Why is "sister-brother love" growing so fast? For these 3 reasons, men still need to understand
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Create Date: 2022-03-2113:16
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The term "sister-brother love" seems to be very popular now, and even many women are more willing to accept sister-brother love.
This is not the author's rhetoric, but there are substantial data, since 2010, women's marriages have increased to 40%, especially in street visits, those women after 95 are more likely to accept sister-brother love.
Some people say,
Weren't the ancients "old men and young wives"?
What I want to say is that it was before, and now the times are different, and the love between ages has long since broken through.
Although the times have changed, women also have a better understanding of themselves for marriage, plus they are very independent, resulting in women now preferring sister-brother love? These three aspects, men should pay attention to.
Many women can't accept their brothers, and they don't understand things if they don't succeed
Zhang Ailing said: "A man becomes immature, really can't look at age, age does not mean maturity." In fact, this is reasonable, some men are not young, but they are still very naïve.
But now love, are based on the economic basis, if a man is not young, the career is still ambiguous, for women, is very annoying, let alone love happens.
There is also a kind of man, very ignorant, do not listen to the words of the elders, emotional intelligence is not good, so it is easy to offend people in front of talking and doing things, women are particularly dislike to deal with this kind of person,
Women feel that it is easy to make themselves angry when associating with such people.
It is not unreasonable that women cannot accept this kind of man, but women can tolerate their brothers and do not understand things, and the more independent women are, the more they can see this.
Men lack the desire to conquer and patience
Tu Lei said in the show: "Whether it is love or marriage, men lose their desire to conquer and patience, which is equivalent to ending." That's a very agreeable statement.
Women are raised in a doting environment, in love and married life, I hope that a man can have a desire to conquer himself, but now the older man, it seems to have become less of that desire to conquer, but choose to go with the flow.
It is also worth noting that some men now feel that the little woman is too much and unwilling to take the initiative, but women do not think so
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I felt that the big man had no patience and desire to conquer,
It's better to let yourself be a sister, so you are willing to find a younger brother as a partner.
However, men also like to find a sister as a partner, after all, the sister is tolerant everywhere, so this has become a phenomenon of sister-brother love.
Nowadays, women know how to dress up and maintain better
Today's women have such an idea, in the case of their ability, more maintenance will only make themselves younger, especially in the face of love, even if they find a brother who is a few years older than themselves.
Even more frightening is the idea that the sister has herself, and the sister does not have herself, which is the competitiveness of women, so this value is placed here, so there is love that cannot attract her brother?
This shows a problem, that is, "the trend of the times," and it is no wonder that the current sisters and brothers are in love so much.
Finally, I would like to say:
Men who want to find objects, the pattern needs to be opened, many times to explain the reasoning to the sister, it is really better to listen to the sister to tell stories.
Therefore, whether it is love or marriage, it really does not depend on how much the age difference is, as long as each other's minds are at a level, basically this relationship will be easy to combine.
Even the marriage of the male university is not necessarily happy, and even the love of the female university is not necessarily unhappy, so it all depends on whether the mind is on the same channel.
I remember Professor Chen Guo said that women are three to four years older than men, and their happiness index is often the highest.
I don't know what everyone thinks about sister-brother love, if it is you, will you choose sister-brother love?