Now in order to let their children win at the starting line, many parents can be said to be racking their brains. Even in the kindergarten period of children, some parents have begun to be anxious. In the parent group, occasionally there will be children who will be praised by the teacher, and some parents will be envious. In fact, there are three "unspoken rules" in kindergartens, of course, teachers will not take the initiative to mention, but parents must know.
Many people see the unspoken rules, and the first thing that comes to mind is gift-giving. This is exactly wrong, one of the "unspoken rules" of kindergartens is that you can't give gifts to teachers, and you can't send red envelopes. Teaching is an honorable profession, especially for many kindergarten teachers, who often do this job not for salary, but sincerely like children.
If parents engage in these behaviors, teachers feel that this is a suspicion of their professional behavior. Not only that, but these behaviors are also strictly prohibited by the school, which makes it difficult for teachers to face. After the teacher rejects the parent, it will affect the perception of the child. In this way, although it will not treat children specially, it is naturally impossible to like it in your heart.
In addition to giving gifts to the teacher, the teacher can't love the students who are particularly mischievous. Now many children are only children, and they are the little bully at home. The elderly in the family, parents must obey him, if there is any dissatisfaction, will lose their temper, the family from a young age to the child to develop the habit of arrogance. For these habits, many parents still do not think so, thinking that their children are still young, do not understand things, and wait until they grow up.
Such children, because they are accustomed to solipsism at home, are the same when they go to school. If others do not obey him, they will lose their temper with other people's children. At this time, the teacher has to adjust, and such a child brings a lot of trouble to the teacher every day. Therefore, the teacher also feels a headache for such a child.
Therefore, parents should know that the kindergarten is also a small group, children to learn to get along with other small partners, you must learn to respect others, but also to tolerate each other, so that the character can be liked by adults and children in school. Of course, the teacher does not like to stab the head, and every day he causes trouble for the teacher, and other students hate him. Parents should guide their children correctly, and be polite to teachers and classmates. For example, say good morning to teachers and classmates every morning, and say goodbye to classmates after school.
There is also an "unspoken rule" in kindergartens, that is, teachers prefer children who dress to give people a clean feeling. Now that the conditions of every household are better, every child will naturally not lack clothes and pants, and many children's clothes can be matched with the clothes of the whole family. But more clothes are one thing, and parents should dress their children clean and neat.
For kindergarten teachers, they are also ordinary people and like to see children who have a better visual appearance. As a result, teachers prefer children who feel clean at first glance. Although some children may look good in themselves, due to the lack of attention of the family, each piece of clothing has stains that have not been washed, which will also give the teacher a sloppy feeling. In fact, children's clothes do not need to be expensive, and they can be washed and look comfortable.
However, although most of the children are in kindergartens, the education of parents is also very important and cannot be ignored. If children want to be liked by everyone in kindergarten, they should have a better personality. Now many families are problem families, parents will quarrel, in fact, parents quarrel to avoid children, children are still young, the heart will take the parental relationship very seriously. If the relationship between parents is not harmonious, the child will also be unhappy.
If the relationship between parents is not harmonious, the child will have a heart and worry that his parents will not want him. Every day when I go to kindergarten, I don't smile, I don't play with other children, and I envy other people's parents. If the child continues like this for a long time, he will have a sense of inferiority. Children are innocent, and if they don't smile in front of others every day, the teacher will not favor these students.
If a child grows up in a loving family, he will have a strong sense of confidence and security. Although the child is in the kindergarten every day, the parents cannot observe the child's behavior and mood at all times, but they can also show concern for the child when the child comes home. Although the child is not large, it can also be felt.
Every afternoon after picking up the child, parents can ask the child what happened in the kindergarten on the way home. Do children like kindergarten life? In kindergarten, there are any happy things to share with mom and dad, and any unhappy things can also be said to mom and dad.
When the child has a good performance in kindergarten, parents can also take the child to eat a delicious meal, and when the child does something wrong, the parents do not criticize it at the first time, but point out the impact of the child's wrong behavior. At the same time, let the child say that he will not make the same mistake next time, so that the child will feel happier in life.