Text: Cradle of Love
Use the simplest words to give you warmth, give you companionship, lead you to grow, and help you be strong.
For love, everyone has expectations and fantasies, men are eager to meet their own Snow White, women are eager to meet their own Prince Charming, and then fall in love violently, and they will be in love for a lifetime.
But love is far more complicated than we think, and it can even be said to be much more realistic.
Love, not only the wind and snow, but also the chai rice oil and salt, can not be separated from the trivialities of life.
Otherwise, how can people say that love is ultimately lost to reality, even if it starts with appearance, falls into talent, and is loyal to character.
No matter how beautiful love is, it is difficult to escape the consumption of time, and it is difficult to escape the consumption of trivialities, and eventually the reality will be fragmented.
The last thing I want to hear is who broke up with whom and who divorced whom.
I hope that all lovers will eventually become dependents, and a love is a lifetime.
But where in this world is there eternity, will the person you love really love you for a lifetime? It can even be said that your love will really last a lifetime, unchanged?
Perhaps, the answer, even you don't know.
In the passage of time, we are changing, and feelings are also feelings, maybe better and better, but most of them are getting worse and worse.
Most love, love, love, that's it...
From sweet talk, it became a constant quarrel
All love starts from liking, and that liking is the heart and emotion of the heart.
When the two people first got together, the love was very strong, and I couldn't help but sweetly talk sweetly, saying all the love words I liked and loved.
Those sweet words, some flesh and hemp, some strong feelings, are the true emotions of the heart, are the truth that can be learned by the sun and the moon.
In the days when they were just together, the two people were wrapped in sweet words, and happiness and sweetness filled the whole soul.
I thought that the days would go on like that, and I would talk sweetly for the rest of my life.
However, I don't know when sweet words became less and less, and in the end there was not even a love word, not even a good word.
Quarrels have become the main theme and have become commonplace.
When the two people are together, they can no longer hear sweet words, but the quarrel of ghosts crying wolves is heard.
Since then, there has been no more harmony, no more tranquility.
In the end, any little thing can become the fuse of noise. Three days a big quarrel, two days a small quarrel, I want to argue several times a day.
How did I not think of it, how it became more than half a sentence without speculation, two sentences can quarrel, and can no longer communicate happily.
From active hugging, it has become conflicting with each other
In the little couple, you will find that they are always me and can't help but get close to each other.
In that way, they seem to have a special magnetic field on their bodies, attracting each other, unable to control their emotions and hearts, unable to suppress their impulses and desires.
Hugging and kissing is a way for them to express their emotions, expressing love and expressing affection.
I want to hug each other all the time, even when I sleep.
However, in the case of old husbands and wives, they rarely see such a phenomenon, but they want to stay away from each other and do not like to get close at all.
Echoing the saying, "Be a husband and wife during the day and be a neighbor at night." ”
When I go to bed at night, I can't wait to sleep in separate beds, sleep on my own, not close, not close, no hugs and kisses.
During the day, it is only called husband and wife, but there has never been the sweetness and romance of a husband and wife, and it will not be close and close.
I don't know when it began, from active closeness to each other to resistance, from the heart to the outside.
There are even couples who call each other "brothers in the dormitory", and there is no marriage between me and me, let alone the glue like paint in the imagination.
From inseparable, it has become a solitary
Two people who have just established a relationship, one of the favorite things is to get tired of being together and eager not to be separated for 24 hours.
With the other party around, the heart is solid, and it is the most comfortable and comfortable.
When the other party is not around, the heart will be empty, there will be special thoughts, and the heart is not solid, as if there is a stone hanging in the heart.
Inseparable is the most common gesture after falling in love.
As soon as you have time, you will be with you, tired and crooked together, enjoy the beautiful time of the two, immersed in the happy world of two people.
But after being together for a long time, they are less sticky, and they do not like to stick together more and more, but they are more eager for independent space.
Many times, I like to be alone, quiet myself, do some of my own things, and don't like to be disturbed and questioned by the other party.
Gradually, they no longer take the initiative to accompany, and even if they are free, they are no longer tired of being together.
More often, it becomes solitary, running around alone, staying alone, completely independent of each other.
Time can witness love, but it can also change love.
A lot of feelings, love, love, change the taste, the feelings fade, the heart also changes, the original love disappears.
Of course, when the love dissipates, the two people will slowly disperse, it is only a matter of time.
Long-lasting love, very little, so there are so many breakups, so many divorces.
Who doesn't want to choose a city to grow old and be white in one person, but the reality is cruel and always backfires.
Love fades, scatter it, after all, fate is destined, half a point by people. Some feelings, some people, simply can't force it.
Some people, after all, are just your passers-by, one is different and two wide, each has its own joy, and it is also a good choice.
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Author: Love to read, love to write, love to think, dare to love and dare to hate the northern girl. A freelance writer, an emotional mentor who has helped countless people out of psychological difficulties.