Many people think that after a woman is married, she should abide by the way of women, keep a distance from friends of the opposite sex, and even if there is no ambiguous relationship, she must know how to avoid suspicion.
After all, there is a saying in life that people are fearful, but why are there many married women nowadays, doing the opposite, like to eat with the opposite sex of their older ones?
So why do more and more married women like to eat with the opposite sex who are older?
Today I interviewed 2 women who like to eat with the older opposite sex, let's listen to what they have to say.
01. Ms. Li, aged 28
I am 28 years old, married, my husband and I have been married for 1 year, we have no children, and the reason why we don't have children now is because we both feel that the salary is barely enough to support us.
Instead of having children and not giving him a good living environment, it is better to be born for 2 years, if you ask me, why do more and more married women like to eat with the opposite sex who are older?
I think marriage is the destination of love, but this does not restrict the right of married women to make friends, to be honest, my husband and I still have their own friends of the opposite sex after marriage.
And basically when we have free time, we will go to dinner alone, and my husband will never be jealous, because I am not against him having friends of the opposite sex.
I think the most important thing in a marriage is to trust each other.
A complete woman does not mean that with marriage, you have to abandon friendship, but friendship and marriage coexist.
02. Ms. Zhao, 37 years old
I am 37 years old, married, my husband and I have been married for 10 years, have 2 children, although we were married on a blind date, but my relationship with my husband is particularly good.
My husband and I are both college graduates, my husband is an old man, and his work is stable everywhere, so his monthly salary is simply not enough to manage car loans, mortgages, and family expenses.
So I couldn't do it 2 years ago, I quit my job and applied for a sales job, many people know how to make money doing sales, but not many people can understand the hard work of sales.
Nowadays, sales work is very competitive, in addition to becoming brothers and sisters with customers, but also inviting customers to dinner.
Because developing a new client, the picture is that you can work together for a long time, to be honest, my husband understands my work very well and trusts me.
But my mother-in-law is different, she has been with me all day nose is not nose, face is not face, always feel that I do not keep the way of women, corrupt the family style.
But I am not in order to make more money, sign contracts with others, and it is also very normal to invite customers to dinner, besides, if a woman marries a man who can support the family.
What woman in the world does not want to open her hands in clothes and open her mouth in food, so why touch the cold nails of customers?
Conclusion: It seems that more and more married women nowadays like to eat alone with the opposite sex of their older self, and it is not as bad as we think.
The vast majority of married women, who like to go out to eat alone with their older friends of the opposite sex, are only because of the compulsion of life and the needs of work.
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