"Heart Dwelling" has been broadcast for more than half of the time, but it is clear that the show is going out of balance.
Haiqing drama has been greatly reduced, since the discovery of business opportunities in the community nursing home, has been busy looking for investment in Zhan Xiang, and there has been no progress in other lines, of course, it is in this kind of back-and-forth exchange, the relationship between the two is also further heated up, laying the groundwork for the follow-up together.
At this time, the main line gave way to Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, telling their married life, and of course, there was a side line Gu Xinyue's married life. The plot has developed to this day, and it can be seen that both couples have a marital crisis.
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan's flash marriage, unexpected by everyone, of course, was also questioned from the family, but after all, raw rice cooked mature rice, the family has no choice, especially Shi Yuan's mother finally began to accept Gu Qingyu, but for Shi Yuan, there was a problem, in the face of such an excellent wife, as Gu Qingyu's girlfriend said, she is three high women, high education, high value and high income, regardless of whether she exerts pressure on herself, this invisible pressure will make Shi Yuan uncomfortable.
Moreover, Shi Yuan was also facing various debts, his mother's medical treatment costs and many other pressures, which naturally made him anxious and troubled.
Inferiority for a person is difficult to change for a while and a half, Shi Yuan will not pretend to be high like his mother, but clearly see his own gap, but also to disguise the feeling of inferiority, but also give him unlimited motivation, let him work hard, although he can understand gu Qingyu wants to help himself, but after all, as a man, as a husband, it is impossible to promise and accept these.
Gu Qingyu always wanted to help and share, and eventually the contradiction between the two appeared, and the marriage fell into crisis. But they love each other, the three views are still compatible, and they can deal with various problems rationally and maturely, and they will also make their marriages not go to the point of being unmanageable like others.
Just like Gu Xinyue, their marriage also had a crisis, and it was developing towards an uncontrollable point.
Their marriage was doomed to a tragic end from the start.
1. Ge Yue and Gu Xin have different starting points
The feelings between them are not equal. One side is true love, the other is false love.
Ge Yue is true love for Gu Xin, is deep love, and even for love to marry Gu Xin, who is very different from her own family conditions, obviously in her eyes, external material conditions can not stop her pursuit of marital happiness, but she is still too simple and kind, do not understand that the man she loves does not think so.
Gu Xin's love for Ge Yue was false. He was only to climb the high branches, coveting the reputation and wealth of the Ge Yue family, and he was obviously inferior from the small citizen class, of course, his own ability was insufficient, and he was influenced by his parents, and eventually wanted to turn over through the shortcut of marrying his wife.
After all, Ge Yue paid by mistake, and was used and deceived alive.
2, the door is not right
"Door to door" has multiple meanings, but the most subjective is the external family conditions, and Gu Xin and Ge Yue obviously have not achieved reciprocity.
The two people's own marriage starting points are different, coupled with the pressure from the family parents, it is even more so that the marriage crisis can occur at any time.
From Ge Yue's mother's complaints and dislikes of Gu Xin to Gu Xin's mother's complaints and dislikes of Ge Yue, all of this existed from the beginning, and when the changes in Ge Yue's family occurred, it was even more uncontrollable, and it was Gu Xin and Ge Yue who finally suffered.
Gu Xin and his ex-girlfriend Sun Qi broke off the connection, and had a close relationship with Feng Xiqian, which eventually made him step into the abyss of ethics, and Ge Yue went from forbearance to counterattack, and the breakdown of the marriage became inevitable.
In this marriage, Gu Xin is cowardly and hypocritical, although it is related to birth, but it is also created by personality. Unlike Shi Yuan, who is so rational and mature, and has the responsibility to take responsibility, Gu Xin is a scumbag who is free from the ground, and the good woman is naturally often bullied by the scumbag, and can only suffer Ge Yue.
In reality, there are too many people like Gu Xin, it is impossible to prevent, and for women, it is still necessary to polish their eyes, and they need to constantly test and prove whether the other party really loves themselves, rather than immersed in the beautiful love of self-imagination, otherwise the ultimate suffering can only be themselves.
It is normal to have contradictions in married life, but some contradictions are irreconcilable.
Between Feng Suqin and Gu Lei, quarrels have become commonplace, but it can be seen that there is love between them, and the quarrel is really for the sake of each other, although Feng Suqin has a selfish side, but is not the kind of person who is mean and challenges the bottom line, so their marriage is not going to break down, once a problem occurs, it can be solved quickly.
The same is true of Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu, but this is not the case between Gu Xin and Ge Yue, and the most critical reason is that there is no real love between them, especially Gu Xin, personality, origin and many other factors, which ultimately make the marriage crisis of this pair impossible to solve.