Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
Whether a person has a career or not, many times, is actually not a natural fate, but in their own later grasp of fate.
Because although each of us has different things innately, the wealth that we are born with is only a small part of life, and more is the inner strength cultivated by the day after tomorrow.
Details determine success or failure, and details can also see a person's true ability. Don't think that the habit of eating does not prove anything, in fact, the real art of recognizing people is in this.
You know, some habits and details of things, many times in the process of growing up gradually developed, is carved on the bones, easy to change.
We can't get along with a person for a long time to understand each other's real character, but we can see each other clearly from the habits of a person when eating.
A person, no matter how he usually talks, how to disguise Sven, as soon as he arrives at the dinner table, he begins to expose his true face. At the dinner table, people with these three performances often have no ability.
Likes to talk big and show off themselves.
Being humble is a kind of maturity.
The reason why a person goes to show off is only afraid that others will think that he is not good, incompetent, and look down on him. Really powerful people know how to hide their sharp edges, low-key and introverted. On the contrary, those who have no skills like to shout at the dinner table. Their colloquialism is also often "where, where, small things are not worth mentioning".
A person loves to show off something because of something missing. Showing off will only expose your superficiality, ignorance, and stupidity. Show off your superiority and show off your strengths, it won't increase your score, it will only pull down your character.
A person who speaks knows how to divide and speak, and speaks just right, which also reflects his emotional intelligence. Some people drink two more glasses of wine and talk about it, talking loudly and bragging, which is even more superficial and uncultured.
Like to meet the source left and right, and to seduce others.
It is better to rely on who is on one's own, and there is no need to curry favor with anyone. Don't think of the people at the dinner table as "connections".
Networking is not how many people you know, but how many people know you. The key is how many people who know you approve of you.
You don't have the ability yourself, and it is useless to know more people. Become a noble person of others, and only adults will reach themselves.
People are not poor, they are their biggest backer, only by relying on themselves, life will not lose, in order to live the life they want. The more capable people are, the less they will use dinner to manage their connections!
Likes to complain and complain at the dinner table.
There has never been empathy in this world, only like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
Many people like to complain about various complaints at the dinner table as soon as they encounter things. In him you see always full of negative energy.
People who really have the ability do not like to complain. People who are really capable are not willing to complain to others. When he encounters a problem, he will find a way to work hard and find a way to solve the problem. He doesn't waste time complaining.
Don't complain, complaining will only bring harm, it will drain your energy and destroy your confidence. Have you found anything? Those who like to complain at the dinner table are often incompetent, and the more they complain, the worse they get.
Don't suffer a little, just go around saying, don't complain about people all the time. Life ebbs and flows, do not show off when you are proud, do not complain when you are frustrated, and leave this silence to yourself. Really powerful people never chatter at the dinner table.
Wheat message: From the dinner table, you can see a person's ability.
You look at others at the dinner table, and others look at you at the dinner table. The relationship between Chinese meals is confused, and the kung fu of a few meals can see a person's ability.
Eating is the most social way that ordinary people often get together, whether familiar or unfamiliar, everyone gets together to eat, from everyone's speech and behavior, you can see personal cultivation and conduct.
Wondering if a person really has the ability to have a meal with him, you will immediately understand. People with these three performances at the dinner table often have no real skills, and they don't have deep friendships when they meet.
There is no end to this life, only by constantly moving forward and constantly accumulating the capital of life can we make ourselves stronger and more successful.
Remember, there is no end to the struggle, and if you stop the struggle, you will stop, or even go backwards. Being a person, not satisfied with the status quo, every day must continue to work hard, in order to spell out a lifetime of happiness.