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Now is an impetuous society, especially young people who have just entered society, always look at nothing well.
Especially on the issue of difficulty in getting married, many people attribute the reason for not being able to marry a wife to the sky-high bride price, is this really the case?
Now more and more people are abandoning themselves, they think that their efforts can not change the future, and they dare not think about marrying a wife and having children, the reason is very simple, there is no money, no car, no house, no woman to marry him, this kind of thinking is extremely ridiculous.
Migrant workers marry and have children in public toilets
If you have experienced the blow of reality, it is understandable to give birth to this kind of thinking, but most people just make excuses for their cowardice and laziness, and the mentality determines everything!
Zeng Lingjun, who worked hard in Shenyang, is the best example, although he was born poor, although he had no capital, although he had no connections, and although he had no eloquence, he still lived a life of wife and children, and in the process, no one had given him help.
Migrant workers make their homes in 20 square meters of public toilets
This public toilet of less than 20 square meters is the home of Zeng Lingjun, who when he first entered the city, made a living by shining shoes and distributing keys. Although the income is only enough to maintain a basic life, Zeng Lingjun is full of hope for the future, after all, Shenyang is a big city, as long as you are willing to endure hardships, your life will definitely get better and better in the future.
To save money, he rented a public toilet in a small hotel, a brand new, unused public toilet that had been left unused because the owner temporarily changed the use of the room.
One stay is 5 years
Zeng Lingjun also did not expect that this rent is 5 years, in this 5 years, Zeng Lingjun worked hard for his dreams, although the wallet did not obviously bulge, but his life was more and more hopeful.
In the third year of renting a toilet, Zeng Lingjun met a girl who set up a stall to sell fruits, and the simple characteristics of the migrant workers made the girl feel good, and Zeng Lingjun was also impressed by this hard-working girl.
After nearly a year together, the two rented a room in the hotel to become relatives, no wedding car, only a few wedding photos that made them look like treasures.
Dare to think and dare to do, anything is possible
The next year, a healthy and cute baby fell to the ground, and the laughter of the family of three was more intense, although the conditions were simple, but looking at the innocent smile of his son, Zeng Lingjun and his wife were full of confidence in the future.
At present, Zeng Lingjun and his wife and children have already moved out of this public toilet, although he can't afford to buy a house for the time being, but he believes that in front of the efforts of two people, the down payment is only a matter of time, just like marrying a wife and having children, if he doesn't even dare to think about it, naturally he can't do it.
"No one knows if you can succeed or not, but how do you know if you can't do it without trying it?" This was Zeng Lingjun's heartfelt words.
The difficulty of getting married has nothing to do with the sky-high bride price!
In today's society, the problem of marrying a wife is becoming more and more prominent, and it is not excluded that some people are blocked by the sky-high bride price, but the sky-high bride price is only an individual phenomenon after all, and most marriages do not exist at a sky-high bride price.
And in some places, the sky-high bride price is only a formality, the woman is brought back when she gets married, and the mother-in-law does not leave any points, and the bride price is only for face.
I believe that a boy with responsibility and courage, a reasonable mother-in-law will not object, the premise is that he dares to think and dare to do it, and can be responsible.
Of course, there are indeed many phenomena of getting married now, but the proportion of marriage without a car and no house is also quite large, do not just stare at individual cases, marriage is basically two feelings of pleasure, not the exchange of interests, impure marriage is never doomed to the end.
In fact, marriage pays attention to the door to the household, this standard is not outdated in any era, the door when the outdoor does not only refer to economic strength, education, insight, three views, family education must be matched, marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also involves the original family of both sides.
No matter what era, character is the primary consideration, girls looking for objects should examine each other's responsibility and courage, boys looking for objects to pay attention to character and three views, appearance is secondary. Well, today is here, Jiajia hopes that each issue of the story can bring friends a little emotional thinking, like Jiajia please pay attention to me, to the article like collection recommended Oh, thank you we will see you in the next issue ~