■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
■ Original works, plagiarism must be investigated
01, preface.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been the most controversial topic. When a woman marries, the mother-in-law will think that another woman has taken her son, so she will often have some opinion of her daughter-in-law. Some of the things done by the daughter-in-law affect the mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law will think that the daughter-in-law will not understand herself, and will feel that the current daughter-in-law is too picky. When the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law have a conflict, they will also think that the mother-in-law does not know how to love herself, always asks too much of herself, and feels that she is not good.
If the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not resolved, it is always a hurdle that affects the harmonious relationship of the whole family. In the past, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may have focused more on the uneven interests, while the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the present is more concentrated on ideological concepts and lifestyles. How to correctly handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I think, the role of the son in the middle is very important. It can be said that the role of the son can determine the direction of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because the mother-in-law has troubles, she tells her son; the daughter-in-law has been wronged and wants to pour out to her husband. Therefore, the key to completely solving the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still in the son. If the son has some problems, he will not be able to control the direction of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The story of netizen Song Xiaonan has sounded an alarm bell for us.
02, Song Xiaonan is not high or low, but when he reaches thirty, he marries a small fresh meat.
Song Xiaonan is an employee of a foreign company in Jiangcheng. Because she is tall, white and beautiful, there is no shortage of suitors around her. But her eyes are high and low, she picks and chooses the pursuits around her, and slowly misses the most beautiful flowering period. When she reached her age of thirty, she suddenly realized that there was no one around her to pursue her. At the urging of her parents, she began to be intimate with others.
The second aunt introduced her to a 27-year-old boy. The young man's name was Ma Xiaolong, and he looked white and clean, and he was a small fresh meat. Song Xiaonan had a good impression of Ma Xiaolong, and Ma Xiaolong seemed to prefer the older opposite sex. At the instigation of the second aunt and under the attack of the sugar-coated shell of the "female junior holding the golden brick", Song Xiaonan and Ma Xiaolong fell in love. Half a year later, they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a marriage certificate, and thirty-year-old Song Xiaonan married himself.
03, in order to manage the marriage, she endured humiliation and burden, but Ma Baonan only knew how to play and have fun.
After marrying Ma Xiaolong, Song Xiaonan decided that she wanted to run the marriage well. Her old husband Ma Xiaolong has a somewhat cowardly personality and is also very boyish. Later, she slowly realized that her husband Ma Xiaolong was actually a ma bao man (ma bao man, an Internet buzzword, refers to a man who always likes to listen to his mother's words, always thinks that his mother is right, and the man who is centered on his mother is a child who is spoiled by his mother). Because he lived under the protection of his mother since he was a child, only his mother's orders were obedient, so he created his obedient and blindly obedient character.
Her husband is like a child who has not grown up, and Song Xiaonan feels that her back mountain is very empty. But she believes that her husband will always grow, as long as she manages the marriage well, slowly, her family is solid, she has children, Ma Xiaolong will take the initiative to assume the responsibility of the family and grow into a responsible man. However, Ma Xiaolong's performance disappointed her a little, he seemed to only know how to work every day, watch TV and play games after work, and did not help Song Xiaonan with housework.
04, Song Xiaonan bitterly advised her husband, who was like a child who had not grown up.
Seeing that her husband was so indisputable, although Song Xiaonan was disappointed, she did not give up transforming her husband. She knows that a real marriage needs to be managed, and her husband is younger than her, so she must learn to be tolerant and learn to guide her husband. Therefore, every day when she came home from work, she would ask her husband to help her with some housework, and then ask him to accompany her out for a walk.
However, Ma Xiaolong did housework for a few days and walked with her for a while, and he was not happy. He said that he had his mother come to the city to help them with their chores, so that they could go to work every day and have a hot meal when they came home from work. Song Xiaonan also had a reason to think about it, she knew that having one more mother-in-law in the family might be able to make her husband obedient, and at the same time reduce her burden. After having children, I will need the help of my mother-in-law even more.
05, the mother-in-law came down from the countryside to hold her grandson, and often stewed chicken soup for her daughter-in-law to drink.
In this way, Song Xiaonan's mother-in-law came to the city from the countryside. In fact, the mother-in-law is very painful to Song Xiaonan, she also knows that her son is not very contentious, and although her daughter-in-law is older, she is still a woman with a lot of identity and will also make money. To this end, when she came to the home of her son and daughter-in-law, she worked hard every day to do housework, organize the things in the house in an orderly manner, and make the family warm.
