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How many couples are tender and sweet when they are in love
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You anon, me, you
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But when it comes to marriage
Just because the interests expose the ugly face
Don't believe it
Look at the heroine in the next case
You know what it means to be an eye-opener
Xiaohui and her family had been waiting for three days
But the bride price promised by the mother-in-law has not yet been delivered
Xiao Hui's father was already slightly angry
Say it out loud
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“
It's all over
Didn't the bride price money have already been agreed upon?
Now what does that mean
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Xiaohui's mother is kind and virtuous
Hurry to calm him down
He also comforted
Maybe someone is in a hurry
Don't wait
These words can make Xiao Hui clever
She seemed to know why
She suddenly remembered a few days ago
One thing to say to fiancé Li Changjun
It turned out that Xiaohui and Li Changjun had been in love for two years
Some time ago, the two saw that the relationship was stable
They discussed getting married
So I arranged for the two parents to have a meal together
Talk about what to do with your child's wedding
At the dinner table
The conversation between the two families was relatively smooth
In the end, the child's matter was also negotiated
Because the marriage house Li Changjun's family bought it
Therefore, Xiao Hui's family bride price did not want much
Just give a hundred thousand a cutscene
And Xiao Huijia also said
The bride price is 100,000, and the old two do not charge a penny
Accompany another 100,000 cash to the daughter
That's how it was told
Xiao Hui was also very grateful to her father for her approach
She knew her father didn't want money
It's about earning her a face
Leave a guarantee
Things about the bride price
Li Changjun's mother patted her chest at the dinner table to ensure that it was no problem
He also said that the days of the next hire are promising
It was the sixth day of the first year five months later
She also said very sincerely
Xiaohui Daddy you rest assured
Marrying a daughter-in-law with a dowry of 100,000 is certainly not much
Today the two children are booked
It's time
I personally went to give the bride price
Xiao Hui
Let me hold my grandson sooner."
Everyone at the dinner table laughed happily
The meal was served smoothly and smoothly
Be happy
I didn't expect that
Behind this happiness is a conspiracy
From that time after eating
Li Changjun always pestered her
Xiao Hui, who is conservative in his duties, is a little timid
But the thought is that they are already engaged
It should be possible to live together
Moreover, it is said on the Internet that trying to marry before marriage is also a kind of protection for girls
So she lived with Li Changjun
This is not
Trouble came after staying together
It turned out that Xiaohui had not come to menstruation for two months
She thought about it
I thought I was pregnant
Xiaohui spoke to Li Changjun at the first time
He also hurriedly asked him what to do
Li Changjun was also happy when he heard it
Hurriedly hung up the phone
I reported the news to my mother
After the phone is connected
He said excitedly
mother
I listened to you
Now Xiaohui is really pregnant
The other end of the phone
Li Changjun's mother was even more happy
Hurry up and tell your son not to act rashly
Wait until you've confirmed it before discussing the next step
So Li Changjun was still considerate of Xiaohui
Every move treats her like a real pregnant woman
soon
The date of the dowry is here
But just like at the beginning
The days had long passed before the Xiaohui family did not wait for the man's bride price
So in Xiaohui's mother said
The man's family may not know what is going on
She seemed to understand
Maybe getting pregnant before marriage is the plan of Li Changjun's family
Xiao Hui couldn't help but feel a chill in her back when she thought about it
The next day
Xiaohui hurried to the hospital to check whether she was pregnant
When the test results come down
She breathed a sigh of relief
Good thing there was no pregnancy
After having confidence
She hurriedly called Li Changjun and asked
What's going on in your house
The days are up
Why don't you come to give the bride price
But Li Changjun was confused
I gave the phone to my mother
His mother was still polite on the phone
It's always been a bit of a problem to say that there's a certificate of deposit
After handling it, it is ready to send it over
Xiao Hui didn't believe such nonsense at all
She was ready to make a scene
Verify that the facts are not what you think they are
thereupon
She put away the report that she was not pregnant
Turn around and tell Li Changjun
I have determined that I am pregnant
As soon as the news came out
