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Sister Chun, 54 years old, a woman who still has charm even if she is old.
Once, she was a carefree and happy "little grandmother".
Her husband was in business and made a lot of money.
Sister Chun only needs to teach her husband and children at home, and never has to worry about all the expenses of the family.
Her husband is a business tycoon outside and a gentle and considerate husband and father at home.
Every winter and summer vacation, the family will travel by car.
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When the children go to school, Sister Chun will go shopping with her sisters, go to the gym, go to the beauty and beauty...
Sister Chun was very satisfied with such a life, thinking that she would be so happy for a lifetime.
Therefore, she never wanted to save money to invest in the past and plan for the future.
Anyway, with her husband's fixed sea needle and ATM, she was very relieved.
However, the weather is unpredictable.
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Just last year, her husband's business was investigated for tax evasion, and not only paid the huge taxes and fees owed, but also went to jail.
His husband knew that the outcome was a fiasco, so in the process of investigation, he and Sister Chun divorced.
Sister Chun is willing to agree to divorce, naturally not because of the imminent catastrophe.
But because of this storm, Sister Chun found that her model husband actually had two young lovers outside...
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After the divorce, ChunJie could not accept the sudden blow and life changes, and became moody and depressed.
In order to appease her and enlighten her, her sisters accompanied her to go shopping and accompany her to travel to relax...
Chun Jie also found that only desperately spending money could relieve her sorrows.
She didn't know if she really wanted to spend, or if she was desperately trying to spend the money he left behind to get revenge on her husband?
In this way, in half a year, Sister Chun almost spent all her savings.
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So much so that when her daughter, who went to college, asked her for tuition, she found that the balance was insufficient.
She didn't have enough savings, so she asked the sisters to borrow it, but the good sisters who had eaten her flowers suddenly disappeared.
They all have their own reasons! Either the son wants money to buy a house, or retires with too little salary...
Only she herself knew that they saw that she had no use value, so they turned away from her.
This is the reality, and she cannot afford not to accept it.
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Without the spiritual companionship and economic support of the so-called sisters, Sister Chun found that her world of flowers and flowers turned into a dark abyss overnight.
Imitation anxiety, suffering from gain and loss...
It took her a long time to slowly accept the change in reality.
I have not worked for more than thirty years, and I am no longer suitable for going out to work for others.
Sister Chun, who has no income and is desperate, listens to her family's advice and decides to remarry a man, support herself, and subsidize daily expenses.
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"You look well-maintained, it's easy to find a man to remarry, don't waste this beautiful good skin bag." 」
But where is the right man so easy to find?
In particular, her requirements are relatively high:
Under the age of 60, height of more than 1.75, weight does not exceed 140 pounds, the appearance of the upper.
The monthly income of more than 20,000 yuan, all of which is handed over to her, at her disposal, and there is no objection.
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This side of the blind date can not be a suitable object, there hair and beauty must continue, otherwise stop not maintenance in the middle, then the previous ten years will be wasted.
She can't accept graceful aging and can only rely on beauty needles to maintain her youthful beauty.
When she had no money, she borrowed money from relatives and borrowed money from her own family.
If they were afraid that Sister Chun would not have to borrow it, she would say, "My house is worth millions, are you still afraid that I can't afford it?" ”
However, only she herself knows that the 120-square-meter house where she lives is named after her ex-mother-in-law.
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She had wondered before, why wasn't the head of the household name her?
But her husband was too clever, and he was confused by a few words.
Sister Chun never doubted any of her husband's actions and words, and whatever he said was what he said.
In her heart, she is a simple, nervous person, who does not have much opinion and the city government.
Her mother-in-law also looked at the grandchildren's sake and did not take back the house.
In this way, without a penny of income, she successively owed 70,000 or 80,000 foreign debts.
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Because of this, she is more and more eager to find a man to support her for the rest of her life.
She also slowly lowered the high requirements for the man at the beginning to only one point: willing to give her money to spend, and the rest did not matter.
Her requirements have been reduced, and there are naturally more people who are willing to go on a blind date with her.
After all, there are not many women in their 50s, who are as young and beautiful as she is, and who are full of charm in their hands and feet.
Especially in this blind date.
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During this time, she kissed many men.
At the beginning, they were all very satisfied with Sister Chun and were willing to look everywhere.
Some are even willing to argue with her on the first occasion of meeting, and accompany her for a lifetime.
But
Whenever she mentioned that after marriage, she would give her her income for safekeeping and the housework would be done by men, and they would retreat.
Sister Chun was rejected more times and failed, and she summed up her experience.
She decided not to mention the money at first, so as not to scare the other party away.
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She believes that you should first show your charm and let the other party know that she is not only an intellectually elegant woman, but also a good wife who has to go up to the kitchen and stay at home.
Let the other party love so much that when you can't extricate yourself, then the conditions will be put forward, then everything will come to fruition.
Now that men marry wives, they seek to be virtuous, and she strives to create an image in that regard.
Sure enough, her method worked.
The first blind date after changing the strategy met a man with good financial conditions.
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His surname is Zhang, 60 years old, divorced for many years, with a monthly income of about 22,000, and two houses and two cars under his name.
His height and weight are in line with the requirements that Chun Jie mentioned at the beginning.
The only fly in the ointment is his appearance, not only is it difficult to say anything, but it is also a Mediterranean...
After Chun Jie took the first look at him, she almost didn't dare to look at him for the second time, afraid that she couldn't help but show a disgusted expression.
Sister Chun secretly made a big decision: Endure!
As long as he gives money to spend, turn a blind eye, anyway, turn off the lights at night!
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Mr. Zhang really likes Sister Chun and often sends her flowers and gifts to win a red smile.
After three months of dating, Mr. Zhang came to the door with a set of gold jewelry to propose.
During this period of interaction, Sister Chun has been observing Mr. Zhang, and she has also determined that he has long been deeply rooted in love, and it is time to put forward premarital conditions.
Therefore, Sister Chun was confident and said confidently.
"You have a lot to me, and I am willing to marry you and spend every day with you in the future!" But I have a few prenuptial conditions that you have to promise me and sign the agreement. ”
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"First, after we get married, your income is entrusted to me, I am responsible for arranging the living expenses of the family and my own expenses, you can not interfere, I will give you pocket money." 」
"Second, you have to do all the housework, my face and hands are expensive to maintain, and I can't touch things like fumes and dish soap. You don't want my face and hands to become rough and greasy, that wouldn't be beautiful, and you'd be embarrassed if you took me out. ”
As Sister Chun spoke, she took out the prenuptial agreement from her bag, laid it flat in front of Mr. Zhang, and took out a black watery pen and handed it to him.
This piece of paper, she has been carrying with her since the blind date, just waiting for someone to sign it quickly.
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Mr. Zhang, who originally had a look of anticipation and joy, after listening to Sister Chun's words, did not look at the agreement book, picked up the jewelry box on the coffee table and got up and left.
As he left, he left a message: "Why don't you go to heaven?" You should really stick your ID card on the wall, see how old you are, and remind yourself at all times, so as not to live in an 18-year-old dream. ”
Looking at the door that had been vigorously thrown, Sister Chun sighed disappointedly: "Alas, when it comes to money, she changes her face, and she is a scumbag who wants to be a white prostitute and wants to find a free nanny!" ”
summary
There is a reward to pay, there is no gratuitous fate, and there is no one who will only give without asking for returns!
No matter who you are, what age you are, only relying on your own efforts to earn money is king.
Relying on blind dates to find a long-term meal ticket, I find it difficult! Especially after people reach old age.
Are you right?