"Heart Residence" takes the Big Family of the Gu Family as the main line and tells the feelings and lives of the children of the Gu Family. The grandchildren of the Gu family have Gu Lei and Gu Xin, and the granddaughters have Gu Qingyu. The marriages of these three people are all "wrong at the door" and they are not happy. Through the marriage of the three of them, the director reveals the truth of marriage: a marriage with love is not necessarily happy, but a marriage without love is doomed to be unhappy.
1. Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, romantic modernist love. The two people met in their youth, when Shi Yuan's family was well-off, while Gu Qingyu's family was generally well-off, and the two staged a youthful ignorant love. Because of the times, they had to separate, and then agreed to see each other in the old place.
Because of this agreement, Gu Qingyu has been waiting, waiting for the reappearance of the person in his heart. Although the boyfriend talked about one after another, she never really liked anyone, they were all "substitutes" for the person in her heart.
Finally one day, she met the man, but reality shattered her dreams. He was no longer the glittering man of his memory, but full of decadence and embarrassment. She hesitated and flinched, but in the end, she chose to accept him. So the two got married.
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, they are together because of love, but their family situation and life experience are not matched, so that their three views cannot be consistent.
Gu Qingyu, graduated from a prestigious university, with an annual income of millions or even tens of millions, lives in a mansion, dressed and supplied by luxury goods; Shi Yuan, a secondary school graduate, a small tour guide who is forced to work, lives in the alley, and the people who interact with him are ordinary people. Can two people carry everything with love?
Obviously hard.
Although we don't yet know how the plot will develop, we can already see that there are many contradictions between them.
Marriage, only love, is really not enough.
2. Gu Xin and Ge Yue
Unlike Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, there is no love between Gu Xin and Ge Yue.
Gu Xin broke up with his ex-girlfriend Sun Qi, who had been talking for more than a decade, and then lightning married Ge Yue, a "second generation official". Although she is not good-looking, not tall, nor intelligent or clever, she has a good father, and her father can bring Gu Xin a lot of support at work.
To talk about family circumstances, the two families are indeed "not right at home". Take buying a house, Ge Yue bought a set of tens of millions of mansions without blinking. When you go out to travel, you also have to stay in a high-end hotel. Because for her, it's ordinary life. For Gu Xin, this kind of life is too luxurious.
The asymmetry of the family, coupled with the lack of sufficient emotional foundation for two people, the marriage was in crisis from the beginning.
Just married, Gu Xin was willing to listen to Ge Yue's father's arrangement, and also paid attention to keeping a distance from his ex-girlfriend, because this would allow him to be promoted quickly; but later, with Ge Yue's father's accident, Gu Xin began to "ignore it". Not only was he unclear with Sun Qi, but he also cheated on Feng Xiqian later, and even Ge Yue was unwilling to accompany him in the late pregnancy examination.
The "wrong door" between the two of them is only a superficial reason, and the deeper reason is that Gu Xin does not love Ge Yue at all.
Man, never overestimate yourself. When you get married, you think you can do it, but as time goes by, you will find that marriage without love as the basis is like boiled water, and the more you drink, the weaker you are.
3. Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin
In the original work, Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin had no feelings. Because Feng Xiaoqin married Gu Lei, just to calculate. However, after the TV series was adapted, Feng Xiaoqin loved Gu Lei. Maybe it's not the kind of love that is carved into the bone marrow, but it's also the kind of love that's not bad.
When Mrs. Zhang persuaded Feng Xiaoqin to marry Boss Shi, Feng Xiaoqin said that I didn't like him. It can be seen that Feng Xiaoqin still has a bottom line in marriage.
Gu Lei still liked Feng Xiaoqin very much, although Feng Xiaoqin's various calculations forced him to take the financial and accounting certificate, but this could not affect his liking for her.
Therefore, they have an emotional basis.
However, their marriage was also "not right at the right door." Gu Lei is a native of Shanghai, has a big house in the local area, although he lives with his grandmother and father, but the conditions are not bad; while Feng Xiaoqin is a foreign daughter-in-law, there is no culture, the conditions are very general.
Such marriages come together, although there are no major conflicts, but small problems continue. Feng Xiaoqin will never be able to integrate into the Gu family, and Gu Lei's sister Gu Qingyu has always been wary of her.
It is also because of this complex interpersonal relationship that Gu Lei will have accidents.
Although many young people at the moment are scornful of this view, it is very reasonable to a certain extent. Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, the two families have too much difference in cognition, and when they look at one thing, they have different views, which is prone to conflict and causes bad influences on the couple.
Marriage must also be based on love, and marriage without love cannot last long.