Careful care of the sick father-in-law
On February 16, just after returning from the pharmacy, Lang Yanni rushed into the house to see her father-in-law who was resting, tucked the corner of the quilt, and gently touched her forehead, she felt that her father-in-law should have no fever, and she was relieved. It is estimated that after another hour of sleep, my father-in-law will wake up.
Gently closing the door and placing a large bag of medicines on the coffee table, Lang Yanni carefully looked at the instructions for each medicine. Father-in-law had a little low-grade fever the day before, with so many years of care experience, she felt that it should be caused by gums, helped father-in-law to remove dentures, and sure enough, saw several ulcer faces, and after consulting doctors, she bought various treatment drugs.
After all, she has lived with her in-laws for 27 years and taken care of each other for 27 years, and As a daughter-in-law, Lang Yanni has warmed the family with her own actions in many details.
Rejoice in a happy reunion
The house of more than 150 square meters in Yanliang Crown Community was specially bought by Lang Yanni and her husband for her in-laws, on the one hand, because there is an elevator to facilitate the elderly to live, on the other hand, there are many elderly people and children, and there is also a place for the family to get together.
Lang Yanni and mother-in-law
The house is clean, the 78-year-old mother-in-law is sitting on the sofa watching TV, and in the kitchen, the old man's girl who has returned from the field is making bean paste for everyone. The 84-year-old father-in-law is resting in his bedroom due to illness. Every afternoon at this point, he needs to lie down for a while. A pet dog named "Edamame" quietly lay on the side of the old man's bed, Lang Yanni said that this dog has been raised for 14 years, and the father-in-law usually likes to be reluctant to scold, "When my father-in-law is asleep, the dog will guard and not allow others to disturb." ”
"My father-in-law called Guan Peicheng, who used to be a soldier and was six years older than his mother-in-law." Perhaps afraid of disturbing her father-in-law to sleep, Lang Yanni spoke softly. She opened her phone and looked happily at the video recorded yesterday. The daughter's 24th birthday met the Lantern Festival, and in the video, the family of 12 people gathered around a large cake, and the father-in-law sat in the middle, clapping his hands and singing the song "Happy Birthday to You". Lang Yanni was very touched, and through her daughter's birthday, she knew that everyone was happy for this happy reunion.
Lang Yanni calculated that she had been married to this family for 27 years. Shortly after entering the door, the father-in-law jokingly said that in order to live together, the daughter-in-law must learn to make hand rolled noodles, because the family likes to eat. "I learned from my mother-in-law, and now everyone likes to eat what I made." Lang Yanni smiled and said that the housekeeper's love of noodles, young and old, is that three meals of noodles a day will not be bothered.
Warmth comes from getting along little by little
Warmth actually comes from getting along bit by bit. Every holiday, the children will gather at the mother-in-law's house, with their children and nephews and nieces, and Lang Yanni is the absolute "child king" in those years. Going out for breakfast, the children gathered around a large table, and she was often jokingly called "the mother of the supernatural guerrillas." Lang Yanni, who loves to laugh, let the children follow her, the personality is very optimistic, and the elders in the community will greet her warmly.
Do housework
"One year my mother-in-law bought six striped fish for me to fry." In the kitchen, after Lang Yanni was busy, the eight-year-old niece took her two-year-old sister and fried one to secretly eat one. After so many years, the mother-in-law and Lang Yanni still can't help but be amused when they think about this.
As the child grew up, Lang Yanni found that her father-in-law and mother-in-law's health was not very good.
"My father-in-law had a brain infarction in 2010." That day was sitting and chatting, Lang Yanni found that her father-in-law's body always fell to the side, careful she quickly took it to the hospital for examination, "People who go to the hospital have a little fever, and a little confused to find out the cerebral infarction." "That time, my father-in-law lived in the courtyard for 14 days, and there were people to take care of it during the day, and at night it was Lang Yanni who accompanied herself.
Pick up the urine and wipe yourself, at first the father-in-law is a little embarrassed, and the time is naturally much better. Lang Yanni took good care of her meticulously and never gave up. When she dripped at night, she sat on the edge of the bed and watched, perhaps tired, and occasionally she would cough softly, "The guild will put the quilt on my legs for fear that I will catch a cold." At night, Lang Yanni never dared to fall asleep, and as soon as her father-in-law moved, she needed to get up and take care of it. From the daughter-in-law to the approval of his own girl, this feeling in the eyes of the father-in-law is completely due to Lang Yanni's most sincere efforts.
Action warms the family
People get older and sometimes become "willful" like a child. After her father-in-law was discharged from the hospital, Lang Yanni took care of her more carefully, including washing her feet. The old man did not want to, and Lang Yanni had to coax like a child. In April 2016, the mother-in-law had surgery because of the difficult knee joint, and Lang Yanni and her husband discussed buying a large house with an elevator for the in-laws to facilitate the entry and exit of the elderly.
Lang Yanni actually knows how to be grateful, when she gave birth to a child and sat in confinement, her mother-in-law always remembered her kindness. "When my mother-in-law brings hot rice, she will give me a towel to pad, for fear of falling ill in the hot month." After years of getting along, there is a tacit understanding and harmony between the in-laws and daughters-in-law. With a look from her mother-in-law, Lang Yanni knew what to do. Sometimes people from home, sit for a long time, the mother-in-law will rely on Lang Yanni, she knows that the mother-in-law wants to go to the bathroom, "a lot of heart words mother-in-law did not say to others, they told me." ”
On weekdays, Lang Yanni takes her mother-in-law to take a bath and cut her hair, and for a long time, everyone in the shop thinks that Lang Yanni is the girl of the old man. Once the girl took it with her, others also said", "Today the girl did not come is the daughter-in-law came", Lang Yanni smiled and said that her eldest sister was full of "vinegar" that day.
The second time her father-in-law was hospitalized was also a cerebral infarction, which was in September last year, when Lang Yanni found that her father-in-law walked a little inclined and could not take chopsticks steadily at dinner. The doctor diagnosed it as a coelux infarction, fortunately, thanks to the timely delivery, that time in the hospital, Lang Yanni was still busy before and after taking care of it.
reunion
"My daughter-in-law is good!" The mother-in-law praised her daughter-in-law vigorously, saying that she had a bad temper and spoke straight. The daughter-in-law has to buy new clothes for herself every year in the new season, and the frugal old man deliberately says that the style of clothes is not good and expensive, and "trains" the daughter-in-law. It's just that Lang Yanni never gets angry, she said that next month she will pull her big sister and fart upside down to buy clothes for the old man.