Is free love also wrong? Looking at the poetry classics, free love before confucianism is the tradition of the Chinese nation.
How was Confucius born? He was born after his 64-year-old father and young and beautiful mother fell in love freely and wildly.
What's wrong with me falling in love, does it also need to ask for someone else's consent?
The history I am telling today is about some things about the free love of the predecessors, the heaviest one happened in our village, a true and touching story that is still often talked about by the old people.
1. Black talk about free love
I don't know what you call it there, but for our old people here, when they were young, they called free love "hanging stubble", Beijingers called "pat mother-in-law", and some places called "ka-ka-ka", "fishing sister", "sister-in-law" or "Anna Karenina".
At that time, it was risky to talk about a free love, so some people could only engage in underground activities.
In the whole animal kingdom, almost all animals are looking for their mates and breeding freely, is this not the most fundamental right and freedom that nature has given to animals?
2. People may be called second-rate or rogue
From ancient times to the present, how many stories of love have you seen?
From Zhuo Wenjun and Sima Xiangru's "Feng Qiu Huang" to Tang Wan and Lu You's "Baotou Feng", from Cangyang Gyatso's "Lover" to Li Zhiyi's "Bu Suanzi", in addition to the Ming Dynasty, which revered the science of science, there was a dynasty that did not vigorously celebrate free love?
But if you look at this girl, and see if she is restrained and cautious in the face of the boy she likes, is it not a very different twist?
If she really didn't want her to leave long ago, would she still pretend to stand there?
If young men and women do not hook up, if young men and women do not talk to you and me, if young men and women talk about love and pretend to be serious, is that normal?
3, what's wrong with wearing flared pants
Is it also wrong for me to wear a dress I like and pursue a girl I like? What about the Low-cut Dress in the Tang Dynasty, did this affect the Tang Dynasty?'
By the way, today's kimonos and katana are all learned by the Japanese from China, and even Japan's ancient buildings and tea ceremonies are from China, but many people don't know it.
If you wear a pair of flared pants, someone scolds you, or just comes up to a few people and pushes you down, and then cuts your pants for you, what will you think?
4, marriage is a very happy thing
If even eating becomes a problem, is it possible for the children in the family to go to school? But to their embarrassment, when they were married, illiterate people were asked to recite three long texts, and there was no mistake in the middle, and if they didn't memorize it, they couldn't do it.
They don't even know the words, you let them memorize the article, isn't that embarrassing them?
In order to memorize those three articles, some of the old people in the village took three months to pass.
When people teach a sentence, they follow it, work during the day, memorize articles at night, learn to forget, forget to learn, and finally you can marry your daughter-in-law.
5. Sharp contrast
These two can be described as real handsome men and women, but if you look at their wedding photos, are they serious enough to be daunting?
Do they look like this in private? Definitely not, but as long as they say that taking pictures, when they say that taking pictures should be used in formal occasions, they must pretend to look like this.
Does life still make sense when everyone lives in falsehood?
6, this is a wedding photo from 1947
You read that right, even today, the outfit is still not outdated, but this wedding photo was taken in 1947, when young people were still relatively free and fashionable.
Do you know who these two are? This beautiful woman who looks exactly like Zhao Yazhi is called Jiang Ying, and this handsome guy is called Qian Xuesen, and they are also free love.
Jiang Ying, who studied in Germany and the United States, is an internationally award-winning musical genius, and her father was the first General Jiang Baili to propose a protracted war to defeat the Japanese army.
In addition, Jiang Ying also had several old cousins and relatives, namely Lin Huiyin, Jin Yong, Lin Juemin, Xu Zhimo, Qiong Yao and Cao Shizhong.
7. "The Story of the Big Braid"
For young men and women at that time, they were willing to watch a movie, even if they ran ten miles with their legs.
Because the winter was very cold at that time, girls usually wore large cotton jackets when they went to the movies, but adult boys were proud to wear military coats, even if they did not have one at home, they had to wear one to watch movies.
