sent the placenta to his mother first, without the slightest consideration of Yinuo's situation. When others give birth to a child, they are greeted by a large son at the door of the delivery room, and a bouquet of flowers will be sent with a slight sense of ceremony, a caring voice, and a nurse will help push it back to the ward after giving birth.
When Xiao Lu sent the placenta and returned to the door of the delivery room, he did not know that Yinuo and the child had already returned to the ward, I think Xiao Lu is not a nerve bar, he is not concerned enough about his wife, in his heart, the mother's advice is more important than Yinuo and the child.
Upgraded to be a father, but full of disgust
Just after giving birth to Yinuo's incontinence, Xiao Lu changed her pants, and then did not want to come out in the bathroom for half a day. After coming out, I wiped my hands over and over again with disinfectant at the door of the ward, full of disgust, and I didn't want to go into the ward, in the ward, Yinuo and his parents were teasing the newborn baby, and Xiao Lu outside the ward was like an outsider, who didn't care about everything that happened inside.
Xiao Lu did not have the joy of becoming a new father, and some were just full of impatience, as if the arrival of this child was used to block his mother's mouth.
My daughter jaundice was hospitalized but didn't take it seriously
At the beginning, the daughter Hehe jaundice, Yinuo and Xiao Lu complained that it may be that the sister-in-law mixed milk powder for her daughter in order to be lazy, but Xiao Lu did not take it seriously and went to sleep upside down. Hehe jaundice worsened and needed to be hospitalized, Xiao Lu put Hehe in the hospital nervously, went home by himself, and rushed back to the hospital with Yinuo, but he didn't even know where his daughter was.
Just when Yinuo and Yue Yue were arguing about why Hehe's jaundice value was so high, Xiao Lu chose to believe Yue Lu's words, only because Yue Lu once cooked a supper for Xiao Lu when he returned at night.
In fact, this TV series I have been a little unable to watch, not because it is not good, but because this drama resonates with me, watching Yinuo cry late at night, Xiao Lu is sleeping next to him, and I really can't bear to continue watching. I believe that some viewers who have watched this TV series must hate the role of Xiao Lu very much, and even the actor Qin Hao himself can't watch it, and made a "warm reminder to watch the drama" on his Weibo.
In fact, I think the People's Daily is right and wrong. Yes, because "Dear Child" is too frightening to marry and have children, it shows the reality of marriage in one place, and it shows the true face of most men in marriage and the plight of women in marriage. The mistake is because previous movies and TV series have always interpreted the process of women becoming mothers too beautifully, so beautiful that people forget the hardships of the road of "mother".
"Dear Little Kid" brings the audience a real, not-so-beautiful side of reality, but I think it just makes the female friends who are about to become mothers prepare in advance and dispel the uneasiness that comes from not knowing what will happen in the future.
In any case, "Dear Child" is a very worthy drama, and I think it is especially suitable for recommending it to male compatriots to let them know that women are not easy.