However, what moved Song Xiaonan even more was that her mother-in-law often stewed chicken soup for Song Xiaonan to drink. The cuttlefish stewed black chicken stewed by the mother-in-law is delicious and the soup is thick, and Song Xiaonan likes to drink it very much. Every time the black chicken soup is stewed, the mother-in-law will always scoop the best chicken pieces to the daughter-in-law. She said, "Daughter-in-law, you are also my child, and I will take care of your body so that you can give me a big fat grandson." Listening to her mother-in-law's words, Song Xiaonan was stunned for a moment, and she thought to herself: It turned out that her mother-in-law stewed black chicken soup, just so that she could hold a grandson early.
06, three years later, the daughter-in-law's stomach did not move, and the mother-in-law was so angry that she scolded mulberry every day.
However, no matter what, Song Xiaonan was still full of gratitude to her mother-in-law. She also wants to have a child early, so that her family is old and young, and the family is happy and harmonious together, like a family. However, time passed year by year, Song Xiaonan's stomach was still not angry, and after three years of marriage with Ma Xiaolong, she still could not get pregnant.
Slowly, the mother-in-law became a little impatient, and she often talked at home about those in her hometown who were about the same grade as Song Xiaonan and had several children. After saying that, she also deliberately pointed out that Sang Huai said that she had a hen that could not lay eggs at home, and she wondered when she would go back and slaughter this useless hen. After Song Xiaonan listened, she felt strange, and she wondered if she was the chicken that would not lay eggs as her mother-in-law said.
07, the daughter-in-law returned from the night shift and her mother-in-law stewed soup, but deliberately misbehaved her to drink.
One night, Song Xiaonan returned from night shift and found that her mother-in-law had stewed a pot of black chicken soup. She was so happy that she thought her mother-in-law would scoop another bowl of black chicken soup in front of her. Sure enough, when the mother-in-law saw Song Xiaonan, she picked up a white porcelain bowl and filled a large bowl of black chicken soup. However, she did not bring the black chicken soup to Song Xiaonan,but sat at the dinner table and ate it herself.
Song Xiaonan's stomach was too hungry, the smell of black chicken soup was fragrant, she really couldn't stand the temptation, so she picked up the rice bowl and went to serve black chicken soup. At this time, the mother-in-law stood up, and she said loudly: "XiaoNan, this remaining black chicken soup is not for you to eat, it is for Ma Xiaolong to eat." Song Xiaonan was stunned, she pointed to the big pot of black chicken soup and asked, "There is so much chicken soup in here, how about I drink a bowl?" ”
08, the mother-in-law quarreled with the man like a deflated ball, and the daughter-in-law took out the report that the mother-in-law had completely lost her temper.
At this moment, the mother-in-law's anger came up. She pointed at Song Xiaonan's stomach and scolded, "Song Xiaonan, for three years, you won't give me a grandson, even if it's a granddaughter." Every day I go back to my hometown in the countryside, I am questioned and ridiculed by others, do you know what it is like? Daughter-in-law, you haven't had a baby in three years, don't drink this black chicken soup! ”
Hearing that her mother-in-law was so unreasonable, Song Xiaonan was also angry, and she asked her mother-in-law loudly: "For three years, I can't have a baby, I blame me for this?" The mother-in-law sneered: "I don't blame you for this, who else can I blame?" Song Xiaonan walked into the room, took out a physical examination report, and threw it in front of her mother-in-law: "Mother-in-law, do you see whose problem it is?" The mother-in-law picked up the inspection report and found that it was Ma Xiaolong's inability to have children, and at this time, she completely lost her temper.
09, Conclusion.
Song Xiaonan picked up the bag and walked out of his house breathlessly. Before leaving, she said to her mother-in-law: "Mother-in-law, I didn't want to tell you about this matter, it was you who went too far, and I revealed the truth." For the sake of this family, I endured humiliation and burden, but I didn't expect to get your finger mulberry and unreasonable trouble, and now I am ready to divorce your son! Because, I want a child myself! Looking at the figure of her daughter-in-law leaving, Song Xiaonan's mother-in-law sat on the ground in frustration.
Friends, the mother-in-law does not let the daughter-in-law drink black chicken soup on the grounds that the daughter-in-law cannot have children for three years. Is it too much for the mother-in-law to do this? After the mother-in-law quarreled, the daughter-in-law threw out the examination report of her husband's body, which made the mother-in-law lose her temper, Song Xiaonan did this, right? Where do you think the main reason for the contradiction between Song Xiaonan and her mother-in-law appears? And that Ma Xiaolong, do you think he is too incompetent, too cowardly? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.
【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms accumulated millions of fan authors, the major platforms cumulative clicks more than 500 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.