When the movie is at its best, a girl in front of her habitually throws her braid back because she is too excited, and it is no coincidence that the book is not a book, and the girl's braid is not biased and hangs on a button at the neckline of a young man's army coat in the back.
At that time, when a boy encountered such a thing, he would never dare to do anything, and he could only pretend that nothing had happened and continue to watch, and this matter could only be solved by girls.
Since the boy was tall and the girl was short, she could only tiptoe her head up to untie the braids hanging from the neckline of the boy.
Embarrassed and shy, she was slow to resolve, and in the process she couldn't help but look at the young man a few more times, and this look saw the story coming.
Only to see his tall figure of one meter eighty-five, Chinese character face, thick sword eyebrows, face like a full moon white and clean, hands like a fan big and wide, what is even more incredible is that he actually has a pair of small dimples, coupled with shyness, so big a young man actually has a silly baby face, so that girls can't help but laugh out loud.
This laugh is not tight, and the boy is even more embarrassed. The embarrassment returned to embarrassment, but the boy still couldn't help but sneak a peek at the naughty girl, which was unbearable.
Only to see her petite figure, exquisite and cute. Melon face, willow leaf eyebrows, eyes like autumn water, Qiong nose and vermilion lips, there are three points of mimosa and seven points of delicacy between the eyebrows, so that people can never forget it after watching it.
Originally, this was just a little insignificant emotional ripple between young men and women, but it happened that the land of the two parts of them was still connected, and at that time, there was sometimes a big union between the part and the part, one came and went, one was young, the other was soft and affectionate, and the two were secretly getting better.
If according to common sense, this pair can also be regarded as a talented woman, then wouldn't it be good to get married?
The problem was that they were free love, plus the girl was pregnant at the time, and what was even more frightening was that she had already been targeted because she was too beautiful.
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At first it was just a fight, pumped with thorny thorns. Later, he wrapped her upside down like a bat with a straw mat, hanging straight to her nose and mouth with blood, and hanging straight to the fetus in her abdomen. Even so, the girl gritted her teeth and refused to confide in half a word about the young man.
They saw that the girl's life was in danger, and it was August 15th, so they let her go.
On the night the girl escaped, she secretly shoved a yellow handkerchief through the crack in the door into her lover's house, and then she went to the Westland.
There was an old arch bridge in the west of the village, and there was an old well next to the bridge, and the girl threw all her love, hatred and youth into that old well.
In order to attract the attention of others, the girl took off her little red jacket by the well before jumping into the well.
Since then, every full moon night, some of our people here have said that they have seen a girl standing on the side of the bridge with a small red jacket on her head, and in this way, this story has been passed down to this day.
When the young man learned of all this, he fell seriously ill, and this illness lasted for more than a year.
For more than a year, the young man did not go to the door and only hid at home to make a few boxes.
Later, when his life was better, he started the business of recycling garbage, starting with a bicycle full of zhuangzi, then he established a recycling station, and then he became the boss of a garbage processing center worth tens of millions.
Because the young man is tall and handsome, plus he is also very capable, there are always people in the village who introduce him to the object, and the introduction is also one of the most beautiful girls in the eight villages, but every time he always shakes his head and smiles, this smile has been laughing for more than 60 years.
Because the young man's family has many brothers and sisters, their family has more land, and when the boy's family got a large field with an area of 8 acres, he built a humble earthen grave in the middle of the field, the grave is not large, and there is no stone stele.
The young man usually does not smoke, but every year on August 15th, he would always run to the small bridge where the girl jumped into the well to smoke a cigarette for one night, no matter whether it was windy or rainy, more than 60 years later, he was never absent.
Just last year, the former handsome boy also passed away, and the nephew who inherited his furniture buried him in the same grave he had built for himself 60 years ago according to his will.
When the ground was broken, the villagers dug up a paint box in the earthen grave with extremely exquisite workmanship.
Out of curiosity, everyone carefully opened the box.
But to the surprise of the villagers, there was also a box in the box, which opened layer after layer, and this box was completely nine layers. When they opened the last box, they thought it was a valuable artifact or antique, but the last box contained an ordinary yellow handkerchief that had withered yellow to mold.