Li Changjun's mother finally let out a long breath
She's slow
I sat down on the couch at my son's house
He said to his son with confidence
Little jun
Now that she was pregnant
That is, the bride price is not given
The wedding was cancelled
Or are you good
Let our family pick up a daughter-in-law
Li Changjun was also infected by his mother's arrogant mood
Lian Lian said that he would listen to his mother's arrangement in the future
I thought about it for a while
Li Changjun asked again
What if people just don't agree
But the mother's face was full of self-confidence
Represents the Tao
You don't understand
This woman has children
It's like having a guy who's hooked up
I couldn't help myself for a long time
You rest assured
This daughter-in-law will certainly not be able to run
So after thinking that Xiaohui was pregnant
Li Changjun's family was in no hurry at all
But when Xiaohui saw that the man's family was like a stone sinking into the sea, there was no news
I was really angry
She directly found her mother-in-law and Li Changjun
Ask them out loud what this means
But at this time, the mother-in-law changed her hypocritical face at the dinner table that day
It is a mouthful of determination that there is no money to give the bride price
He also said that there was no money in the family now
Weddings can't be done either
Already went to the hotel to return the banquet
Although Xiao hui had long been prepared
But I still fainted when I heard this
She said tremblingly
Not a penny was spent
I know I'm pregnant
Dream big of yours
He said that he threw his real test report to the ground
The head ran without turning back
Back home
Explain the truth to your parents
It also blocked all of Li Changjun's contact information
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In the case, Xiao Hui had to keep an eye on it before she got married
Otherwise it will be calculated
Marrying in is really a nightmare
This also tells us about women
There are two principles to keep in mind when deciding to marry before marriage
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One:
Women when they are in a relationship with their boyfriends
You should use some careful machines to test your boyfriend a little
Men and women during love
It's all sweet and romantic
In this atmosphere and mood
We all want to better present ourselves in front of each other
So men are no exception
In the period of love may give yourself more disguise and packaging
Some men are trying to achieve their goals
Will choose to hide their true personality
Some men will choose to play tricks
Step by step, the future development of the two is planned
It's the opposite of men
Women are full of sensuality in love
Even iq will be reduced a lot
So
Being rational is the hardest thing a woman can do in a relationship
But the best
Women can be in love
Give your boyfriend some small tests
Just like Xiaohui in the case
If not with a fake pregnancy as bait
How can you see your boyfriend's face so clearly?
So falling in love is actually a certain risk for women
Because men are more likely to be rational in love
It's also easier to play tricks
We women have to learn to protect ourselves
Give yourself peace of mind with intelligence and reason
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Two:
Refuse to conceive out of wedlock
It is the most basic protection of women for themselves
Recently
Unmarried pregnancies and Bongzi marriages are becoming more and more popular
Because today's young people are becoming more and more open
I also love freedom more and more
So wait until you get pregnant with a child
Only to have to catch the ducks on the shelves
Hurry up and get married
It's like marriage
It's because of the kids that we're together
In fact, unmarried pregnancy is for girls
It is an act with great risk
First unmarried and first pregnant
Whether or not a man can marry you is not guaranteed
If not
Then the damage to the body and reputation is huge
If you wish
Then this kind of behavior will also reduce your position in the in-laws' family
Because it is true that many mothers-in-law know that their daughter-in-law is pregnant
I want to give a discount to the bride price
Even not paying the bride price
It is because of the impact of eating a child on a woman
If you really meet such a bargaining in-laws
Then this marriage is also uncomfortable
In the end, if you are lucky enough
Then on the wedding day
There will also be people who will privately discuss the fact that the bride is pregnant before marriage
In fact, every girl's first marriage should be perfect
Protect yourself
Don't let getting pregnant before marriage become a small regret
04
For girls
Getting married is a lifelong event
When we were young
You will fantasize about your romantic wedding
In fact, whether the wedding is luxurious or simple
Most importantly
Still the one who can put you in the palm of your hand
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