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For a woman, "confinement feud" is the most difficult thing to forget, so many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions actually start from the time when the daughter-in-law is confinement. Because when a woman has just given birth, it is the time when they are most vulnerable and need the most care of others, so at this time, whether others are good for themselves or bad for themselves, they will firmly remember it.
In life, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are like natural enemies. But the reason for this situation is usually the mother-in-law's attitude towards the daughter-in-law at the beginning. Because many mothers-in-law are not satisfied with their daughters-in-law, they will be prickly everywhere in life. And once the idea of not liking the daughter-in-law is formed in life, then this kind of thinking is already difficult to change.
When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, whether it is the mother-in-law or the daughter-in-law, we must learn to compare hearts to hearts. Because only by personally considering things from the other party's position can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along harmoniously.
Recently, in her life, Yang Lina took revenge on her confinement after her mother-in-law broke her leg.
Rest at home after pregnancy
Yang Lina and her husband Zhang Zihao are college classmates, the two people have been in love for three years, so they directly chose to get married after graduating from college, although the parents of both sides have many different opinions on the matter of two people getting married, but the meaning of the two people is very firm, so soon the two people held a wedding.
After the two married, they lived with Zhang Zihao's mother. Because Zhang Zihao's father died in an accident a few years ago, zhang Zihao has been living with his mother since then, although he is now married, he still does not trust his mother, so he discussed with Yang Lina, and directly took his mother after marriage.
Since living with her mother-in-law, Yang Lina has already felt that her mother-in-law does not like herself. But after all, this is her husband's mother, and Yang Lina also knows that it is not easy for her mother-in-law to live for so many years, so although her mother-in-law often makes it difficult for herself in life, she still endures them one by one.
Soon after Yang Lina and Zhang Zihao married, Yang Lina found out that she was pregnant, and after Yang Lina became pregnant, the morning sickness reaction was particularly obvious, which also had a significant impact on her work. Because she did not want to cause a burden to the company, Yang Lina also consulted with the leader and finally decided to leave her job without pay and then come back to work.
However, after Yang Lina rested at home, it also caused the dissatisfaction of her mother-in-law, who believed that after the daughter-in-law rested, she gave the pressure to her son, and when she was pregnant, it was not so serious, so she also felt more dissatisfied with Yang Lina.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the confinement have a vendetta
Because of the dissatisfaction with the daughter-in-law, even after the daughter-in-law became pregnant, Zhang Zihao's mother's attitude towards the daughter-in-law was not good. After seeing her mother-in-law's attitude, Yang Lina was also very angry, but she felt that as long as the child was born, her mother-in-law's attitude would definitely change, so she also chose to be patient and did not get angry with Zhang Zihao because of it.
After Yang Lina was pregnant for Ten months, she finally gave birth to a healthy daughter. But after knowing that Yang Lina gave birth to a daughter, the mother-in-law who was full of expectations was finally disappointed, and under such feelings, her attitude towards Yang Lina in life became more and more bad. When Yang Lina was confined, Zhang Zihao's mother did not do her best to serve her daughter-in-law, but soaked in the mahjong hall every day, and three meals a day was only for Yang Lina to boil porridge and drink, and when Yang Lina questioned her, she would only say that this meal was the most nurturing.
After talking to her mother-in-law many times without use, Yang Lina did not continue to talk to her mother-in-law, and Zhang Zihao was also very dissatisfied with her mother's approach, so she also ordered a confinement meal for her wife outside. However, after Zhang Zihao ordered the confinement meal, he was strongly opposed by his mother, and directly cancelled the predetermined confinement meal on the grounds of being too expensive, and personally boiled porridge for Yang Lina for a month.
Yang Lina also felt completely disappointed in her mother-in-law's approach, and she also silently remembered her mother-in-law's practice of herself. Shortly after Yang Lina came out of confinement, her mother-in-law accidentally slipped and broke her leg when she went out to play mahjong.
Daughter-in-law's revenge
After Yang Lina's mother-in-law broke her leg, the heavy responsibility of taking care of her mother-in-law naturally fell to Yang Lina, who had just come out of confinement. And when she remembered her mother-in-law's practice when she was confinement, Yang Lina also decided to treat her body in the way of others. Therefore, the diet after the mother-in-law broke her leg is also the same porridge.
After eating porridge for two days, Yang Lina's mother-in-law couldn't stand it, and she felt that this was her daughter-in-law deliberately trying to make things difficult for herself, so she quickly told her son about it. Because Zhang Zihao's work is very busy, he is not very clear about things at home, but he also feels very angry when he knows that Yang Lina drinks porridge for his mother every day, so he also has a big fight with his wife. However, she did not expect to face his questioning and scolding, Yang Lina did not argue, but said: "I am confinement, she said that this meal is the most nourishing."
Listening to his wife's words, Zhang Zihao also became dumbfounded. After Zhang Zihao's mother saw the food her daughter-in-law cooked for herself, she also thought about what she did when her daughter-in-law was confinement, and she knew that this was her daughter-in-law's revenge for what she had done when she was confinement. After knowing his wife's thoughts, Zhang Zihao did not continue to force his wife, but directly hired a nanny to cook for his mother, and after he broke his leg, Zhang Zihao's mother also began to reflect on her previous practices, after which her attitude towards her daughter-in-law in life became better and better.
In life, there is actually no irresolvable contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been relative, if you find that your daughter-in-law or mother-in-law has a bad attitude towards yourself, then you should first reflect on whether there is any problem with yourself. Because only by first finding the reason from yourself can you find a solution to the problem.
The relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law actually depends on the attitude of the two people, as long as the two people show their kindness to each other, then the relationship between the two people will be able to become harmonious. As a mother-in-law, you must learn to treat your daughter-in-law with courtesy in your life, and you must know that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the key to the entire family relationship, so only after the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious, the relationship between the whole family can be harmonious.
For daughters-in-law, the confinement period is the time period when they need the most care, and the women at this time also need the most care of close people, but if the mother-in-law does not give them the care and care they need during the confinement period, then they will also resent the mother-in-law.
As a man, after marriage, if you find that your mother has a bad attitude towards your daughter-in-law, you must clearly express your attitude in life, if you only know how to blindly accommodate your mother and ignore your wife's feelings, then it is difficult for the marriage of two people to continue.
As a mother, no matter how old their children are, they will not be willing to let go, even after the son is married, they will not be able to help but intervene in the marriage of the son, but such a practice will also make the marriage between the son and the daughter-in-law difficult to maintain. Therefore, if you want to make your son's marriage continue smoothly, you must learn to let go, and only in this way is the best love for your son.
In fact, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not difficult to solve, as long as two people take a step back in life, they can make family life harmonious.
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