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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Friends of the opposite sex should be more friendly than love, so as to maintain a long-term relationship.
If the two sides have no boundaries and always take the opportunity to be ambiguous, it is likely to affect each other's friendship, and once the relationship crosses the line, it will be difficult to go back to the beginning.
This requires the opposite sex to always pay attention to words and deeds when interacting, and try to avoid frequent exchanges to avoid the relationship from becoming tainted.
Of course, if you really fall in love, both sides should also remain calm and solve the emotional problem as soon as possible in order to avoid bringing greater trouble.
Some feelings, from the beginning may be wrong, both sides can not be entangled, there is a chance to know, no reason to be husband and wife, then both sides must stop the loss in time.
Therefore, friends of the opposite sex love each other, but they have no chance to be husband and wife, it is better to do three things well and win.
First, do not linger on love, know how to let go
I heard a lyric: "There is a kind of love called letting go." ”
If the feelings between the opposite sex cannot continue, and the two parties have no chance to be husband and wife, then they must know how to let go and must not continue to entangle.
Love each other, the most important thing is to see if you can be together, if both parties are involved, this feeling will not be nostalgic.
Love, sometimes very beautiful, but sometimes it will cause pain, if the two sides do not let go, it is inevitable that they will live in pain, and the gain will not be worth the loss.
It seriously affects work and life, and it will cause a burden on both sides, and once the price is paid, it is too late to regret it.
For the sake of temporary pleasure, and the loss of dignity in feelings, as well as the responsibility of life, this is not real love, we must let go.
Between friends of the opposite sex, it is better to maintain a simple friendship relationship, and at any time can not cross the bottom line.
Especially for people who have a family, they should pay more attention to the boundaries of communication, can not take the opportunity to be ambiguous, and can not let the relationship cross the line.
If both parties do not shy away from it, use friendship to play ambiguous, or deliberately blur the boundaries between friends, there will be no good results in the end.
In reality, men and women should pay attention to it, since it is friendship, do not lean on love, the opposite sex relationship itself is very sensitive, if there is no measure, crossing the line is sooner or later.
If there are really feelings, the trouble brought to both parties at that time may be difficult to deal with, and it will also cause the disintegration of feelings, which is really meaningless.
Acquaintance is fate, know how to grasp the fate, maintain a sincere friendship, this is the quality that adults should have.
Second, completely break off the connection and end the unworthy love
Friends of the opposite sex should not have feelings in the first place, if they are in love, both sides must completely break off the connection and terminate the unworthy love.
If one party is entangled, it will have a huge impact, and when the feelings reach the point of irreparability, it is inevitable that they will pay a huge price.
Therefore, if friends of the opposite sex are in love, they must wake up as soon as possible, terminate the love in time, withdraw from each other, and must not be entangled.
After many men and women have unworthy love, they can't treat it calmly, nor can they take it seriously, blindly entangled together, so it is easy to get into trouble.
If you want peace of mind and don't want to affect your feelings and lives, you must learn to end love and return to normal friendship.
In this way, friends of the opposite sex will have a sense of peace of mind, do not have to worry about accidents, and will not suffer in the relationship.
A love is not worth it, really can not stay in love, only completely put down, do not contact in the future, in order to maintain a stable life.
This requires both sides to delete each other's contact information, nothing can be left, only endure the pain and make a decision with the past, in order to enter the future with a better posture.
Especially when men and women reach a certain age, they must understand the truth that blandness is a blessing, and seek inner peace of mind in order to have true happiness.
After all, no matter how fierce love is, to a certain extent, it will eventually return to a flat state, so why bother with unworthy love?
As Zhang Xiaoxian said: "I thought that love can fill the regrets of life, but what creates more regrets is love." Yin and yang are lacking, and they are constantly repeated in a love. If you change people, it will not be blue. ”
Third, accept the imperfection of feelings and cherish the present
Leo Tolstoy said, "True love can only arise after giving up personal happiness." ”
Whether it is love or marriage, it is more or less necessary to settle down, after all, there is no perfect person in this world, and there is no perfect love.
It is possible that there will be a lot of annoying things in the feelings, and there may also be a lot of contradictions, but men and women cannot easily seek other love because of the imperfection of the feelings, which is not right.
Just like friends of the opposite sex, if they are because of their own bad feelings, they feel that the other party is the person who knows them best, easily love each other, and often end up disappointed.
Once you ignore the people around you and mistakenly think that others are the most suitable, this kind of thinking is too naïve.
Because, two people do not get along for a long time, will not see the real face of each other, many appearances are often disguised, but the people who have been around for a long time have long been in the best state with you, which is worth cherishing.
Therefore, friends of the opposite sex should not trust love, if you do not grasp the feelings around you, you are likely to run into a wall outside.
Wait until you have been injured to the skin, and then you will wake up, and then it will be too late.
Therefore, friends of the opposite sex fall in love, and both parties should not be entangled and disturbed, but should be put down and return to normal interactions in time.
Moreover, both parties must learn to accept the imperfection of feelings, cherish the current life with their hearts, and cherish the people around them, which is the right way.
In this world, no matter how fierce the dew love affair, after all, can not withstand the plain stay, understand this, you can understand what is the real love.
I hope that men and women in reality can pay attention to it, not ambiguous, not cross the line, and maintain a good friendship in order to avoid being hurt in the feelings.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
To sum up, friends of the opposite sex love each other, but they have no chance to be husband and wife, it is better to do these three things well, and they will win.
Do not linger on love, know how to let go; completely break the connection, terminate the unworthy love; accept the imperfection of feelings, cherish the present.
In this life, people will meet many people, but not everyone is worth investing in feelings, and we must grasp the measure to avoid the deterioration of the relationship.
Especially men and women with families, we must abide by the principles and bottom line, rather than falling into unworthy love, it is better to cherish the happiness around them.
The rest of life is not long, but I hope that men and women can do more meaningful things in a limited time, cherish the present, and be safe for each other.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.